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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/14/2017 7:09:26 AM

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greta75 is a women bondathingie Yes i was never sure with her. She was actually lovely to speak too. I make no pretence I remotely understand the reasons why she types most, not all, of what she types. She speaks her mind and that is how her mind works. She is intelligent but I fathom 0% of her workings and inner being. I will vouch for that being her 100%.

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The following have a neat check against em, just use your mortal imaginations or fek off to the pub if u prefer: Nightshades
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Google Airth castle also :) Christ i am not here to be everyone's lacky but here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Airth_Castle

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/23/2017 10:59:50 PM

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For both men and women who enjoy Fisting.

I have questions about it.

After Fisting a woman, and if you attempt to have penetrative sex with her after. Will she feel looser? Or would the vagina walls naturally go back to being tight again?

Does regular fisting loosen your pussy over time?

Anybody ever experienced double fisting and came back from it? And still able to go back to regular penetrative sex?

And women who enjoys fisting regularly, are you still able to enjoy regular penetrative sex after that?

I have no experience with fisting but have been asked to consider to experience it for the orgasmic levels it could bring. But I want to understand more about it from real experiences before I decide if I want to be stretched to accommodate it.

With the right Dom, fisting will be successful, provide multiple orgasms if you perform it and talk to her properly and she will snap right back into shape and be begging for more of anything from you in a soft out-of-breath voice. Make sure you prepare, shape your fist correctly and enter her correctly as preparation and technique are all important. No free lessons here, sorry. A great explanation can be found the book "The Loving Dominant Paperback – March 22, 2008 by John Warren (Author), Libby Warren (Author).

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/23/2017 11:06:33 PM

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Talk to her properly? ... lol

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/23/2017 11:56:42 PM

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Talking the walk is very important...one can just about talk her into subspace using the right tone and inflection and timing especially with fisting: Giving her instructions in the right voice will trigger uncontrollable orgasms leaving her in a state that makes whatever you have planned for her much easier and pleasurable for both of you.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/24/2017 12:03:44 AM

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Talking the walk is very important...one can just about talk her into subspace using the right tone and inflection and timing especially with fisting: Giving her instructions in the right voice will trigger uncontrollable orgasms leaving her in a state that makes whatever you have planned for her much easier and pleasurable for both of you.

To each his own i guess.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/24/2017 12:21:48 AM

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Talking the walk is very important...one can just about talk her into subspace using the right tone and inflection and timing especially with fisting: Giving her instructions in the right voice will trigger uncontrollable orgasms leaving her in a state that makes whatever you have planned for her much easier and pleasurable for both of you.

To each his own i guess.

Sensory input to a woman is so important I find. It's why most any book on the subject of Male/Female interaction in a Top/Bottom situation will suggest things dealing with all her senses throughout the activity rather than focus on one or two for short periods of time, like a blindfold or the rope against her skin an how to stimulate her with it's feel or the sound of your voice and with experience how and what to say which btw might change a little with individual women but surprisingly not so much in my experience. With fisting its a special dance that requires all the right form and moves and timing and yes, when she is in your power use everything including the right sound and the right words, "the talk", to gain more power over her.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/24/2017 8:59:54 AM

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For me, i find talking too much to be a distraction that stops me from being able to enjoy the experience. It's like going to look for a new car and having a salesman who won't shut up and let you enjoy the experience. But like i said... to each their own. It may just be a me thing.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:00:14 AM

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OBVIOUS ANOTHER MAN CALLED GRETA, OR AN IGNORANT NUN.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:07:25 AM

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OBVIOUS ANOTHER MAN CALLED GRETA, OR AN IGNORANT NUN.

Lol! I didn't know to be a woman, you have to be knowledgeable about Fisting.

I guess that's street cred in Lesbian world!

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:23:59 AM

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GRETA WTF are you doing on a BDSM SITE you stupid MAN WOMAN OR ???

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:26:46 AM

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DEAR WD. poor bay gay boi. obviously back on the drugs again, sometimes your sense of humour is amusing , BUT ONLY TO YOU.
ps wash your dildos properly . xx Terri.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:29:29 AM

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GRETA WTF are you doing on a BDSM SITE you stupid MAN WOMAN OR ???

I didn't know Fisting is a typical requirement of BDSM.
I think you are mistaking what straight BDSM couples do together, with what you do with your lesbian girlfriends.
When there are real cocks, I don't think Fists are necessary.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 4:39:17 PM

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Greta, I'm kind of doing my part in the spirit of information sharing, ok? Some of this is going to be a little crude.

My experience in this area isn't about vaginal fisting. It's with anal fisting. I'm seriously not big on it. For me, it's more like "ha, ha, ha... Look what I can make you do that your body really wasn't intended to do". The only appeal for me as a sadist is the humiliation and degradation factor.

Even with anal fisting, I can't really answer your question about 'tight' or 'loose' sensation factor. I don't have a flesh and blood dick and there aren't any nerve endings in a strap on. What I do get out of strap-on sex is entirely another thread.

This is going to sound like one of the dumbest things I have ever posted. My whole pre-practice for anal fisting came from nothing related to kink at all. When I was at least five or six years younger than a person would be allowed on this website, I got my experience in beginner technique on, of all things, an Orange Crush machine. (If you don't know what Orange Crush is, it's kind of like a third rate soda pop.) Reach up into the machine in a certain way, up far enough, and Bingo! Free can of soda.

