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RE: impossible??? - 11/8/2004 2:24:42 PM

Yankeestick

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ORIGINAL: Synocense

I would love to read more profiles for those seeking lifetime relationships. Long term relationships could mean anything to anyone, but there is only one definition for a lifetime.

Syn

Read mine. I'm not real interested in "pump and dump" - to borrow a phrase from another venue.

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RE: impossible??? - 11/8/2004 3:28:43 PM

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Hey yoursalone this other sub who wrote to you is wrong and I'm sorry that she has only encountered this type of Dom. Don't believe it some of us even believe in monogamy.
( truth, justice and the American way )
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RE: impossible??? - 11/9/2004 9:46:39 PM

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Very well written too! : )

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RE: impossible??? - 11/10/2004 5:33:22 AM

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Merc n beth hit it right on, though to be fair the effort really must be two ways. An extremely creative Dominant would quickly become frustrated if all the time he tried something new, and the sub/slave just shrugged and said ho hum.

Ds and Ms relationships, while different in some ways to Vanilla relationships, are still relationships - for things to work, work must be on both sides of the table.

Rest assured, as those who attest here, and countless others, are looking for exactly what you are looking for (myself included.) Having said that, while I would love a 'lifetime' relationship, it's like building the pyramids - it happens one block at a time, and doesn't happen overnight. I figure if I can make it through the week with a woman, then I have a better chance of making it through the month, year, decade, etc.

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RE: impossible??? - 11/14/2004 2:43:21 AM

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because of the nature of the scenario, but are all doms this way? In short, socipathic assholes? Are there none who truely seek love and the master/slave symbiosis?

First off you are tempting to address two different issues here, two which by the way conterdict one another.

Most everyone desires Love in their life. And if not love then in the least affection from another in sum form and by sumone that We have sumthing in common with. We are not the norm and Our needs are not either in Alternate Living hence neither is Our Love interests.

a relationship based off of the concepts of Master/slave cannot be looked at unless you first understand the concepts of slavery and a Dominants objectification of a posession, and making the comment that states that all Masters are sociopathic ass holes is well half true. Anyone in a Alternate Lifestyle Living is deemed to be a sociopath in that They donot live as society deems to be whats normal. However most Masters either online or in real life that Ive met have been quite nice and there are only a few true ass holes that Ive run across....... HOWEVER there have been many online whom are not actually Masters but simply live the fantasy of such or think they are but are not that tend to come off ans a ass hole and it sounds like you ran into a few LOL......
It takes many many years for a Master to develop a love for a posession and that posession has to have proven their selfs in order to gain such admiration from a Master and your thought that love and honor should come BEFOR commitment in a slave type relationship is well to say the least putting the buggy befor the horse. JMO

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RE: impossible??? - 11/14/2004 2:47:43 AM

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