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peterpeter -> Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 4:46:09 AM)

I always have a kinky desire for Extreme and Prolonged facesitting; it's to less extent about oral service, but more pronounced to objectification kind of humiliation; Face is the noble part of a human, when it's being sat under a lady's butt, it's easily seen who is superior; this thought always makes me thrilling from feeling of humiliation, especially when that noble part is being kept for prolonged period of time under some kinds of extreme treatment.


I would like to see your comments from a Domme's viewpoint.


Sincerely

Peter




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 4:11:07 PM)

I've known some dominant women who enjoy face sitting. Many of them, though, really don't care for the kind of objectification involved with men, such as yourself, who are obsessed with it.

Most dominant women I know seriously dislike being objectified as nothing more than a life support system for a crotch.




MissToYouRedux -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 4:13:58 PM)

Prolonged face-sitting is not necessarily as comfortable for the Domme as subs expect it to be. [:D]




OsideGirl -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 4:29:59 PM)

Every woman I know that engages in this practice says that it's not comfortable, and it gets worse the longer it goes on.

So, basically, to fulfill your desire for this kink, you expect the Domme to suffer.




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 4:47:03 PM)

it plays hell on the knees and the back
make her a padded seat, with arms and back and you might get what you are looking for.
Given comfort and breaks and the right woman, you can almost get to your fantasy. Real life has curious, hilarious and sometimes unimagined consequences




PeonForHer -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:04:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

it plays hell on the knees and the back



Ooh I know. We're none of us getting any younger, are we? [:D]




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:15:42 PM)

Ive had problems with my knees from doing ballroom dancing and latin, since i was 22....
it hurts more every year dammit,




PeonForHer -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:19:09 PM)

That's a bummer. But the correct apparatus could sort you out for facesitting projects though, couldn't it?




Charles6682 -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:22:51 PM)

OP, I can relate where your coming from. Facesitting for me is my favorite fetish but I never demand anything. That would have to be something the Lady was clearly into as well. Unless your talking Pro-Dommes, if you can afford one.


quote:

ORIGINAL: peterpeter

I always have a kinky desire for Extreme and Prolonged facesitting; it's to less extent about oral service, but more pronounced to objectification kind of humiliation; Face is the noble part of a human, when it's being sat under a lady's butt, it's easily seen who is superior; this thought always makes me thrilling from feeling of humiliation, especially when that noble part is being kept for prolonged period of time under some kinds of extreme treatment.


I would like to see your comments from a Domme's viewpoint.


Sincerely

Peter




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:36:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That's a bummer. But the correct apparatus could sort you out for facesitting projects though, couldn't it?

oh yeah:) thats how I know what works:)




NotTellingUAgain -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:41:32 PM)

Always an interesting question. If a guy like the OP really really wants to have a woman sit on his face is he REALLY submissive?
Seems that only if you were a guy who HATED the idea would it be FUN for the Domme to MAKE YOU DO IT.
For the OP, your Domme would read your post and TEASE you, and TAUNT you but NEVER GIVE IT TO YOU Right?




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:48:46 PM)

theres a difference between hate and consent
guys are entitled to limits too
torment and teasing, denial and force are all tools in my consentual relationship, if he hated it, I would expect it as a limit...and abide by it but I sure as hell wouldnt be with him for long,
different strokes for different folks
but consent is key
if he consented to it...its fair game:)




peterpeter -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 5:57:21 PM)

Thank you all for your response and valuable comments. I'm more see it as a huge humiliation to the sub, as his "noble face" is under the "lower part" of the Domme; I got the most humiliation from this sceney




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 6:08:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: peterpeter
I would like to see your comments from a Domme's viewpoint.

Hi peterpeter,

The first-time I ever face-sat someone, he wanted me to squish my girly parts onto his face and I did, but I was disappointed when that's all that happened. In otherwords, he hadn't a clue what to do with his tongue while he was down there. lol

I've face-sat since then too, but it was more queening and getting oral service than just basic face-sitting without it. That gave me the drive to stay up there longer. [;)] If it's done for prolonged time periods, it can be a bitch on the knees and the back. Less so if it's done on the comfort of the bed while I'm leaning against the headboard.

However, it's best done with a queening chair. A former play partner of mine got me one of those and it works great. Well, it's actually a bedside potty with the bucket removed and I sat it on the bed for his comfort so he didn't have to lay on the floor. When I sit on it, it squishes down on the mattress enough that my goodies are perfectly placed on his face.

ETA: I would use face-sitting for Domination but not for humiliation. At least humiliation does not cross my mind when I do it to someone. I don't consider a pussy to be an awful thing or humiliating.
NBMG




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 6:10:37 PM)

im not a fetish delivery system...if it was for humiliation alone I would not use it
there is no "lower" part to a female....
and that is where you and I will depart:)




Charles6682 -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 7:02:14 PM)

That's the way I view this fetish. I can't see it as a bad thing but that's just me.

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


ETA: I would use face-sitting for Domination but not for humiliation. At least humiliation does not cross my mind when I do it to someone. I don't consider a pussy to be an awful thing or humiliating.
NBMG




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 7:08:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

That's the way I view this fetish. I can't see it as a bad thing but that's just me.

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


ETA: I would use face-sitting for Domination but not for humiliation. At least humiliation does not cross my mind when I do it to someone. I don't consider a pussy to be an awful thing or humiliating.
NBMG


xactly




cloudboy -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 7:40:44 PM)

Your avatar is a bit inflammatory on a face sitting thread.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/6/2013 9:44:40 PM)

lol




Lucylastic -> RE: Facesitting /objectification (8/7/2013 10:41:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

Your avatar is a bit inflammatory on a face sitting thread.

ya think??? hehhehehe




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