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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 8:18:22 AM   
Yankeestick


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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden

Actually.. "oroborus" isn't a word. Perhaps he meant:

op·pro·bri·ous ( P ) Pronunciation Key (-prbr-s)
adj.
Expressing contemptuous reproach; scornful or abusive: opprobrious epithets.
Bringing disgrace; shameful or infamous: opprobrious conduct.



Sorry, the linguist-o-phile in me couldn't resist a trip to dictionary.com over that one.

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The giant worm Orobourous encircles the world and consumes itself by biting it's own tail.

Not exactly the same as Suleiman's Yogic dom capable of exploring his own rectal cave, but like stef said, context context context.

That said, this is the ONLY part of the thread I really understand. I guess I'll have to go back to that dusty copy of BDSM for Dummies I've misplaced.

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 1:12:51 PM   
inadazey


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I'd like to know about the baby, also... The thought of carrying a baby with the plan of putting him/her with another parent by choice, and not because of not being able to take care of a child, makes me sooo sad.... I'm childless, but I can only imagine that giving up one's child would be one of the hardest things in the world to do. :(
But maybe it's just one of the more "fringe" aspects of the lifestyle that I'm better off remaining ignorant about....

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 1:51:18 PM   
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quote:

she is needing slaves to prove to these Doms/Dommes, that there are REAL slaves/Subs looking for REAL ownership.


wait a minute here.... did my eyes just read that right? Because her master picked profiles that said "I want to be a real slave"... and they fell through..... now "we" all have to prove him wrong in the fact that there are real slaves here? *chuckles*
Firstly... My opinion is that when a profile says "wants to be"... it is already stating they are not already there. one doesn't simply "poof" become a slave, they grow into it, they mold into it... with guidance and trust... so, yes... if her master expected to charge in like a bull with a whip and the title of master... I can see why all the girls "failed him".

Secondly...
quote:

Right now this slave has about 15 Doms looking for a real time slaves...and reason why they contact me is that collarme and other web sites have failed them so now they are trying the one-in-one approach, and slave doesn't have that many friends!


Am I the only one here who sees this as the lazy way to weed out what one doesn't want? If a Master cannot take the time to seek me himself, or spend time to get to know me... wow... So many things come to mind to this. While I am all for introducing two people one knows and feels they may be compatable... to take out an "ad" is just a touch much in my opinion. Call me crazy... but I would hope that the Master that is intrested in me, would persue at least enough to not have a friend place an ad for him begging for slaves to show up in line. We all wait to find what we seek... some paitiently, others a bit less than paitient... but I would never dream of asking someone else to "challenge" the Doms to appear so I could select the one I wanted. I like the one on one personal touch of finding, meeting, getting to know... etc.


quote:

slave zuchtstute has a had over 20 Doms/Domme commenting on her journal entry that her Master posted, .....................
I'm going to post the entry...If there are subs out there that feel the same way please respond back...


I could say the same for the many so-called Dominants I find here and elsewhere... but, acceptance is a rare find... they have the right to live to the degree within their lifestyle choice as they are comfortable with. True, it may not match what "my" defination of that area is... but that's why I get to know people.. to see who they are, how they feel about things.. how they define their lifestyle and life in general.

My advice, for what it's worth....
Take the time to learn someone... I wasn't always who I am now.. it is something I grew into. Take a look at yourselves, say 10-15 years back... have you not changed? grown? If anyone wants to know about me... all they need do is ask.... but all to many "doms" say tell me everything about you, and that's that. Good things are worth the time to nurture and learn.
I apoligise for the rant... but this posting really grated my cheeze. Please do be well and safe... and I do hope I haven't offended.
~slavegirl~

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 2:14:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavewithnoname
quote:


she is needing slaves to prove to these Doms/Dommes, that there are REAL slaves/Subs looking for REAL ownership.

wait a minute here.... did my eyes just read that right? Because her master picked profiles that said "I want to be a real slave"... and they fell through..... now "we" all have to prove him wrong in the fact that there are real slaves here? *chuckles*

My first impression of the original post was that it was a thinly disguised personal. "You are all fakes! If you are not a fake, you will immediately arrange to bear many children for my Master, because that is what REAL slaves do! Act now, otherwise everyone will know that you're a FAKE!" I was a little surprised that the mods left it up, but it has certainly provided plenty of fodder for discussion.

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 2:22:24 PM   
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I plugged "oroborus" into this online dictionary and it came returned the definition for "ouroboros". I never even noticed that it returned a word with a different spelling though apparently correct meaning, so now I am really impressed that this search engine found the right word instead of just returning "not found".

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 3:52:02 PM   
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quote:

This website is intended to find each other in the S/M-LIFESTYLE scene, and not for some vanilla's. about how true it is here on collareme.


i won't even go into the subject of someone challenging the theory of whether or not there are an abundance of REAL slaves/submissives and such... silliness ... hogwash ... petty at best. That's my rant on that subject. Done. Game over.

Seems to me there ARE plenty who have found success in finding exactly what they are seeking. Anyone who is willing to take the time to read the "Positive Experience" threads can see so for themselves.

i don't know the exact count on members registered here at collarme. i don't know the ratio of Dom/Domme vs. submissives and/or slaves. i am willing to bet that the numbers are quite high either way. i am also willing to bet that based on the number of success stories posted (& who knows how many others have found success that HAVEN'T posted there?) that there are many REAL fishies still available at collarme. Where else does there even exist such a huge pool for fishing in of this type? IMHO, i think if the Doms/Dommes which zuchstute1969 is playing matchmaker for would bait their own hooks respectively and understand that sometimes ya gotta toss a few fishies back, sometimes need to improve upon the bait used, & keep patience while seeking a catch worth keeping, they'd have success stories to add as well.


