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forced bi - 2/10/2017 6:20:33 AM   
subjimmy1


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I want to be used in a forced bi scene ... only problem is i'm already bi ... i love to suck guys ...Do You think i could get anything out of being made to blow guys ? For some reason i do .... Make any sense ?
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RE: forced bi - 2/10/2017 8:44:41 AM   
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If it's something you want to do, What is "forced" about it?

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RE: forced bi - 2/10/2017 9:18:11 AM   
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I can only understand forced bi if you are into pretend/role play. Otherwise it just doesn't make sense. However, it seems to be a common turn on for some men. It appears to make sense to those who are into it.

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RE: forced bi - 2/10/2017 10:24:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

If it's something you want to do, What is "forced" about it?



Exactly.

Being "bi" is a matter of being, it's not performing an act.

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RE: forced bi - 2/10/2017 12:47:35 PM   
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More importantly, what would she get out of telling you to go do it?

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RE: forced bi - 2/10/2017 4:45:07 PM   
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quote:

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More importantly, what would she get out of telling you to go do it?


He could make her find the guys for him, you know since it's so "forced" - double win for him

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RE: forced bi - 2/11/2017 6:27:37 PM   
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quote:

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I want to be used in a forced bi scene ... only problem is i'm already bi ... i love to suck guys ...Do You think i could get anything out of being made to blow guys ? For some reason i do .... Make any sense ?

Well, of *course* you'll get something out of it. Not because of being "forced". Rather, because it's already something you enjoy and have sexual urges about.

The angle you are trying to work out of this, though? The 'forced' part or the supposed power/control of the person forcing you? Not so much.



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RE: forced bi - 2/13/2017 4:57:16 AM   
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You'll always find people here questioning the whole "forced bi" thing, mainly because most of the men who want to be forced to suck cock actually quite fancy the idea anyway so it comes across like topping from the bottom.

In answer to your question though, the idea of being "forced" to do something you actually like does make sense. It just means you like the dynamic of having someone else in control of what you do. The paradox comes when you say that you want to be forced to do something, because that is really just a demand and therefore not very "forced" or "submissive".

If acting as if you were bi and sucking cock was genuinely a strong taboo that someone else had to "make" you do, it might be something that would be a turn on for both you and your Domme. A turn on for you because your limits were being pushed and a turn on for your partner because of the unease/discomfort/fear it would cause you. (Even then many people would object to that being referred to as "forced bi".) But you are bi so none of the above applies.

Let's put it a different way, I love a partner sitting on my face and I know that the breath restriction that can come with it can be very scary but thrilling at the same time. A partner might get themselves off by initiating it and enjoying being rough with me, but I could hardly call it forced, and demanding it wouldn't be very submissive.

Given your declared sexual preferences, it would be nice for you to get together with someone who enjoyed watching you suck cock - there are plenty of people like that about and it might be a win/win.

But "forced bi" it aint.

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RE: forced bi - 2/13/2017 9:12:01 AM   
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i suffer from the same desires..........and i also love my Domme or Dom to watch me suck dick or get assfucked

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RE: forced bi - 3/16/2017 10:16:58 PM   
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I find that the sub that wants to be "forced" into a bi or gay sexual act habors negative feelings about their sexual orientation or rejects the fluidity of sexuality. Being "forced" reduces some of the shame associated with having the desire independently. It's a way to shift the blame of one's behavior onto the dominant "making them" act out a desire they haven't fully come to terms with.

Personally, I love forced bi. Breaking down that barrier of what is "supposed to happen" (set by societal norms) and accepting what "is" happening free of guilt and shame.

I told him to get on his knees. I made him gag on a giant pulsating veiny cock. The balls slapping against his chin are their because I ordered him to stay still while his face is being fucked. And he just being a good boy... eagerly showing Me how well he follows My commands. And the spit drooling down his chin, as his mouth waters a lubricates itself so he can take it deeper and deeper, is just a reflexive response from his body. Even his erection throbbing between his legs and the clear excitement dripping onto the floor from his skinny aching pathetic little cocktail weenie is laying against, is a yet another betrayal by his body. Or maybe his arousal is a result of being turned by how excited I am about his commitment to please Me. How far past the limit he's willing to go for that smile of Mine. For My approval and amusement. Hearing Me report his progress or make corrections to his technique.

It's especially fun when both men are straight or struggling with their sexuality and instead of being stuck in their heads about how things should be, how they are supposed to feel or act or what should turn the on... they are fully aware and enjoying the feeling of the cold hard floor as they leak onto it... the strong warm hole they have their cock plunged deep inside... the gleaming chin cover in saliva bubbles and gurgling... My giggles and instructions... My hand firmly pressed on the back of his head "forcing" him to take more... making him gag on a cock like a good little cocksucker.

Yeah it may not be "forced".. but it sure is happening in My presence because I want it to... and who doesn't want to give Me what I want? Lol...

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RE: forced bi - 4/3/2017 8:40:15 PM   
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Domina,

You have, in this slave's humble opinion, a clear understanding of the psychology of a submissive being 'forced' to provide fellatio. It is particularly stimulating when, as you have stated, the Mistress pushes the slave's head from the back encouraging him or 'her' to accept more of the cock. It is also stimulating for the slave to receive criticisms and guidance from the Mistress with regard to his or 'her' performance. This slave believes the combination of humiliation, guilt, desire, and submission to Mistress also combine to enhance the experience.

Respectfully,
StephanieB51


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RE: forced bi - 4/3/2017 9:27:02 PM   
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I don't know, one way to find out...

Suck his cock!!!!!!

Did that do it for you?

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RE: forced bi - 4/13/2017 12:02:33 AM   
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If sucking dick is something you do on a regular day then your not forced. It's forced when your being told to do something you usually wouldn't. Even if it's not very forced it's still a turn on to be told to do something you normally would never do.

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RE: forced bi - 4/13/2017 4:23:43 PM   
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Addressing the topic only...

There isn't a person here or anywhere on this planet that is strong enough or Dominant enough to turn me bi

'Nuff Said

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