lizi
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Joined: 2/1/2009 Status: offline
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Hi Lisha, seems like you may have your panties in a bundle- that's what we said where I grew up, lol. I'm glad you settled down a bit, it's always a negative thing to approach groups of human beings with a broad concept, because many of the innocents get thrown under the bus as well as the ones who should be there. Think of it from your own point of view...it always stinks when someone starts off by drawing a large group that you happen to be part of, and then says that the whole group has their heads up their asses because their mother dresses them funny - or whatever variation on that is spouted. Yeah, hurts doesn't it when you KNOW that your mother took great care in dressing you every day! So you get the drift... Um yes....there are a lot of men who are looking for easy sex. BDSM isn't any different than any other walk of life. I'm sure this isn't the first time you've encountered men who try to fool you into being what they think you want, so you'll give them access to your body. That's pretty much a fact of life. Eh...brush it off. If it bothers you that much I'd reconsider entering the dating world and think about spending my time at home with a good book. You're not going to escape it here, at your church social, or at the local meeting of Parents Without Partners. That's how it is, there are clueless men out there who live by what their penis makes them do. Oh well. Big deal. It's been like that since Adam and Eve, I'm not sure why BDSM would be any different. You are certainly entitled to your preferences, but do you have to express them in a way here in this thread that makes anyone who isn't in your stated group look like a POS? Would you like it if the tables were turned? I'm talking about the swipe at the short, overweight, construction workers out there. Doesn't really reflect well on someone to be punitive about looks etc. As far as what other sites you are linked to...your picture comes up as being posted on a number of dating and sex sites. When that happens it usually means the person posting the picture has taken it off one of these sites- which means that the picture isn't of them. It does seem at this point that you have posted a picture to represent yourself here that may not belong to you, and probably isn't 'you'. In fact, maybe that's part of the problem with these clueless men, they've seen your picture on these other sex sites, or tracked it there, and think you're fair game for being their sexual partner.
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