Greta75
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The fact that people see "switch" and they automatically judge someone for it seems rather prejudiced. That is exactly correct, and not prejudice, but it tells people that you have submissive tendencies. Also, if you are truly a dominant, you would have no issues even as a Switch label. You would be able to inspire submission EVEN with the prejudice. But if you are facing issues controlling others with your dominant inner half, then, maybe it's your dominating skills that needs brushing up. While I don't think switches could work out as so far, it's been true, but I usually thoroughly question a switch on his motivations for being dominant, before I make a decision if his suitable or not. There is also the whole issue with of switches online that have trouble getting a domme to play with him for free, and so they start calling themselves dominant hopefully to find a submissive submissive enough to have sex with them and then maybe order the submissive to play out some of their sub male fantasies, topping from bottom. I always tell any switch I meet, that, I see switch people as the most sexually flexible type of people, and people who just loves ALL types of kink. Whereas I always made it clear that I am not flexible with my kinks, I know exactly and very specifically what I like, and there is something very specific that can fulfill me. So in that, we are too different to work.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 5/13/2014 11:06:57 PM >
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