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ORIGINAL: peterpeter
I always have a kinky desire for Extreme and Prolonged facesitting; it's to less extent about oral service, but more pronounced to objectification kind of humiliation; Face is the noble part of a human, when it's being sat under a lady's butt, it's easily seen who is superior; this thought always makes me thrilling from feeling of humiliation, especially when that noble part is being kept for prolonged period of time under some kinds of extreme treatment.
I would like to see your comments from a Domme's viewpoint.
Sincerely
Peter
What we are talking about is perception. This is important. If I, as the femdom, perceive that you are just getting off on my ass being on your face, because that's your humiliation fetish, I don't feel very dominant.
When I meet a man, I develop a perception about what I THINK makes him feel most humiliated. I see it in my own mind's eye. I feel it in my core. I want to feel authentically what is going to hurt his precious male ego, and it's not about his cock. The way it works for me is this. I humiliate him (for real), then I get wet and ALL turned on and shove that in his face - "Look, you poor thing, I am degrading you, and it's making me wet!" and then he gets turned on because I am wet. Then I humiliate him further because he's degraded AND aroused. That's the "full circle humiliation" for me, and it's tricky to make happen, but it can.
I can do facesitting for the hell of it, but call it what it is. It's a man who gets off on pretending to be humiliated but he wants it, pure and simple. Real humiliation calls for pain of the ego. It calls for real shame. A man does not dream or desire to be put into the position nor does he seek out and dictate who goes in what position. And it isn't easy to get there.
Again, there is nothing WRONG with it, but it's a different kind of "play." There's teasing, shame-play, etc. I have sat on a man's face who hated it and struggled and I smothered him and it was a fight to get him to hold still - yeah, that's hot. I've had to tie men down or have a girlfriend hold his head in place. Yes, good stuff. But a man saying -- ok, this is where I sit and you sit and this is why, etc. etc., not so hot.
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