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RE: Being hurt - 9/18/2016 6:43:14 AM   
PaulWG


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Status: offline 		He probably figured that he could fuck you anytime he wanted to so he decided to focus on the girl he might never see again. And like most men he probably just wanted the girl who he thought was more physically attractive and possibly younger too. Guys are very visual so when they are just looking for sex they aren't going to think who is the nicest girl in the room, which girl will treat me better? They're more concerned about who is the most attractive girl who would fuck me so when he had those 2 choices in the bedroom he choose the girl who made him the horniest and also like I said he probably just thought he can get you anytime he wants.

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RE: Being hurt - 9/21/2016 5:39:35 PM   
ravenlynne


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ORIGINAL: SuzyHolewrecker

try focusing on how you can please rather than how much attention someone else is getting? seems a person with a very very romantic heart would be better suited on one of the various dating channels. Less likely to be "hurt" ???
welcome to the forums!


So basically, you're saying that doesn't have agency over her feelings and that she should expect to be emotionally hurt? What a sad attitude you have.

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RE: Being hurt - 9/26/2016 12:31:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PaulWG

He probably figured that he could fuck you anytime he wanted to so he decided to focus on the girl he might never see again. And like most men he probably just wanted the girl who he thought was more physically attractive and possibly younger too. Guys are very visual so when they are just looking for sex they aren't going to think who is the nicest girl in the room, which girl will treat me better? They're more concerned about who is the most attractive girl who would fuck me so when he had those 2 choices in the bedroom he choose the girl who made him the horniest and also like I said he probably just thought he can get you anytime he wants.


i think your playing at an angle most novices go for, Sir's and Master's look for far more then just the wrapper that is covering the package there is a whole lot more to them then who is just prettier, IMO it takes class, strength, honor, willingness to stick to it when times go bad and to revel in the good times, to be there for me and to accept me to be there for them in their times of needs, remember when the lights go out we all look the same

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RE: Being hurt - 9/26/2016 1:57:05 AM   
SuzyHolewrecker


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ORIGINAL: ravenlynne


quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzyHolewrecker

try focusing on how you can please rather than how much attention someone else is getting? seems a person with a very very romantic heart would be better suited on one of the various dating channels. Less likely to be "hurt" ???
welcome to the forums!


So basically, you're saying that doesn't have agency over her feelings and that she should expect to be emotionally hurt? What a sad attitude you have.

"doesnt have agency over her feelings" ??????????????????? What is that supposed to mean? spell check doesnt catch bad grammar or improper use of the English language does it sweetie? TRY AGAIN.

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RE: Being hurt - 9/26/2016 12:00:24 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzyHolewrecker

quote:

ORIGINAL: ravenlynne


quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzyHolewrecker

try focusing on how you can please rather than how much attention someone else is getting? seems a person with a very very romantic heart would be better suited on one of the various dating channels. Less likely to be "hurt" ???
welcome to the forums!


So basically, you're saying that doesn't have agency over her feelings and that she should expect to be emotionally hurt? What a sad attitude you have.

"doesnt have agency over her feelings" ??????????????????? What is that supposed to mean? spell check doesnt catch bad grammar or improper use of the English language does it sweetie? TRY AGAIN.

So, because you don't know the term, you insult her intelligence and grammar?

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RE: Being hurt - 9/27/2016 11:47:14 PM   
beagle916


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Status: offline 		If you are in a relationship there needs to be clear communication and everyone needs to understand and make sure everyone is cool with what is happening. With that being said, I'm sorry you got hurt however I think you need to soul search on whether a non vanilla relationship is right for you. Additionally it sounds like monogamy might be your best bet.

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RE: Being hurt - 9/28/2016 9:53:23 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: beagle916

If you are in a relationship there needs to be clear communication and everyone needs to understand and make sure everyone is cool with what is happening.
She actually wasn't in the relationship. It was her ex and the new girl.

quote:

With that being said, I'm sorry you got hurt however I think you need to soul search on whether a non vanilla relationship is right for you.
This actually has nothing to do with a non-vanilla relationship. It has to do with engaging in a threesome, when you're the third wheel and one of the players is your ex for whom you still have feelings.

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Additionally it sounds like monogamy might be your best bet.
This I agree with.


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RE: Being hurt - 9/28/2016 10:04:37 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Few people are designed even for a one of threesome


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RE: Being hurt - 10/27/2016 8:07:57 AM   
bondageerone


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Status: offline 		stupid little bitch.
hahaha serve you right.

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RE: Being hurt - 10/29/2016 12:18:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am a well educated,sophisticated dominant: looking for slave and sub guys to satisfy my dominant interests. I am not a sadist. More of a sensual domme. That said: I am strict. And I demand your respect and attention. If you are not obediant, you will be punished hard. I am 100% D&D free and you should be as well. Only safe sexual play. I am not looking for online play. If you are in Hong Kong or coming here immediately, you can contact me. My time requires tribute. Don't waste my time. I won't waste yours.well you can get to text me on my cell phone 2132755684 hope to hear from you as soon as you can....

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RE: Being hurt - 10/29/2016 8:55:29 AM   
OsideGirl


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I am a well educated


Apparently not since you not only put your advertisement in the wrong place, you also hijacked someone else's thread.


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RE: Being hurt - 10/30/2016 7:28:03 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Seems like you are having trouble with threesomes and they are independent of BDSM. You can find inattentive vanillas in a threesomes. Maybe you should either find a more experienced and attentive partner or give up on threesomes, not BDSM.

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