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KittenfromHell -> Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/6/2017 7:16:45 PM)
But I do wonder, why would someone think they should send a tribute to a stranger right away? Seriously. A tribute is something given to someone who deserves it. It should never be demanded in return for attention, (that's what whores are for). Financial domination should NEVER be a requirement from a Dominant. Unless you both sign a contract controlling the money, so the Dominant must return an agreed upon amount at the end of the relationship. Consider any tribute you give someone without that contract money placed on a bet. Whether you're betting on or against yourself depends on how long you wait to pay that tribute

DesFIP -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/6/2017 7:49:56 PM)
Or not. Unfortunately, most of the so called male subs are time wasters. They don't meet, they don't cancel meets. Then they contact the domme six months later and do it all again. Oddly enough, a tribute that costs about the same as buying her lunch at Applebee's will get them to show. And that's why people ask for it. Because they dislike being jerked around repeatedly.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 12:12:38 PM)
I have explained this before...and the differences and why none and all are worth a tribute. Incidentally to meet me requires a muffin/nice bit of chocolate cake...if they cannot afford it I will buy it. That aside I require gold and cash to build a site and every penny would be accounted for…

southernsub1971 -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 12:44:24 PM)
I have no issue with a tribute but it has to have some common sense. I mean why send money to someone 1000s miles away knowing you will probably never meet. I feel a tribute should have sone form or a trade off for services rendered and i dont mean sexual. As someone said above thats a prostitution and i do not call condone illegal activity. But a tribute as some call it for agreed upon services in my opinion is ok. With that being said i prefer a face to face meet for the exchange and a dinner or something afterwards to discuss the arrangements. I am sure some will disagree and thats ok we all have opinions. Thank you for the time.

KittenfromHell -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 1:01:53 PM)
I require cupcakes and silence while I refuse to eat them

WickedsDesire -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 1:13:55 PM)
I really do make people who wish to meet me (actually meet me) buy me a cake(muffin) of the chocolate construct. ..Because i have deemed them of worth. friend, contribution, perhaps lover - who can handle 47.5 orgasms and a pure wrecking…and I can assure you, all their kind I do welcome. The rest I view as chancing garbage I would have my flock of 3 cats jobbie on begin with tributes unto I, of gold and Scottish pounds and polymer fivers, or know your place garbage - that couldn't haunt a wheelie bin Slippernote 1 we all know what a polymer fiver is - right?

Diffident -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 5:11:22 PM)
I agree. Tributes are for professionals offering a service in return, and this is totally fine. A mutually beneficial arrangement. Once a relationship is established then whatever arrangement works best for both people is fine. How the relationship begins will have a big influence on what sort of relationship develops. Demanding a tribute upfront when not a professional offering a professional service is an instant red flag, but anyone is free to demand it if money is what they really want. Anyone who pays it is an idiot and has just announced that they are desperate.

TNDommeK -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/7/2017 6:20:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Or not. Unfortunately, most of the so called male subs are time wasters. They don't meet, they don't cancel meets. Then they contact the domme six months later and do it all again. Oddly enough, a tribute that costs about the same as buying her lunch at Applebee's will get them to show. And that's why people ask for it. Because they dislike being jerked around repeatedly. Say it again! Thats exactly why I require it. Ive found the ones who are actually into the fetish have no issue with this.

servilevocation -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/8/2017 3:51:52 AM)
No cunt on here is worth anything.

TNDommeK -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/8/2017 10:14:53 AM)
Wondering when new attempts at wank fodder will begin.... You fail

LadyConstanze -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/10/2017 4:27:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Or not. Unfortunately, most of the so called male subs are time wasters. They don't meet, they don't cancel meets. Then they contact the domme six months later and do it all again. Oddly enough, a tribute that costs about the same as buying her lunch at Applebee's will get them to show. And that's why people ask for it. Because they dislike being jerked around repeatedly. Actually a few years back there was an idea floating around that the guys send a minimal amount to a 3rd party that then will go to a charity, it was really tiny, I think along $5 as there were so many no shows, there was such a massive uproar among the male subs and how exploitative that would be and how their privacy would be compromised, blah blah. Nobody was going to scam for the price of an coffee (1st of all it was intended to be held by a 3rd party and even if not, how many appointments would you have to make to pay rent when it's $5....) There's a damned simple way to avoid all that, people can go to a local munch, meet people there (mind you most of them are in pubs, so they might still have to order a coffee or a drink) but seriously, while I am absolutely not looking for a play partner, if I would I wouldn't go out of my way and book time off work to be in a place and wait for a guy who might not show up, or if he does his hygiene has me wish for a gas mask, I'd tell them to meet me at a BDSM club or munch convenient to me and where I'd be anyway, if that doesn't work for them, well bad luck for them... Personally (and that's the female perspective of it) I'd me more than happy to send a 5er to a 3rd party in case I would really want to meet somebody, just to show that I am not a flake or internet warrior, and if it goes to a charitable cause, effing brilliant, that's like a frappucino I guess, I only have my coffee black so not really up to date, and nope I don't need a guy to pay for my coffee but if he doesn't even attempt to, he's not much of a gent, an an hour of my time to meet somebody who might not show up and wastes that hour, that's worth more than the 5er I would put in.

