Cinnamongirl67
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I was once collared. I did not understand the full meaning of it, until much later. In time people hopefully become wiser. Ask all the questions, don't be blind. I am no longer collared. I think It was used twice btw, then I was never to see it again. I bought the collar and designed how it would be personalized. In my eyes under these circumstances IT IS/WAS my collar. When I asked for it back, it got lost in a move. Oh BS! Anyway, taking that symbol off of you is no different then basically ending any relationship. I think the difference and maybe the fallacy that it's a harder break up, is because the collared give up a type of dream/fantasy that is very hard to do. Once you realize some of the relationship was basically smoke and mirrors, and omissions the. It's very easy. It may take you some time to get there. Also, a few will find giving up your own wishes and wants and needs sucks. It's according to the master you have to of course, and the personality of the sub. Once you get to a certain point it pretty much means nothing. It fades into a distant memory.
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