LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: lordsnot 1) Is there such a thing as a slave license or dungeon That's really two different questions. There really isn't anything such as a 'slave license' that means anything. There are some folks out there who get a kick out of that 'slave registry number' thing that you'll see on some people's profiles or in their signature line. Again, doesn't mean anything. (In fact, it's a turn off to some people because just as many people think it's foolish as other people think it is fun.) There absolutely are such things as dungeons. A dungeon is usually what people call a permanent building, with BDSM furniture, that is open to the public. A lot of major and some semi-major cities have them. There are also conventions that have their own temporary dungeons that are up for the duration of the event, small munch groups that have their own play space, etc. Some individuals, such as myself, have their own that aren't as big as what you'd see at a club, but do a dang fine job. quote:
2) Do you ever have to make upfront payments? If your plan is to see a professional, there are some that will require a deposit up front. This is to ensure that you don't make an appointment and then flake out, wasting her time. If you do want to schedule a session with a pro, for heaven's sake, do your research and find somebody reputable. Plenty of people have their own web page with reviews from clients, have people in the kink community who know them, etc, etc. Fetlife has a few groups related specifically to pros and classifieds for helping clients connect to them. quote:
3) How much should a mistress charge? This is really, really open ended. A lot of this is going to depend on what you would like to experience during your session, where the professional is located, how skilled the professional is, how long of a session you would like to book, and so on. Keep in mind that not all professionals offer the same types of play and not all permit sexual contact during your session. Again, back to doing your research. Consider what you would like to experience and see who fits that criteria via the professional's webpage. Expect to pay more for higher experience level, niche kinks, and more equipment. There are several current and former professional Dominants that are on the forums. (Ones that I would consider good.) They can probably answer your questions better than I can. I'm *just* a lifestyle Domme. Best of luck to you.
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