RedMagic1 -> RE: can you be a friend and not in the friend zone, (1/30/2014 5:17:47 AM)
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ORIGINAL: shadeddragon Ohh the friend zone is definitely a thing. Those that are in it are the most to blame. Stop clinging on hope guys, if she doesn't wantto have a romantic relationship with you, or sex0rz you, cut the damn cord. "Can't we just be friends?" No we can not, I will always want to wine and dine you/and or fuck you. Hanging around you attempting to push those feelings aside is hurtful and deceitful, hoping sticking around you will discover the reasons you want to be with me is just all sorts of wrong. While I've seen this conventional wisdom posted on the net for maybe 15 years, I've never found it to be true. Most of my platonic friends are women, and I also have a pleasant sex life. Some (maybe all, now that I think about it) of my best friends are women I used to kiss and no longer do -- I'm in the friend zone, yes, but they care about me, and know me well. There are billions of women in the world -- more women than men -- and some will be friends, while others will be potential sexual partners. Why have the mindset that women are only good for one thing? Even more, why be attracted to someone who isn't attracted to you? Have the self-esteem to say that if she doesn't like me that way, then I don't like her that way either.
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