MistressDREAD
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I borrowed this topic from a Freind to gain the insite of what other Goreans think about this subject matter and to give a little bit of My opinion of what Ive experianced.
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Gor is not Earth so why are we letting women make if more earth like? Why would any male want to make it easy for a woman to set the rules in a world they should never have control in. Are we so hard up for female players that we are willing to cast aside the very reasons we came to Gor in the first place?
I sat here reading and thinking for a very long time on this subjects title and Ive come to this opinion on it.Gor is not Earth however Gor was based off of Earths ways and customs and civilitations of long ago mainly because of the fact that the Man who wrote of such a world dident like the one and the times He was living in because at that time for Him personally Woman were the Ones who had a say in how His world would progress and took away His abilities as a Man to pursue the avenues that He had choose for Himself hence His creating the world He wished to live within from the past and as long as such is added there will always be the colleation and conflict between the two. Living regardless of which Lifestyle or ways you choose always comes at a cost. You cannot blame anyone person or anyone gender or anyone society for such a cost because those reasons are forever changing. And the costs sometimes are higher then the person wants to spend be it in a monitary fashion or a personal application or a mental investment. Humans in general strive ahead for survival of the fittest. Goreans in general strive ahead for not only survival of the fittest but survival of the most Dominant in nature by being the Strongest and Fittest. On Gor those who acheve this gain their rightful places in Leadership. This is whats called the natural order. Now this Order by the very nature of Man and Woman says that Men should be the Ones who are the victors of such a position however it is not always so and at that point Woman who also show same abilities and values step up to the plate. Were the Values get altered is when Earthly beliefs when a Woman acheves such a place over a Man this makes Her the Leader and Strongest in All things and puts the Power in Her hands that She no longer desires to yeald to a Male who might come along stronger. She will not yeald to One who is weaker and this is the right way to be. This is why the Free come together and combine Their wealths and Strenths and abilities for the advancement of Their Bloodlines to garuntee the fittest of the fit in body as well as in Dominance for the continued Power thru the generations. What has happened on Earth is the absence of Men in not only the positions of Power within the Family structure but in the Society as a whole standing up to whats right and justs. Earth today lives in a throw away society with Men doing much of the major throwing away to apease Their appitites with out thought to their actions and how they affect the society they live in. How Many Men do you know have left the very Familites they have created to go out and seek new without working with what they have ? How many Woman are left holding the whole back of Families being thrusted into the postion of Power many times against their desires but unlike the Man stay and stand up to the same values that the Men are suppose to be doing ? Being forced out into working and taking positions of Power in order to keep Their Family structure working and not loosing anything in the prociess of what was acheved by both while together. Its easier to throw away people when they change and mature then to accept their changes and appreciate such maturity many times. Mens actions many times force Their situations and when Men refuse to step up to the plates that they themselfs have created this forced another to take up that plate in Their Own steed and guess who that is...... most times a Woman. In Our Gorean Culture it was common when a Male was lost in a Family structure His Brother or Best Freind if Free and avalable stood up to the place and took over that which the lost Man had built. How many Men step up to such responcibilities in todays times? I know for My self 99.9 percent of the Men who proclaim Dominance and Freedom wouldent come near the responcibilities I was left with by Free Men with a ten foot pool. Do Woman simply stop functioning because there are No Men who would take on such a Group not just proclaiming His Dominance but showing it with action ? How many Men who say they are Gorean also say They seek only one slave ? This is not a Gorean Free Mans action as I see it but a Man of earth who only seeks something below Himself, something thats easy to take care of and tend to with limited effort. He doesent seek to Serve in the role of Dominant Provider and Ruler but to be served only. The position of Free is not just a role of being served but a role of Leading and Guidance and Sacrifice for the Whole for the benifit of Strenth and Endurance with the control of those in less a position to do so or for those who are simply followers and not Leaders in a Life of Gor. Free Men who indevor to only seek a slave in Their life do not seek Dominance nor Power nor the continuation of His Blood line of Dominance. He seeks simply to be served and will bore servants to the world and followers who will again in the next generation need Leaders to guide them. Those Leaders are becomming the Woman who had the Strenths and Dominance to stand beside the Men of Dominance and provide the strenth of Blood line and Finance line and Moral lines and Families that have stood strong and Dominant in the absence of better Men. The question is Why are We letting Woman make it more earthlike ? The reason is because Men walk away from their responcibilities for One and Two Men stopped looking for what would strenthen their bloodlines and have produced that which are only at best made to serve and not Lead. Just My Opinion based off of Life Lived. Many Goreans look at Me as a overly strong Woman, and I am.I am strong because the Free Men in My Life made such so from My Father to My FCs to My Sons produced from the seeds of Dominance and Freedom. Have I found such Power and Strenth to again Rule My home in the absence of the Free Men in Our Home? no and I dont see ever finding a Man of Freedom and Dominance again heading up My Strong and Great Home because the wants of Free Men has so been lowered and less than what most of them should be striving for in life in liberty in the right of Power with Them being the most Powerful to take their rightful places do not but instead seek out a place of rule over submission and not rule over Dominance and Power. Thats where the Freedom of Gorean Men are lost by Their Own action and hands. ♥ஒஇஜﺝﺻ•Mi§Trє§§•DREADﺻﺝஜஇ♥
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