Anal fisting is kind of the same thing. Fold your fingers in, to make your hand smaller than your wrist. Get the other person's muscles to relax as you go. Take your time. (Unlike soda machines, people have this nasty habit of tearing.) It's not some big accomplishment. Any top can do it. Before you know it, you can have your arm half way up somebody's ass.

This is pretty much like anything else. If you use (abuse) a person's body too much, they will suffer the consequences. RS mentioned "gape" which I personally find terribly unattractive. (Always makes me think, "hey, let's shove a baseball bat up there.") I feel the same way about folks who want to talk about 'stretching'. People fuck each other up the ass every day. If you (general you) really think I'm that bad in bed that you have to prepare yourself in some way for me to get a toy or a strap on up there in some way, go play with your butt plugs in preparation for the event all on your own.

I happen to know a couple (maybe three?) people who didn't do fisting in moderation. Didn't give themselves time between sessions to allow the muscles to strengthen again to do the job the body was meant to do. They now have a condition that is commonly known as "anal leakage". That's the nice way of saying "fecal incontinence". Tight or loose went out the window.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/25/2017 10:53:29 PM

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Thanks LP.

It's also interesting that like at least with vagina, we know it can fit a baby's head.

It's crazy to me that people, the ones on receiving end wants to experience it anally too.

Maybe it's for the "humiliation" factor. Maybe it's part of "masochism".

Anal sex of any kind is a total hard limit for me. So it would be a part of my body I would never consider to experience anything being placed in there. Have I experienced it? Yes I have, and it was extremely uncomfortable and unpleasurable. And decided what's the point of it? I do understand some women actually cum harder from anal sex than vagina sex. But everybody's cumming spots are different. So if it works for great cums. Definitely if only anal sex made me cum, I would love it too. But it's just icky and uncomfortable and does nothing for me.

So anal fisting is probably never happening.

But I am always in pursuance of greater orgasmic levels. And one thing I realise is the women who likes fisting are seriously addicted to it. There must be a reason. The guy who is trying to convince me of this, is telling me the orgasms are gonna be unbelievable lol.

I am sure how great this is will differ women to women.

But I've decided that I will only try fisting if I am in a long term serious relationship with someone. But not with a FwB. And the person asking is just an FwB.

As I am worried about permanent vagina damage. That can't go back to original condition.

Women who have given birth often also say, the vagina is never really exactly the same after that. I equate fisting to birthing as both are big things.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/26/2017 4:23:08 PM

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GRETA WTF are you doing on a BDSM SITE you stupid MAN WOMAN OR ???

I didn't know Fisting is a typical requirement of BDSM.
I think you are mistaking what straight BDSM couples do together, with what you do with your lesbian girlfriends.
When there are real cocks, I don't think Fists are necessary.

This is a trap, right? If I agree then I wasted all that time learning to do this right and if I disagree then a make my own cock a little less relevant. What to do? What to do?

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/26/2017 5:01:12 PM

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GRETA WTF are you doing on a BDSM SITE you stupid MAN WOMAN OR ???

I didn't know Fisting is a typical requirement of BDSM.
I think you are mistaking what straight BDSM couples do together, with what you do with your lesbian girlfriends.
When there are real cocks, I don't think Fists are necessary.

This is a trap, right? If I agree then I wasted all that time learning to do this right and if I disagree then a make my own cock a little less relevant. What to do? What to do?

Do BOTH !!! That's what us greedy girls like!

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/26/2017 5:05:12 PM

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You don't have to have a whole fist up there to have great orgasms. Personally. I prefer only four fingers curled under so the knuckles stimulate the g spot while the thumb is on the outside to stimulate the clit. If his hands are too big, then less fingers inside. As long as it works for you, that's all that matters.

Cocks, fingers, mouths, dildos - they all can be used to elicit powerful orgasms, alone or in combination.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 2/28/2017 11:35:57 PM

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This is a trap, right? If I agree then I wasted all that time learning to do this right and if I disagree then a make my own cock a little less relevant. What to do? What to do?

So..., the thing is. This friend of mine, have dabbled with many women who enjoys fisting. Including the extreme that could take double fists up their vagina and their anal. According to them, when it gets to that level. They actually do not enjoy regular penile penetration anymore. And keep craving for bigger and bigger challenges.

So I guess it depends.

I can't even imagine one fist, double fist sounds super scary!

Personally for me. I like to still be able to feel a real cock in my vagina. So I have serious concerns about the kind of changes fisting could make to a vagina.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 3/1/2017 12:12:50 PM

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GRETA WTF are you doing on a BDSM SITE you stupid MAN WOMAN OR ???

I didn't know Fisting is a typical requirement of BDSM.
I think you are mistaking what straight BDSM couples do together, with what you do with your lesbian girlfriends.
When there are real cocks, I don't think Fists are necessary.

This is a trap, right? If I agree then I wasted all that time learning to do this right and if I disagree then a make my own cock a little less relevant. What to do? What to do?

Do BOTH !!! That's what us greedy girls like!

Exactly what I do. After a girl has several orgasms from me making a cone of my fingers and then inserting my hand up to the palm I then am free to expand those fingers and knuckles to stimulate her G spot and every spot in between. I'm lubed and she is too as I am talking to her all during this process, I have her spread her legs and urge her to show them to me and point her toes while I ease my way into her. I personally like to make her do most of the work and "talk" to her all this time and order her to beg me and show me how she fucks and let her move on my fist and that, my lovely girl, triggers the huge, I say huge, orgasms. After I am finished with that she is butter and willing to do anything I wish. Being a Dom is complicated business I do say.

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RE: Question about Fisting - 3/1/2017 12:14:07 PM

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...but somebody has to do it. *wink*

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