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Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? - 1/5/2013 2:44:37 PM   
spideycool69


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Status: offline 		2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:46:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?


How long have you known your money mistress?



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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:46:25 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		No. Give it to me instead and I will safeguard it for you.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:47:58 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Only if you are comfortable with her maxing it out and leaving you with the bill. And if she does do this, then you may not hear from her again.

I wouldn't do it, but then i'm not into financial domination.

Your call really.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:50:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?


Hmm. You should have been honest and explained that you weren't comfortable giving her the number rather than making excuses - So you might want to feel troubled about the fact that you were evasive.

As for feeling troubled for not handing over the number.... Really?

Seriously?

If you're seriously worried about whether you should have handed over your credit card number to someone you don't completely trust, then I would urge you to cut up all your credit cards, because it may be that you're simply too foolish to have a credit card.


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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:52:13 PM   
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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:52:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?


How long have you known your money mistress?





I have known her for at least an year now.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:53:57 PM   
spideycool69


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No. Give it to me instead and I will safeguard it for you.


Lol

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 2:54:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?


Some people are ignorant of the possible consequences.of such an action.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:01:51 PM   
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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:05:45 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		If you have a trusting relationship with her and know that she wouldn't take advantage of it, then yes. I have two of My slave cc#s.

Eta: there are very few of us that are responsible, you know if she is or not. Here is a better idea. Go to Walmart or any retail store, get a prepaid card. Load it with a couple hundred and give her that number. If she disappears, then you learned a valuable lesson about HER. If she is responsible with it then make a choice if you want to give her your real credit card number.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:08:03 PM   
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Shes not on this website. We have interacted via internet and telephone,

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:11:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you really have to ask that question than I suggest you give her your financial power of attorney as well.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:14:51 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Point is still valid!! If you haven't met this person & done it often enough to know they really are who they claim to be (not a dude), where they live, where they work, address, kids the lot...then no you don't know enough about this person to trust them with a credit card in your name!

Even if you're into financial domination that tune quickly changes when you get a 5, 10 or $20,000 bill for shoes, kink wear, new laptop & a dungeon full of gear...then never hear from them again.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:15:32 PM   
spideycool69


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

If you have a trusting relationship with her and know that she wouldn't take advantage of it, then yes. I have two of My slave cc#s.

Eta: there are very few of us that are responsible, you know if she is or not. Here is a better idea. Go to Walmart or any retail store, get a prepaid card. Load it with a couple hundred and give her that number. If she disappears, then you learned a valuable lesson about HER. If she is responsible with it then make a choice if you want to give her your real credit card number.


That really is a good idea. Thanks.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:17:28 PM   
StrictlyADomina


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Status: offline 		I think that giving her your credit card is a bad idea, so I'm inclined to say "NO". However if you are bound and determined to do it the safer way would be to use a pre-paid card and put on it what you are happy with losing. Think of it as gambling, don't bet what you can't afford to lose.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:17:35 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Thanks. Just be careful. I think things like this old be the beginning to why ppl have hate or fin dommes. Or, it could be a start to so etching beautiful. I hope the latter. Good luck.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:18:31 PM   
ServosCor


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Status: offline 		Was this a r/t or online relationship?  If online only I would have not felt compelled to hand out my credit info.  R/t?  that maybe different. (not for me tho).  If you are asked again for a credit card and you want to comply, what you could do is get a pre~paid Visa card with the amount you are prepared to lose and hand that over to your Money MIstress.  Or learn the words:  HARD LIMIT when it comes to your credit situation.
 
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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:19:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: spideycool69
2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse
and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

That depends. Can she kick your ass?
If this happened 2 months ago, and she hasn't asked you for it again, why is this a concern now?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:20:12 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		Your gut told you not to...it told you not to for a reason.
listen to it...
If you enjoy giving her your money..do what TN suggested... keep reloading it if that is your thing...
She may be trustworthy, but is it worth your credit history and lack of money worth it? even after a year, of non skin on skin contact, people can and will screw you over, even if it takes a couple of year. Thats not directed at fin dommes , but people in general.


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