And ..... *i* too would also like to hear about your baby that was due this past August zuchstute1969.

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 4:59:37 PM   
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In the afternoons when I come home first, I fire up my computer, check email and scope out the boards. Today was a loooooooooong, day and I really needed a laugh. One would think that to find that laugh, I would go to the humor section - not necessary, I say, not necessary at all.

I thought at first that I would discuss that neither I nor my submissive sisters and brothers have anything to prove to anyone, but that is too self-evident and overdone. It does occur to me that male submissives are totally cut out of this one - sorry guys.

I finally decided that this post is a joke to get us all excited posted by someone who is bored and has nothing productive to do with this day. IF I had a day with which to be silly, it would not be making such posts, but that's just me, we all self-entertain in various ways.

I like a good joke at the end of the day - thanks bunches.

newflowers

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RE: prove them wrong! - 11/9/2004 5:16:33 PM   
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I'm with MS Eden on this one, strange post. Not sure what purpose was either. Accept what I got from it, is perhaps going back and forth, or not hearing any reply back from a perspective Dom/Sub. From my own experience, when I first got back on this site, I was inadated with mail. I choose the ones I wanted to respond too, and the ones I knew were of no interest to me. In the beginning I wanted to be polite and write back to all of them, but, forget it, I couldn't keep up with them. Also, remember your not everyone's cup of tea. Even after a few emails back and forth you could discover something that you know isn't for you. And let's not forget, just because this is a legit site, there are still creeps out there, even here~!!!
Rae

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RE: prove them opprobrious! - 11/9/2004 9:05:37 PM   
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I did indeed mean to evoke the image of the world-encircling serpent, who is mythically linked with symbolism of eternity, but also with greed and all consuming hunger. In this case, however, I meant the simplest context. The worm oroborus bites it's own tail in a never-ending cycle, much in the same way that some folk seem to be ever involved in a deeply personal introspection.

My response was, and is, the only verbage I have for my complete and nearly inarticulate grasp of the topic at hand and the personalities which seem to have begun it.

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RE: prove them opprobrious! - 11/10/2004 7:43:31 AM   
Yankeestick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

My response was, and is, the only verbage I have for my complete and nearly inarticulate grasp of the topic at hand and the personalities which seem to have begun it.


What he said

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RE: prove them opprobrious! - 11/10/2004 8:39:35 AM   
MaitresseEden


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Yankeestick

quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

My response was, and is, the only verbage I have for my complete and nearly inarticulate grasp of the topic at hand and the personalities which seem to have begun it.


What he said



ROFLMAO... DITTO!


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RE: prove them opprobrious! - 11/10/2004 9:10:44 AM   
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I just checked my pocket so that i could use some ten dollar words as well. Seems i only have $2.50. Ah well, such is life.

sns

ps... antidisestablishmentarianism... can i join the club now?

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RE: prove them wrong! - 12/5/2004 3:16:02 AM   
Wolfsbabygirlz


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greetings to you ....,My respect goes to you on reading what you wrote.
Wonderfully said...agree totally, so much so I had to copy your messege, wanted to remember this. Thank you....very cool
Wolfsbabygirlz =)

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RE: prove them wrong! - 12/5/2004 4:50:49 AM   
sterlingsweet


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I really don't feel I have to "Prove" anything to anyone...
Only to the "One " I am choosing to submit to.





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RE: prove them wrong! - 12/5/2004 6:49:47 AM   
deannalynn


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Warm Greetings :)


I have heard that statement before..."You are not a real slave..."

Well, now I have my panties in a bunch :)

I think that because a woman is submissive it does not mean all of a sudden she looses values, morals, ethics and common sense. Also... responsibility for ones actions. I have heard what I think the oddest requests and those are red flags for me, and if all of a sudden someone thinks I am anything but a slave, it really doesnt matter in the long run.

Red Flags

I am looking for a slave to work outside the home with my other 3 slaves and I will stay home and rule the roost.

I am looking for a slave to service my underage son.

How many daughters do you have and what do they look like?

I will train your sons to be Masters in my bdsm family.

I am looking for a breeder slave.

If you gain any weight, I will cage you until it is gone.

I will shave your head.

I enjoy genital mutilation.

What do you think of body modifications?

I am looking for a slave to service my primary slave.

I am looking for a slave who will service 14 of my vanilla friends on Friday nights.

I could make good money if I turned you out.

These are my red flags and when I hear them, I say no thank you and move on. The list is endless and when I get called to the pearly gates I am not going to get any brownie points because I was the "most" slave .

deanna

*unties her panties*




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RE: prove them wrong! - 3/6/2005 9:18:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: deannalynn

Red Flags

I am looking for a slave to work outside the home with my other 3 slaves and I will stay home and rule the roost.

I am looking for a slave to service my underage son.

How many daughters do you have and what do they look like?

I will train your sons to be Masters in my bdsm family.

I am looking for a breeder slave.

If you gain any weight, I will cage you until it is gone.

I will shave your head.

I enjoy genital mutilation.

What do you think of body modifications?

I am looking for a slave to service my primary slave.

I am looking for a slave who will service 14 of my vanilla friends on Friday nights.

I could make good money if I turned you out.



Hee hee... Thank you for the bit of amusement.

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