CougarRick
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ORIGINAL: wannapleez (Based on my observations from this forum. While this has happened to me once, I see it happening to a lot of people. It's the latter that inspires this post.) If you're a male newbie and you ask a newbie-type question here, put on a seat belt and a cup before you click OK. For every piece of useful advice you get, you will also receive 5-10 responses crapping on you. These will come from a variety of sources: * The guy who has been here two weeks longer than you, and therefore considers himself an expert, and considers you a dumbass * The man-hater who thinks that any man asking any question is just using an excuse to sexually exploit her * The woman who thinks that being a Domme and being a bitch are synonymous * The person who gets frustrated with the newbie because his issue was addressed in a thread a mere 5 years ago * The wannabe that doesn't fit any of those categories, but tags along to crap on you too Good BDSM advice can be found here. But to find it, you have to wade through a lot of shit from people who just need to get laid. LOL Oh yes. I remember my first post here. I felt like a new guy in jail who had just been passed around the cell block. Granted, my first post was not very well thought out, and probably did desrve a bit of construtive criticism....but Oh my god my ass was hurting after that thread ended. Anyway, it's just the internet. Have a thick skin, and eventually the people you referred to will have a brand new rookie to pick on and you will get to know who the nice people are.
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