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BlueRoses1111 -> RE: Where are all the paypigs? (3/4/2016 8:23:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
The paypigs are rightfully scamming the very naive "fly by night" findoms that think they can make an easy buck. This obviously does not include legitimate dominas that know how to engage a sub with the fetish of being exploited, and my hats are off to them, because it's a very psychological and challenging task and they earn every penny they make. There's a relationship behind it.
For the ladies (or men faking to be to ladies) that hop on here looking to make a quick buck with their juicy profiles and obvious names, they are being run in circles and exploited by much more savvy subs who are engaging them in ongoing email dialogues that get their rocks off (for free), and asking in detail "so what will I get?" and then jerking off to the response, and then when the lady finally gets fed up and calls him a worthless piece of shit, he gets even ANOTHER bonus load after jerking off as he is humiliated, gleefully, but the sheer, cruel REJECTION of his "potential pay princess."
As much as sub men bemoan all these pay princesses, just remember they are not very savvy and they are totally being taken advantage of by subs who know how to manipulate them and never pay a dime. "Oh, train me first then I will send you the gift." Sorry, nope. They vanish and get berated and get their bonus jollies from the degrading email calling them a worthless pile of shit.
These subs KNOW what they are doing. They get off on it. They get off on the woman they cannot attain -- they get off on courting her without any gain, and then her shitting all over him.
I can guarantee you that 90% of these "fake" "pay princesses" are spending TONS of time cultivating relationships that evolve into NOTHING.
Why else would they come here so frequently and bitch about lack of success, men flaking on them, etc? It's because it is NOT WORKING.
Real financial domination requires trust, a foundation, mutual respect, a LOT of work. I have done a little of everything and it is one of the few kinks I dabbled in and said hell no, it's not worth the time. If I am going to engage in any email or phone training for "gifts" I will take a straight up fetish exchange with BDSM, f/f, etc. but NEVER "pay pigs" because these guys are MASTER manipulators at getting off without ever parting with a dime.
Trust me guys, these "girls" are getting ripped off far more than the guys. The scammers in Nigeria are doing better. The ladies just "see" the dynamic and think it's easy money. They would make more money flipping burgers, and are probably more suited, skill-wise.
Akasha
Akasha
Truth!!! I've seen the ads in the findomme groups and most subs that contact them will waste their time or poof.
Non nude cam models get better treatment from financial subs/finfetishists or even women on niteflirt + real $ not peanuts after 12 hrs of conversation.
This is also why tribute prior to any "talks" tends to be the only way to deter the behavior.
Blackmail is even worse. Any time a guy contacts me about this I just insta block. I see women get their time wasted to such a degree you wonder if they're just independently wealthy. I remember hearing about a pro that went to jail all because some fetishist made a promise he didn't want to keep .He got the police involved. Could you image going to jail over some buyers' remorse kinky bullshit?
The game is as old as time and used to be used in dating to get sex. Just promise a bunch of shit , get laid for as long as you can before she starts realizing your actions don't match your words then poof on her. Same game applies. Even on sugar daddy sites same thing. Guy post about his millions but needs some nude photos or a gag " test drive" and sure enough that young virgin 18 -22 year old gets played. I've heard worst stories of women using the last scraps of cash they had, bording a plane to meet some old dude in a motel in a state they know nothing about. Sure enough the guy pushes them into sex and says he left the money in his briefcase for safe keeping. He walks out and leaves her ass there. She waits thinking he would never....only to come to the conclusion that yup he would and did. That girl is now fucked with no ticket home and no money.
Now people are going to think well no one is that dumb. If you have no real experience with men not keeping their word and base future interactions on a good relationship with maybe your brothers or father, you're likely to be duped into a false sense of security.
Yup I read some ugly ugly stuff through the years.
I remember reading a blog where men discussed how to scam women in Thailand in getting not only laid but waited on hand and foot+ free room and board. I was thinking wait American over the hill types need to do all of this bullshit to women in a third world country? Like come on. $0.50 beer and you still have to try and get over?
Also live in offers? Notice most of the live ins are men looking for free room and board or just 50/50 but he wants to kink and fuck too. Most of the roommate offers from senior men on say clist are creepy. You will not be left alone and god forbid you ignore the guy good luck sleeping soundly without a 9mm under your pillow. When you see a clisr ad from a woman saying in the ad" I'm not seeking a physical relationship with my roommate" you can be sure she's been sexually harassed for such a basic necessity as a roof over one's head.
In most cases women are the ones getting scammed.
What about that guy that chubby chases but in reality wouldn't be caught during daylight hours with any woman over a size 4. Sure he waxes poetic about those curves but after a few months of getting his dick fill he confesses " I'm not attracted to your body type". She feels the sting of that con job but of course everyone will sit back and tell her " well it was casual sex so you shouldn't be mad". Surely people enjoy being good enough to fuck but not good enough to be seen with right? Pfft!
So Op best get a niteflirt or sign up to one of the finDom or cam sites.
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