UllrsIshtar
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Which is pretty much the definition of "Co-Dependent Relationship". That can be said of almost any D/s type relationship, especially if S&M is an aspect of it. I disagree. I'm not talking about being an enabler in a relationship. I'm talking about those that essentially are addicted to relationships, can't function without one and use those relationships to hide from the issues in their lives. If you need a relationship for a purpose in life, there's something wrong. For me, needing a relationship for a purpose in life is pretty much THE definition of what a slave is. I'm with Dizzy and tamaka on this. It's perfectly normal, natural, and healthy for some people to look for a relationship to be the thing that gives them purpose in life, and for the relationship to enhance them in such a way that they are their best selves only when they're in a fulfilling relationship. Some people self-actualize at work, or as a mother, or as a volunteer, or as a scholar, other people self-actualize as a partner/wife/life-mate/slave. Nothing wrong with any of them.
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I can be your whore I am the dirt you created I am your sinner And your whore But let me tell you something baby You love me for everything you hate me for
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