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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 1:55:57 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: twoforone100
Thanks for all the wonderful help. We are in a new situation and I wonder what had worked for others.... clearly asking for help is never the right answer

Dude...

You are on a f^cking internet site that is, literally, full of thousands upon thousands of ideas. On said site, the very first 'sticky' in the General BDSM Discussion forum is a book list that contains a wealth of information. If you are in the continental United States, you are absolutely within a days drive of traveling to the closest munch, kink group, or play party where this could be fun for you.

You have all of this available. You are the epitome of the person sitting in a library, asking people to hand you a book from the shelves, when you are surrounded by volumes of texts. Not showing your own initiative just proves you to be lazy. Why should I do the work that any search function could have found for you?



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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 5:16:39 PM   
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And that excuses you ? While you may have knowledge of the message boards you will find this is the second post I made... So excuse the f*ck out of me for your following your stupid rules. whatever lets you sleep at night.

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 5:35:58 PM   
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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 7:27:43 PM   
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Nothing says as( hole not welcoming new people to your world.

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 7:36:45 PM   
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Nothing says lazy like getting other people to do your own god damned research for you... I am thinking that this is one of those instant gratification things.... why the hell should we tell you what to,do with your own sub.... give your head a shake and read a book

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 7:57:31 PM   
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Then what question is acceptable for you? You could give your answer to any question... So my question is since you clearly don't want to help anyone. You only want to stoke your ego, why answer questions at all. To win an internet argument? If you don't wish to be helpful, perhaps the best path is to keep your mouth shut. It's ask a master. I guess you don't qualify. Masters teach. I'll admit I was looking for a few quick answers. But to assume that there was I was not also doing research, well you know what they say about assuming. It's funny I have found many blogs about just this topic. Not sure why you could not have pointed the path out rather than criticize? Says more about you than me. Thanks to everyone for their less than useful replies.

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 9:40:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: twoforone100
And that excuses you ? While you may have knowledge of the message boards you will find this is the second post I made... So excuse the f*ck out of me for your following your stupid rules. whatever lets you sleep at night.

Not my rule or any rule for that matter. I'll explain my position another way.

I am probably the least computer savvy person you will ever come across on the internet. However, it's really not that tough to find kink ideas on the net. Even if you limited yourself to just this site, there's an amazing book list. There's also a creative writing section that has all kinds of things in it. Expand to all of the other stuff that's out there, the information pool is astounding. Heck, if you hit the black and white site, there are entire groups dedicated to any kind of spin of any particular kink or situation you happen to have. Tons of erotica. There's so much already provided that is already there for you. More than enough material that, if you started reading now, you could read until the end of your days, and it would still be just a drop in the bucket.

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ORIGINAL: twoforone100
It's ask a master. I guess you don't qualify.

Yeah, it is. So, why would you expect other Masters to provide what you need for YOUR relationship?

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Masters teach.

That's actually a misconception. There's no requirement for any person running their M/s relationship to do anything except exactly that. Plenty of Masters want nothing to do with teaching third parties. The fact that you want to be taught has nothing to do with their M/s dynamic.

But... Wait a second. Apply your own logic. Are you a Master to your girl? Are you bowing down to other people's demands in this 'teaching' arena? If I came along and attempted to obligate you to teach me something in some way, how do you think that would go?

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I'll admit I was looking for a few quick answers.


Yep, that's probably a part of the issue.

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It's funny I have found many blogs about just this topic.

Yep. That's exactly what I told you in the first place.






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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 9:42:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: twoforone100

Nothing says as( hole not welcoming new people to your world.


You're some guy who has a cyber relationship with someone he's never met looking for ways to get wank fodder so you can masturbate over a web cam.

So, thank you for the compliment, it means a lot coming from someone like you.



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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 9:42:19 PM   
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Ya know, this is exactly why I don't get the whole age play/little thing AT ALL.

I mean, if somebody is a 'baby' or a 'little' with a regressed age of <10, how on Earth would they be doing 'slutty' things?
Maybe it's just me, but 'baby' and 'child' are not terms I in any way associate with 'slutty'. So playing at somebody being a young child, and then having them do adult stuff anyways is just plain weird to me, and borderline creepy.

