Elnard
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ORIGINAL: Elnard Now thank you that is a much better post and I appreciate it. However, I already took into account everything. I did calculate out before this discussion began the possible outcomes, and the resource expenditure as well as risk/reward. You aren't giving me anything I haven't encountered before. The when in Rome thing is spot on, but you are forgetting, every time an old belief system is demolished "when in Rome applies" and the person bringing forth (agitator to the old hypothesis) goes in with full knowledge of this. If a starting point in a game is so disadvantageous, as straight male subs are being treated right now, then it skews the risk/reward formula and makes the calculations easier. So yes, when in Rome, I knew that coming in, and it's noted and I'm glad you've toned it down, I'll do the same. But at the same time if you look at it from my perspective, and those affected, knowing I took the risk calculation into account, you have to wonder exactly how abysmally skewed and un-understanding society is of gender roles for this level of play to be pre-calculated and still be worthwhile. In other words, if we're being forced into playing russian roulette how badly does the starting position have to be before it's better cost/benefit to decide to not play at all? Six bullets? Five? One? Why not just fire at your captor if they start you with one bullet? The point is, through all of this, there have been 1000 views and more understanding, and there's no worse position to be in when findomme scams are this rampant, so yes, the calculation was done and it is advantageous as awareness spreads. Again, there are no victims, there are volunteers. Every time you send or receive a letter on this site it says "Do not send money"... for a lot of the rants over FinDomme, it is buyers remorse... my personal rant is I bought a large container of ice cream that I do not much care for... since I ate some, I cannot take it back... I'll just have to live with the Breyers remorse of it all. These are the types of questions that are purely constructive that I like to see. You see volunteers, but you need to then ask another question: Are they actually volunteers? Say a man is trapped inside a tiny cave, and there's a tunnel. I'm trapped with another person in this tunnel, and the person tells me there's a world beyond that tunnel that has food, harbor, life and love, but in order to pass the cave there's a tunnel where a monster lives. The man's choice is either to live the rest of his life in this cave, no food, no harbor, no sunlight, probably a very short and tragic one, or to walk past the monster to reach a world where the rest of everyone lives. Is the man volunteering to be eaten by the monster? Does he really have a choice? When the desire becomes so bad to live like an actual human being, he will be compelled to make a move, which to someone who isn't inside the cave and hasn't seen the monster seems like he is volunteering himself to be eaten. But it's not voluntary, it's the only move. It's play into the scams, get scraps of attention for a paycheck, or don't play at all in the world of symbiotic human love. The world beyond the monster contains M > M, M = M, M > F, F > F, F = F Can you count those permutations and tell me who is left in the cave? If you answered F > M then you are right. The problem here is the monster is very easy to get rid of, but because of the nature of the elements in the set, the turn order, and responsibility to get rid of the monster is on the F end of the F > M, which is the call to understanding.
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