WTFUTURD -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/15/2017 6:13:57 AM)
Well 18 year old high school drop outs think they can get money from every tosser with no effort whatsoever the immature little pussies.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/15/2017 4:05:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WTFUTURD Well 18 year old high school drop outs think they can get money from every tosser with no effort whatsoever the immature little pussies. Sorry to disappoint you, but read above, I made the experience that every freaking tosser out there seems to expect that without any effort on their part I should go out of my way to give them a session they desire, immature little wankers... And nope, I don't charge but your "gift of submission" just doesn't cut it, especially not if it comes with a "to do list" Seems like every immature little wanker thinks he's owed to have his kinks met with no effort. Cry me a river, but somebody without a profile complaining that nobody cues up to service, what a surprise...

longwayhome -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/16/2017 4:12:31 PM)
Just don't get all the complaining about tributes. It's easy - if you don't want to, don't pay. If you want to enter into an agreement with somebody where money changes hands, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as both parties are clear about the outcomes. If it is distasteful to you, nobody is forcing you. There are just too many people who think that they are entitled to have their relationship/sexual/kink needs met and blame the websites they are members of, the opposite sex, Pro-Dommes, useless subs, Hilary Clinton or the European Union. Truth is that just because you want it doesn't mean it's going to land in your lap. If you want to meet someone you just take your hand out of your pants, button up your jeans, move away from the computer and go out and meet people. If you want to be served your personal kink menu, you can do the hard work, meet lots of people, hang out in the right places and be the kind of person that human beings want to spend time with. Alternatively you can enter into a perfectly honourable agreement with someone involving cash. People complain about tributes as if a tribute is automatically some kind of scam. It can be if it involves something for nothing or is dishonest, but if it is open and straightforward, it's your choice.

longwayhome -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (2/16/2017 4:14:17 PM)
If you want a hot meal, enter into an reciprocal arrangement which involves give and take with a friend, lover or partner (and be prepared to do your share of the work). Alternatively go to a restaurant and pay. No shame in that on either party. You are not entitled to hot meals just because you get hungry. And ffs stop blaming people who cook for not giving you a free lunch.

Dearelliot -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (3/7/2017 6:03:00 AM)
I think of Pro Dommes as "like" a store. when I shop for a tire for my car I call stores and get prices, maybe I go there maybe I don't. One rule, I don't make an appointment that I don't keep, that is fair, not showing up is wrong I feel it is the responsibility of the store owner to maintain their business and profit as they wish and need to. If they want me to send money to them or for anyone to send money to them before getting to the store, that is their choice, how successful they are at that will show up on their annual income. I myself never send money to any store. I can t imagine a person doing this. Would you do this with Sears or Target? Remember a pro dome is like any other store, they do not offer charity, they don't say come over look around try it out and see if you like it and I am quite happy with doing business with arms length transactions, you do this and I will do that. Tell me what you want I tell you what I want, and we agree or go our separate ways.

MaryMaryProDom -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (3/7/2017 8:39:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KittenfromHell But I do wonder, why would someone think they should send a tribute to a stranger right away? Seriously. A tribute is something given to someone who deserves it. It should never be demanded in return for attention, (that's what whores are for). Financial domination should NEVER be a requirement from a Dominant. Unless you both sign a contract controlling the money, so the Dominant must return an agreed upon amount at the end of the relationship. Consider any tribute you give someone without that contract money placed on a bet. Whether you're betting on or against yourself depends on how long you wait to pay that tribute There are many people on this site who desire having another person control their finances!

MaryMaryProDom -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (3/7/2017 10:13:26 AM)
There are many people who want to give a tribute without ever meeting the other person! That doesn't make the person who is receiving the tribute any less of a person.

DocStrange -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (3/7/2017 10:20:07 AM)
um no

WickedsDesire -> RE: Send tributes now!! (j/k) (3/7/2017 5:16:33 PM)
none at all ..but name them all.

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