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rw86347 -> I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:21:42 PM)
I am a 40-year-old successful professional that is married, and NOT looking. However, I wish I knew more about this sort of thing years ago. If possible I would love to talk with a sub/slave online to ask questions about the lifestyle. Here is what I would love... - I love a clean house (some do, some don't) - I love sex multiple times per day - I love massage and blowjobs - I love romance - I love to cuddle What I HATE is, the disrespectful words I hear come out of women's mouths towards their husbands. As man, I would never think of saying things I hear women say, not because I am pussy whipped but because no one needs to hear those sorts of words period. I would love to be with a woman who cleaned the house every day. I would love her to through the day come down to my office and see if she can service me to reduce my stress. After work, I would love a massage and blowjob. After dinner, I would love to strap her down and fuck the shit out of her. Cooking??? I couldn't care less. We could always go out for dinner and such. My guess is that if such a woman existed I would fall head over heals for her. I can't be inside of a woman's body that much, with a woman who controls her mouth, and not develop a deep relationship with her. Right???

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:29:35 PM)
You're married. So, your list of what you would love is moot to everyone but your wife.

rw86347 -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:35:21 PM)
My hope is to meet a sub which can teach me and help me understand. And understanding what I like is foundational information.

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:42:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rw86347 My hope is to meet a sub which can teach me and help me understand. And understanding what I like is foundational information. And your wife would know and have consented, right?

rw86347 -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:45:14 PM)
To ask questions? I get the sense you don't like people asking questions of subs in this forum.

tamaka -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 9:51:22 PM)
Why do you need to meet to ask questions?

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/20/2017 10:03:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rw86347 To ask questions? I get the sense you don't like people asking questions of subs in this forum. Wrong. I find it suspicious that you say you're married, give a laundry list of what you want in a woman (which is a discussion to have with your wife, not us) then specifically ask for a female submissive to"teach" you. You could have simply asked questions which we would've been happy to answer, but you didn't. You also don't specifically need a sub female to answer your questions. D/s is just a relationship where the people involved have defined their roles and relationship structure. Both parties need to get something out it. So, out of your laundry list of what you want from her, you need to ask yourself what are you offering her?

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 7:46:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Why do you need to meet to ask questions? It's more fun. Take the question "do you like to wear white rope"? The question is better asked while holding a newly dressed white rope under her gaze just beneath her nose so she can reach out with her tongue to taste and smell the new fibers and imagine them touching her soft unmarked skin with anticipation and excitement. See?

peppermint -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:16:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Why do you need to meet to ask questions? It's more fun. Take the question "do you like to wear white rope"? The question is better asked while holding a newly dressed white rope under her gaze just beneath her nose so she can reach out with her tongue to taste and smell the new fibers and imagine them touching her soft unmarked skin with anticipation and excitement. See? And you would get into that position with a married cheater? Personally I don't trust anyone who is not trustworthy to put a rope anywhere near me. There's no excitement or anticipation unless it's anticipating his wife finding out where he is and coming to check on him.

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:34:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Why do you need to meet to ask questions? It's more fun. Take the question "do you like to wear white rope"? The question is better asked while holding a newly dressed white rope under her gaze just beneath her nose so she can reach out with her tongue to taste and smell the new fibers and imagine them touching her soft unmarked skin with anticipation and excitement. See? What do you suppose his wife would think of that? Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

Greta75 -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:34:41 AM)
OP is like the typical airheaded married men that exists sometimes! I don't know. It's like, "I have a wife, but I want a sub who will do all this shit for me that my wife would not do!" I think he has no clue how disrespectful that is to the sub.

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:35:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Why do you need to meet to ask questions? It's more fun. Take the question "do you like to wear white rope"? The question is better asked while holding a newly dressed white rope under her gaze just beneath her nose so she can reach out with her tongue to taste and smell the new fibers and imagine them touching her soft unmarked skin with anticipation and excitement. See? And you would get into that position with a married cheater? Personally I don't trust anyone who is not trustworthy to put a rope anywhere near me. There's no excitement or anticipation unless it's anticipating his wife finding out where he is and coming to check on him. Yes. I would still let a married woman taste my rope. But just a little taste. Maybe more than that if she begs and has a note from her husband or a note that seems to be from her husband or a promise that she will bring a note from her husband very soon. Oh please oh please tell me that's okay with you. It would make me feel soo much better.

Greta75 -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:37:20 AM)
Might be different for men, as they always love the idea of fucking another man's wife. It's an ego thing.

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:38:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Why do you need to meet to ask questions? It's more fun. Take the question "do you like to wear white rope"? The question is better asked while holding a newly dressed white rope under her gaze just beneath her nose so she can reach out with her tongue to taste and smell the new fibers and imagine them touching her soft unmarked skin with anticipation and excitement. See? What do you suppose his wife would think of that? I don't know her. Does she want to taste my rope too?

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:46:04 AM)
quote: Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy. I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 8:47:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 Might be different for men, as they always love the idea of fucking another man's wife. It's an ego thing. Maybe. Are you married?

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 9:43:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy. I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster. Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

LTE -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 10:42:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy. I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster. Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented. I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

OsideGirl -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 10:49:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy. I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster. Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented. I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl. No, actually I don't. If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

tamaka -> RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask questions (2/21/2017 12:07:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LTE quote: Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy. I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster. Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented. I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl. No, actually I don't. If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive. Maybe he wants to fuck her too.

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