He reacted pretty strongly when I repeatedly told him that it is not a great idea and it's damned near stalkerish and certainly underhand, I'm now a meanie, he's playing the victim card and I just think the worst of people, blah blah.
I don't think he's dangerous, just seems to be incapable to understand that while he might see it as a romantic gesture, a woman would not perceive it as such.
He IS dangerous because of his thought processes, not just because he wanted to do something nice but inappropriate.
He sees a profile on an adult sex site and decides this woman, if it is indeed a woman, who he has never met, is his soulmate. That's not adorable, it means he is out of touch with reality.
The fact that he somehow managed to find her in real life and wanted to make contact with her with gifts suggests that he is obsessive and doesn't think too rationally, and most definitely has a stalker-mentality.
And the fact that he is now angry with you because he didn't get the answer he wanted speaks volumes about how....I can't think of the term for it, but how he's going to react when he doesn't get what he wants. Playing the victim card means he's manipulative.
To me, he sounds like a loose cannon and most definitely dangerous. I hope to God he doesn't find the woman in real life, and I hope he doesn't manage to track you down in real life, too, lol.
You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.
Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.