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Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 10:08:31 AM

RosieGold

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Hello! As someone still new to findom, I was wondering where finsubs prefer to look for dom/mes.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 10:20:08 AM

freedomdwarf1

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On kink sites like CollarSpace.

Not that I'd be looking for anything like that.

It's also interesting that you identify as a 20yo male dominant yet your profile says you are a Domme (female)??
Confused much????

For someone of your age, I don't consider you experienced enough to be an effective Domme let alone a Findomme - you haven't been living long enough.

I'd think you were a gold-digger looking for easy money, a get-rich-quick scheme.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 10:46:26 AM

RosieGold

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Thank you for pointing out the issue in my profile! Not sure how I managed to miss that.

That's a fair criticism. I've always been a dominant person and been interested in being a domme since my early teens (after seeing a documentary about them), but I totally see where you're coming from; a lengthy interest in domination doesn't necessarily mean a good domme, and there are some things that only come with time. I'm currently just trying to get some modest experience in findom as it's something I can do from home and fit around my life, and I also really enjoy the power exchange that comes with taking money, no matter how small the sum may be. However, I am (thankfully!) employed and financially stable, so I'm aiming low with the financial aspect of findom, if that makes sense, and treat it like a hobby. Findom also lets me experiment with other types of domination, like humiliation and consensual blackmail, which is what really drew me to it.

Sorry for the babbling, I know you probably don't care.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 12:45:09 PM

OsideGirl

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You don't have to find them. They swarm like flies over a a picnic and pester you until you give up or smack them.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 1:07:19 PM

Alecta

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Start a pay site of your own and list it with other findomme listings in your area.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 1:50:32 PM

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Parasite of wretch and a fat screaming pig-monster with a face that has been blessed with the ugly stick of wretch - what! I cannot dominate these woebegone creatures bad wordage and behold their utter monstrosity/

On a serious note all findommes should have to verify themselves on here and have own section. I have not done the maths in a while but I beleive, where I come from there are more whores than actual genuine women, and more fake women than actual genuine women - behold the "lifestyle" and the numerical prevalent profile types

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 2:25:52 PM

Alecta

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you think we're all whores or sluts dear

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 2:33:02 PM

RosieGold

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From fighting against all of the "fuck you pay me" 'findoms' on FetLife, I can only guess that they're just as bad here? I get the impression that 99% ruin it for the 1%.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 2:33:42 PM

WickedsDesire

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Behold my words monster of non entity..thou and your kind screetch. Odd you have no reality, and cannot follow words - there is no you to my mind.

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 2:44:38 PM

RosieGold

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Behold my words monster of non entity..thou and your kind screetch. Odd you have no reality, and cannot follow words - there is no you to my mind.

I'm not sure what this means, but I dig it anyway

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/9/2016 8:40:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Alecta

you think we're all whores or sluts dear

What people aren't?

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RE: Where do you like to find findoms? - 10/12/2016 10:55:40 PM

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