Age play also seems to be the only type of role play with a non-adult/sexual theme which includes sex anyways. Pony players don't come here regularly to find sexy tasks for their pony. Neither do puppy players, because in both cases, ponies and puppies don't do slutty things, they do pony and puppy things instead. Yet with age players, that line of taking an adult who has a now -by virtue of the roleplay- nonsexual child's role, and sexualizing them anyways seems to be exactly the goal... and no offense, but I've got somewhat of a hard time with that.

To the point that I some times don't play in our local club when there's too many littles around. We have a somewhat regular group of littles which will get together and doing coloring books, or play with children's toys, which I'd be fine with on the surface, except that they insist that while they're in their little role, they REALLY are the age they feel they regressed to, and should be treated and addressed as such, the same way transgender are the gender they present as. But even though those littles supposedly really are children/babies at the time of the role play, they still have that same sexualization of the babies/children they're supposed to be, which I can't really manage to have my own 'sexy/slutty' time around. I just wouldn't do what I do in a dungeon around 3 year olds. Period. So if you age playing means that I should make an actual effort to see you as an actual 3 year old (instead of as an adult pretending to be a 3 year old, which would be hard enough as it is), then you just made it totally impossible for me to do anything at all I came to the dungeon to do. Add to that the sexualization and now what you've got is me seeing 3 year old (regressed adults) sexually 'abused' and somehow I'm starting to have a hard time not stepping in and interrupting the scene to 'save' them, even though what they're doing is usually super mild compared to the shit I came to the dungeon to do.

I have a hard enough time as it is why anybody would want to roleplay age play, or age regression (unlike pony or puppy play, which I totally get) but then adding overt sexualization in the mix while in age regression? I cannot wrap my head around it, nor get over my feelings of intent discomfort around it.

And I do think there is a distinction between calling an adult female 'baby' as a term of endearment while doing sexy stuff with her, versus roleplaying that said adult female is really a baby/child/regressed in age and then doing sexy stuff with her. It's the second I have a hard time with, not the first, so OP if you meant the first one (profile and post aren't clear) please understand that this is not directed at you personally.

Age players, am I totally missing something obvious on this subject that any of you care to explain? Anybody else have the same issues around age play?





Wow, just WOW! I agree, that IS pretty frigging creepy, and thankfully NOT AT ALL what I've found with the "littles" around here. The whole age play thing really freaked me out years ago when I first found out about it. However, *NONE* of the age players I've met and had conversations with consider sex and age play an appropriate combination. Usually they confess that they seek age play to feel "safe and protected", to "be free of adult responsibilities for a brief time" (actually, pretending to be VERY YOUNG again, coloring, playing with toys, snuggling with a stuffed animal, speaking in baby talk, being cute and sometimes bratty--as you suggested it should be, immersed in the role, like puppy and pony play, without sexuality) and their strongly-voiced opinion is that mixing sex with age play is STRICTLY TABOO. They HATE pedophiles.

Hopefully the situation you experienced is just a regional thing. YUCK!

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 12/12/2016 10:08:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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Ya know, this is exactly why I don't get the whole age play/little thing AT ALL.

I mean, if somebody is a 'baby' or a 'little' with a regressed age of <10, how on Earth would they be doing 'slutty' things?
Maybe it's just me, but 'baby' and 'child' are not terms I in any way associate with 'slutty'. So playing at somebody being a young child, and then having them do adult stuff anyways is just plain weird to me, and borderline creepy.

Age play also seems to be the only type of role play with a non-adult/sexual theme which includes sex anyways. Pony players don't come here regularly to find sexy tasks for their pony. Neither do puppy players, because in both cases, ponies and puppies don't do slutty things, they do pony and puppy things instead. Yet with age players, that line of taking an adult who has a now -by virtue of the roleplay- nonsexual child's role, and sexualizing them anyways seems to be exactly the goal... and no offense, but I've got somewhat of a hard time with that.

