Looking for submissive or slave to train (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Introductions] >> Looking for Naughty Love



Message


markees -> Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 3:11:04 PM)

Hello, my name is Kevin. I'm new to this site. I'm looking for a submissive or slave girl to train on the weekdays in the Ventura County area. Please let me know of any enquirers.




peppermint -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 5:58:56 PM)

May we ask why you are not available for weekends?

Welcome to Collarchat. This is your introduction. It is your one chance to tell people about yourself. What you seek was properly put into the Looking For Naughty Love area. So, tell us about you. What are hobbies? What type of books do you enjoy? What are your favorite movies?




MoxieMcfly -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 6:10:33 PM)

May I ask if you are available during the week and if not, why not?




peppermint -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 6:20:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MoxieMcfly

May I ask if you are available during the week and if not, why not?


Are you asking me or the OP? He said he was available during the week but not on weekends. Makes you almost think he has a wife who works days while he works evenings or nights, but they both have weekends off so he can't be contacted then.

As for me, I am available whenever I am not serving my dominant. Since he broke his hip this summer that means that I have little time to spend chatting.




MoxieMcfly -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 6:31:46 PM)

I was asking you. It sounded as though it seemed unusual to you. I was curious as to why that might be. Thank you for sharing. Lot's of people work evenings and week-ends. People who work in the bar/restaurant industry, people who work in hospitals, etc. People who have kids will frequently play while their kids are in school. There are also people who work by appointment and have flexible days because of it.

Lot's of people have free time during the week for a variety of reasons. Even people who have husbands, wives or spouses, are not necessarily hiding any thing. Lot's of polyamory in the "bdsm lifestyle"...of course lot's of cheaters too, more so online.

I hope your dominant gets well soon. :(




peppermint -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/7/2015 6:55:41 PM)

Yes, there are reasons why someone is only available on week days during the day. I did not accuse him of anything. I only asked why he wasn't available for weekends. Not being available for weekends without some special reason is often seen as a Red Flag. A Red Flag is a warning that something is not quite right.

Gary is getting better every day, thank you. Last week he was able to drive the car for the first time in 2 months. Thankfully he broke his left hip and not his right. This week he gave up the walker and is walking with a cane. We should be able to head south for the winter in early November.




M38284 -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/8/2015 3:02:02 AM)

Moved. No intro, so it belongs in Naughty Love.




markees -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/8/2015 7:21:37 AM)

Hi baby...i have joint custody of my two kids so that's why i'm looking for someone on the weekdays. Would you be interested?




slavemali -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/12/2015 10:34:13 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint


quote:

ORIGINAL: MoxieMcfly

May I ask if you are available during the week and if not, why not?


Are you asking me or the OP? He said he was available during the week but not on weekends. Makes you almost think he has a wife who works days while he works evenings or nights, but they both have weekends off so he can't be contacted then.

As for me, I am available whenever I am not serving my dominant. Since he broke his hip this summer that means that I have little time to spend chatting.



This is almost becoming catty......lol meow




peppermint -> RE: Looking for submissive or slave to train (10/12/2015 1:52:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slavemali




This is almost becoming catty......lol meow


Since only being able to meet on week days during the day is often a Red Flag, it is good to be upfront if you do have a good reason that you can only meet during that time. The OP having custody of his children is a good reason.

Red Flags are warning signs. Often times a person who is married and cheating puts limits on when meetings can take place. The meetings are never on weekends, holidays, or when the person needs to be with the family. The person says they are single but the Red Flag points toward being married.

It's not being catty to point this out. It is a fact of life. I have had friends who got burned by falling for someone who was cheating.




Page: [1]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2026
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125