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"Interning" with a Domme - 11/26/2004 4:35:22 PM

SissysGirlfriend

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In a few of the posts that I've read, I've seen a few people state that they "interned" with Domme's before they really took the position themselves. I'd be very interested in this, but am at a bit of a loss as to how to go about this. I am the dominant partner in my relationship, but I do know that I need some guidance from someone who is more experienced and wiser.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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RE: "Interning" with a Domme - 11/26/2004 5:58:13 PM

proudsub

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These threads might help:

finding a mentor

mentoring

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RE: "Interning" with a Domme - 11/26/2004 7:27:59 PM

MistressDREAD

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Most any Lord/Lady whom is a part of
Their community will take on the task
of being a BDSM Mentor.Simply find
sum one close to your area and ask
Who ever seems to have the experience
You seek. Of course there are those whom
do such on a professional level and those
to its best to find One whom has similar
likes.

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RE: "Interning" with a Domme - 11/26/2004 11:13:39 PM

BeachMystress

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First of all, I hope you're not just doing this to please him. Oh.. hmm.. I'm thinking here and by doing as he needs and Domming him, you're being submissive to his needs. How convoluted. But really, if you don't enjoy it, do not force yourself.

A mentor is good and a local mentor much better than an online one. There are munches (real time meetings of people into BDSM in a "safe" place such as a restaurant) near you, Here is a link http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MichiganMunches/
Other links to BDSM orgs close to you

Ann Arbor
http://www.blackrose.org/~bolero/asb-mich.html
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AnnArbor_TNG_Kinksters/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsminannarbor/

Detroit
http://www.michatohs.org/
http://www.michiganrope.com/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BDSM-Detroit/

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