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Ball Gag Advice - 1/22/2014 6:08:20 PM

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Looking for our first ball gag. Was hoping someone can recommend to me to a model for purchase. Desired features:
* Comfort comfort comfort. She likes me in charge, but she does not like pain and discomfort. (No S&M.)
* Silicone ball that doesn't smell or taste bad.
* Vegan strap.

Also, how do I measure for what size ball to purchase?

Thanks!

RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/22/2014 11:25:53 PM

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Do you require the look of a ball gag? There are other options to try which are more comfortable. My submissive uses a certain type of foam ball and then tapes over her mouth. I can ask what the brand is if you want.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/23/2014 7:20:00 AM

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* Comfort comfort comfort. She likes me in charge, but she does not like pain and discomfort. (No S&M.)

Ball gags aren't the most comfortable thing, they're hard on the corners of the mouth (which is why the previous poster talked about other options). And they also make the jaw sore.

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* Silicone ball that doesn't smell or taste bad.

Silicone is great as it's inert and tends to last longer than rubber however phthalate free rubber would also be without the bad taste.

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* Vegan strap.

In the hope of widening options a bit, would rubber or PVC also be acceptable strap options?

Here's a Medical Grade Silicone BALL GAG with PVC Rubber Strap: http://ballgags.biz/SR/SR-BG0005.htm

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/23/2014 5:39:43 PM

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Inghammer: Yeah, got my mind set on a ball gag. I know it can be uncomfortable, and that's why I'm looking for the most comfortable ball gag possible.

GotSteel: Rubber or PVC would work. Any concerns about comfort of rubber vs. leather? We try to avoid leather because we don't like where it comes from. I like the model you linked to. I was also looking at this one. Any thoughts on which looks more comfortable? I'm thinking that strap connection / rivets in my link is more likely to dig into the cheek than the one you found.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/23/2014 6:03:29 PM

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Mine is a 1.5" ball, which I think is pretty standard. We started off slow, 10-15 minutes or so at first, and worked up to me being able to get through all of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail" while wearing it. (The only way I'd agree to sit through that was bound and gagged, lol.)

The straps on the side are a little uncomfortable, but I got used to it. My jaw pops a bit at first after a long time gagged, but soon normalizes.

If you find good sources of non-animal gear, I encourage you to post them here or start a new thread with this info. (I'm not a vegan but I respect y'all.)

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/23/2014 6:14:02 PM

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ps - I think the inner rivets are covered, so won't dig in to the check, and that design does look comfortable for the corners of the mouth

http://www.virtuous-sins.com/lockable-ball-gag-with-red-silicone-ball-gb-39-red-276-p.asp

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/24/2014 1:30:38 AM

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That is a really nice ball gag ^

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/24/2014 4:23:09 PM

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ps - I think the inner rivets are covered, so won't dig in to the check, and that design does look comfortable for the corners of the mouth

http://www.virtuous-sins.com/lockable-ball-gag-with-red-silicone-ball-gb-39-red-276-p.asp

Beat me to it, I was having some trouble tracking that down. If memory serves the stockroom used to carry that and it was a community favorite in the last comfy ballgag thread.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/24/2014 5:00:16 PM

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Is the thinness of the straps around the edges of the above ball that makes this one comfy? Anyone know of a US supplier for it?

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/24/2014 6:47:57 PM

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Is the thinness of the straps around the edges of the above ball that makes this one comfy? Anyone know of a US supplier for it?

As the ballgag applyer not the ball gag wearer I'm not the best one to answer that. I can tell you that hard edges are bad, we have a ring gag with a thick PVC strap that's pretty harsh, thick stiff leather is also going to be subideal. There was a topic around here somewhere about just this.......hmmm.....

