ExiledTyrant
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Joined: 12/9/2013 From: Exiled Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: zman2014 Once a person is in a Dom/Sub relationship as a Sub (non 24/7), can they do the following? 1. Still maintain a vanilla relationship with someone else other than their Dom? 2. Can they ever go back to a vanilla, non D/s relationship? I am most curious? 1. Even in 24/7 TPE at the very least 33.3% of your life is going to be vanilla. If by some miracle you can swing 66.6% non vanilla I'd like to know the island you're living on. WIITWD should always be consensual and the people in orbit around your life, friends, family, ums, employer, coworkers, postman, are not consenting to your dynamic and, in some cases, you interact with them daily. Your dynamic is your dynamic and the most inexperienced show, and very telling, is a non-consensual (public) display of Dominance/submission. If your dynamic is sound, Dominance/submission exists in the nilla world and is reaffirmed privately. 2. You can live on tofu, and if you've never had steak, you won't miss it. Jus sayin
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