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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:06:22 PM

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Thanks. I don't know why I am so fascinated with this; it must be those damn Victorian scenarios I keep reading about....

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:09:49 PM

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Let it be Victorias secret, then. You will grow to dread it, I warrant.

I scrub my hands in it to help with minor arthritis issues in my fingers.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:17:28 PM

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D/s to me isn't about the kinky sex, it's about the service. Other than providing wank material, she cannot provide service to a Dominant via webcam.

I could, easily, have missed the webcam part (it seemed to me she said they don't have time for that?) but I'll offer you some examples of service to a Dominant partner via webcam or chat:

Modeling for an artistic Dom, to sketch or sculpt
Doing research on any number of subjects
Managing scheduling of appointments or etc
Organizing events
Reading poetry or other prose
Entertaining them with games, discussion or so on and so forth
Teaching the Dom a skill you happen to be adept at
Tutoring them in any number of subjects

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:19:33 PM

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Let it be Victorias secret, then. You will grow to dread it, I warrant.

I scrub my hands in it to help with minor arthritis issues in my fingers.

Ron, you are a man of many facets!!

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:21:37 PM

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I got at least two ways I like to get me a blowjob, so, yeah, I am sort of forced to agree with your assessment.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:22:19 PM

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Only two ways? tsk, tsk. I can think of many ways.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:24:00 PM

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I was trying to be sort of self deprecatingly bashful (I get more blowjobs that way).

If you do a Morticia Adams to them and just end up with a bundle of the shafts, and run them slowly over tits or ass, you can feel every single one of those fucking hypodermic needles break off into you.............. (edit, them being the nettles)

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 3:35:06 PM

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Hello Doms,
Thank you for taking your time to read this. My Dom is looking to swap me with you sub as a learning experience. It will only be 3-7 days. Please message me if you are interested. I will give you my yahoo to chat.
Thank you Sir
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Why would I want to down grade?

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 8:16:04 PM

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Wear a pair of shorts and walk thru an overgrown pasture. I guarandamntee you'll find nettles.

Oh yeah! Having lived in PA, right over the Jersey border with woods behind my house, I can tell you they are everywhere! It's like poison ivy. You just can't get rid of it.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/20/2013 9:24:11 PM

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Hello Doms,
Thank you for taking your time to read this. My Dom is looking to swap me with you sub as a learning experience. It will only be 3-7 days. Please message me if you are interested. I will give you my yahoo to chat.
Thank you Sir
lauren

Why would I want to down grade?

Much less piss off the apple cart, even the new girl is smarter than this

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/21/2013 2:21:18 PM

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Wear a pair of shorts and walk thru an overgrown pasture. I guarandamntee you'll find nettles.

Oh yeah! Having lived in PA, right over the Jersey border with woods behind my house, I can tell you they are everywhere! It's like poison ivy. You just can't get rid of it.

Commence's planning summer excursion most pronto...

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/21/2013 6:31:17 PM

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when I whip my girl with nettles, it is not a 'simulation', she hurts. And when I grab her by the hair and tell her to gobble that cock like its her last meal on earth, you can quote me....'no simulation' whatsover. It's her life, at that point, to drain that testosterone off me.

Not to hijack, but do you really use nettles? I always read Victorian erotica about them and find it so hot, but here in NJ, I don't suppose one could find nettles anywhere. :)

In NJ try chinatown, you're looking for a homeopathic apothocary (eastern med pharmacy)

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/21/2013 11:23:46 PM

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In NJ try chinatown, you're looking for a homeopathic apothocary (eastern med pharmacy)

Ok, I have lived in NJ all my life, and I have no idea where we have a "chinatown." Or did you mean Chinatown in NYC? That would actually be very convenient for SexyRed because she is really close to the city.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/21/2013 11:29:46 PM

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There are homeopathic/natural medicine places all over NJ.

I'd wager that red could find one close enough in NJ to make paying tolls prohibitive to the cost/effect of just going to one in NJ.