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/26/2014 5:18:59 PM

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Thanks everyone for your advice! I tried searching before I posted this thread but didn't find anything. But since you stated that there were threads on this already, I got smart and searched via Google with key words: ball gag site:collarchat.com. That found a few threads, and sure enough the model several cited above popped up on a few of them. Hopefully it works out well. It will be our first excursion into something beyond the basic cuffs, ties, and blindfolds.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/26/2014 5:40:21 PM

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Kalikshama:
You asked me to post a link if I find vegan BDSM gear. I can't vouch for this store as I've never purchased from them but Kinkclusive is a BDSM store I found doing some searches that does alternatives to leather.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/27/2014 12:46:26 PM

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Thanks for the link and enjoy your venture into the dark side ;)

You may also wish to check out some of the non-fiction in the -=BDSM Book List=-

"Screw the Roses; Send me the Thorns" was especially helpful to my (now-ex) husband when we were new to BDSM.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/27/2014 1:15:21 PM

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funny story about ball gags...

i had an ex who used those small pingpong sized wiffle balls with zip ties strung through it and tightened. well one time i was ducktaped/ziptied/cabled to a sawhorse and he got called to close up at work(its 2 minutes away from the hotel we were staying at) well i have a strong flight desire.... dont like being tied down at all especially for what was going to happen... so i bolt. manage to tear my arms and legs out of the duck tape, then use the force to break the thicker zip ties holding my waist, thighs and neck. use the bottle of lube close by to help me wiggle out of the metal ones i cant break and through on a pair of pants over the stripper attire im wearing,, grab shoes and my jacket and bolt out the door. first instinct is always to stay away from streets and find a quiet place to think. once that is done step 2 is to check the lining of my jacket(i always have loose change in there) step 3 get a cigarette, it helps transfer from an instinctual state of mind to a focused one if you do it in steps that make you stop and breath... after all that i made my way to dennys with enough change to get a coffee and the free constant refills, i even got offered a new place to live and a guy bought me food(didnt talk to me the waitress brought it over after he left and said it was paid for)... and after all of that i go to the bathroom wash up and as i look in the mirror i realize i still have the ball gag around my neck.... only driven home by the blood stained drool lines from the corners of my mouth. no wonder someone bought me dinner hehe

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 1/31/2014 7:04:33 AM

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the blood stained drool lines from the corners of my mouth

palecriminal, I'm sure everything you want to know is around here somewhere, I just couldn't seem to find the thread I was thinking of but here's another example of what people are talking about with ballgags being pretty harsh. Not that they aren't fun and all (my girl loves them) but it's a big leap from basic cuffs.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 3/11/2014 12:16:40 AM

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Here is a ball gag I have been looking to purchase. It appears that it would be more comfortable than some of the others. It is pricey and from Europe.

https://www.sm-factory.com/en/shop/430/430-000.htm

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 3/11/2014 9:07:36 AM

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That's an insane markup for something that doesn't even look to be silicone.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 3/26/2014 7:11:57 AM

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My favorite ball gag is, well... My Balls. I shave and I will use a small hair tie and wrap it around My Balls a couple of time and since it up to the base of My cock. Voila! A Large pliable yet firm ball gag that both you and your submissive will enjoy, and she will LOVE the taste!

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 4/18/2014 3:07:02 PM

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You could even try something like this. http://www.mitoybox.com/fetish-fantasy-candy-ball-gag.html there are a lot of other options on there for you too. Plus you can get up to like 30% off pending on how much you spend.

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RE: Ball Gag Advice - 5/5/2014 11:12:50 PM

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IF I MAY... THE BAL BAG IS A HOLLYWOOD TRICK THAT IS IMPRACTICLE AND DOSE VERRY LITTLE TO KEEP TE SUB QUITE.

LOK FIR YOUR BASIC HORSEBIT STRAP ON GAG. IT IS MUCH MORE INTIMIT=DTING, AND IS QUIT EFFECTIVE IN KEEPING WORDS FROM FORMING - TRY IT! YOU'LL LIKE IT!!!

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