To the point that I some times don't play in our local club when there's too many littles around. We have a somewhat regular group of littles which will get together and doing coloring books, or play with children's toys, which I'd be fine with on the surface, except that they insist that while they're in their little role, they REALLY are the age they feel they regressed to, and should be treated and addressed as such, the same way transgender are the gender they present as. But even though those littles supposedly really are children/babies at the time of the role play, they still have that same sexualization of the babies/children they're supposed to be, which I can't really manage to have my own 'sexy/slutty' time around. I just wouldn't do what I do in a dungeon around 3 year olds. Period. So if you age playing means that I should make an actual effort to see you as an actual 3 year old (instead of as an adult pretending to be a 3 year old, which would be hard enough as it is), then you just made it totally impossible for me to do anything at all I came to the dungeon to do. Add to that the sexualization and now what you've got is me seeing 3 year old (regressed adults) sexually 'abused' and somehow I'm starting to have a hard time not stepping in and interrupting the scene to 'save' them, even though what they're doing is usually super mild compared to the shit I came to the dungeon to do.

I have a hard enough time as it is why anybody would want to roleplay age play, or age regression (unlike pony or puppy play, which I totally get) but then adding overt sexualization in the mix while in age regression? I cannot wrap my head around it, nor get over my feelings of intent discomfort around it.

And I do think there is a distinction between calling an adult female 'baby' as a term of endearment while doing sexy stuff with her, versus roleplaying that said adult female is really a baby/child/regressed in age and then doing sexy stuff with her. It's the second I have a hard time with, not the first, so OP if you meant the first one (profile and post aren't clear) please understand that this is not directed at you personally.

Age players, am I totally missing something obvious on this subject that any of you care to explain? Anybody else have the same issues around age play?



The first time a young lady referred to me as "Daddy", it freaked me out because of when it happened and the typical connotations (outside this lifestyle) which it engenders.

I was in no way, shape or form a member of this lifestyle. Once I got over my initial disgust, the young lady spent some time explaining to me exactly what she meant. It had nothing to do with age play and, interestingly enough, I don't think she'd be considered a "little".

Part of her explanation was to point me to an essay on a website called: vanillanot.com. Don't look for it. It hasn't been in operation for quite some time. The essay, though spoke to me in an amazing way. I got the feeling the lady that wrote the essay had been spying on me (or reading my mind about the kind of lady I wanted in my life).

I can re-post it here (again), if people think it will add to the conversation.

That said: ageplay is where one of my hard-and-fast lines are drawn. I will NOT go there. I try not to make any judgments, but as a survivor of rape at an early age, and as a baby boomer that has a hard enough time connecting with those younger than I, there's nothing the least bit interesting to me about anything that happened before I was about 21 years old so, I kind of tend to look for that in partners.

I said I try not to make judgments and I am going to try to keep to that while I agree with your sentiments in large part:

There is a fine line ... a very fine line between what some in this lifestyle choose to do and what just raises the "Ick Factor" to about a 9.5 for me. I have long said that because of certain elements of our lifestyle, it is easy for some nefarious sorts to "hide out" amongst us and I think it is up to us to be vigilant in order to protect not only ourselves, but our lifestyle for the sake of those that will come after us.

I applaud your moral stand about not indulging in certain things when there are "littles" around. I think it shows a level of sensitivity that many seem to lack and it sets an example of standards for behavior that our community as a whole should take a good, long, hard look at.



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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 3/8/2017 9:37:58 PM   
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That was a particularly well organized and presented rant, I'm impressed

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 3/11/2017 2:29:12 AM   
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I'm not sure that the op meant baby girl to denote little. It's a pretty common vanilla endearment.
Hell, it's pretty common among among kinksters to call someone a good girl but not to mean age play.

As far as slutty things to do, having her take pictures while with others without the other guy's consent is a slime ball thing to do. As I having her expose herself to people who haven't agreed to see that.i suggest that the op and his partner do some research on the issue of consent first.

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RE: slut tasks... slutty things for a baby girl to do. - 3/12/2017 6:30:09 AM   
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I feel sad reading this thread. You people forgot two of the key elements of this forum - open communication, and understanding. Yes, he is 40. Yes, he wants ideas. Yes, he is asking us. Why did you start judging him? Why all the bad language? Why the hostility? I thought this is one of the safe places for us to express ourselves without being put against a wall.

Twoforone100, I apologize for all of them. Let me give you some ideas you might like, from mild to wild - send you a kinky photo every day, insert various objects inside all of her holes, fuck a specific type of guy of your choosing, torture herself and videotape it. Most of these I already asked my slaves to perform and it was nice to see them try their best to impress me. You might also spice these suggestions with some personal things you two share, but that is up to your imagination. Good luck.

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