I'm in New Brunswick and I know of two such places to which I could walk (if the weather were warmer).

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 1:10:28 AM

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Wow, thanks for all the advice on nettles.

I am sure this is one fantasy I could regret, but love how you guys are so helpful, lol.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 7:37:36 AM

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Thats you pal and does not serve as the modus operandi for all of us.

I could care less, it is in the void. Just like tv, I know its three oclock and I spin the channel knob, and I get Spongebob.....
I beat her, I get my cock sucked. I don't gotta know electromagnetic spectrum or what the color bands on the resistors count up to.

and simulation does not mean what you think it means. I end with concrete outcomes. I don't give a fuck what goes on in her head, so long as I get mine.....

Any teen age boy is capable of what you describe. So, you have cock and you grab some hair and use her. Wow.

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 7:41:18 AM

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And you do some fuckin magic with your soothing lotions and gels, and your fights on the boards and your Spongebob whip and tawses?

Your deep and abiding insight into the psyche of women as slaves, has not been revealed to me until just this moment. And I am gonna pass........

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 7:48:19 AM

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Be sure to put the tutorial on Youtube for educational purposes!

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 8:00:29 AM

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Yes, I am rational. I live in the real world, not the fantasy that you an Tammy live in (until the next public airing of all your problems).

You proclaim to be a dominant, yet you also recognize you have absolutely no control over your submissive and to top it off, you have this bizarre need to feed your OCD by planning elaborate scenes.

Newsflash sugar tits, YOUR definition of BDSM is not everyone's definition. No one cares what fantasy world you live in, or your lack of understanding of reality or psychology, sociology or basic human interaction.

You seem to be replying under the delusion that the OP only wanted the point of view of dominants. Well, I'm a switch, so that makes me qualified to answer, even though I still believe you are deluded.

This is a young girl who is being led down the rosy path by someone who is clueless (do you feel a kinship with him?). What most of us have done is to attempt to keep her from doing something she will regret when the frenzy is over, or when she finds herself posted on every amateur porn site there is, which ever comes first.

So please, feel free, in all your domly dominess to tell her what a wonderful idea it is for her to continue doing what she is doing. I doubt you care if she is later hurt by doing what she is doing.

As an aside, your misunderstanding of the terms "simulation" and "virtual" is disturbing.

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Yes, I am rational. I live in the real world, not the fantasy that you an Tammy live in (until the next public airing of all your problems).

I live in a real world of 24/7 and that is not all Roses and there are some Thorns indeed but we enjoy it together, thank you very much for asking.

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You proclaim to be a dominant, yet you also recognize you have absolutely no control over your submissive and to top it off, you have this bizarre need to feed your OCD by planning elaborate scenes.

You suggest we do away with the safe word and one is not a Dom if he allows safewords. You also suggest Doms who put together scenes have a bizarre need.

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This is a young girl who is being led down the rosy path by someone who is clueless (do you feel a kinship with him?). What most of us have done is to attempt to keep her from doing something she will regret when the frenzy is over, or when she finds herself posted on every amateur porn site there is, which ever comes first.

You are such a nice person for looking out for this "young girl". I don't remember her asking you and she is not a young girl, she is an adult.

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You seem to be replying under the delusion that the OP only wanted the point of view of dominants. Well, I'm a switch, so that makes me qualified to answer, even though I still believe you are deluded.

Actually, she did not want anyone's opinion. She instead asked male Doms if they were interested in swapping. Are you in the right thread?

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RE: Swapping submissives for a few days? - 2/22/2013 8:11:37 AM

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And you do some fuckin magic with your soothing lotions and gels, and your fights on the boards and your Spongebob whip and tawses?

Your deep and abiding insight into the psyche of women as slaves, has not been revealed to me until just this moment. And I am gonna pass........

1) You need to control yourself.
2) Yes, I do fuckin magic. Yes.
3) I have little time for the forums and you seem to have a lot, go figure.
4) My Cecilia Wain made whips are what? You want one, don't you? It's better than rubbing leaves.

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