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Masters Request - 3/5/2017 6:56:06 AM

Lastpearl

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Hello, I need some advice...my Master made a strange request of me two weeks ago and I'm confused about it, he's asked me to stay silent until he contacts me...
This has caused me a lot of distress and I'm unsure what is going on

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RE: Masters Request - 3/5/2017 7:17:26 AM

WindAndSky

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It could simply be a test of devotion. Something like that chick sitting at the guy's desk for days in Secretary. If it's been two weeks, I'd be pretty damned uncomfortable with it too. My suspicion would tend toward "he's on vacation with his wife and kids and doesn't want to chance her seeing a text or email."

Either way, if it's causing you distress, then it may be a dealbreaker for you. If so, then it's up to you to tell him that, and see what he decides to do with it. If he accepts it, great. If not, and it's something he wants to continue doing, then it's up to you to decide whether you can stay in a relationship where you know you're going to be unhappy at least some of the time, with a person who won't take your limits into account.

Is this someone you're in a realtime, face to face relationship with? If not, how/why is he your Master?

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RE: Masters Request - 3/5/2017 9:08:08 AM

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Have you met him in real life? Have you been to his house? If the answer to either is no, then he's married.

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RE: Masters Request - 3/5/2017 9:27:24 AM

Spiritedsub2

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Married.

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RE: Masters Request - 3/5/2017 11:37:53 AM

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I Think Des' question is the first thing that needs to be answered. Have you actually met this person face to face?

Personally, I think that "tests" and the silent treatment are red flags in a relationship.

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RE: Masters Request - 3/5/2017 9:39:47 PM

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He might be saying that you are too needy and he's sick of you annoying him on a constant basis.

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RE: Masters Request - 3/7/2017 3:42:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lastpearl

Hello, I need some advice...my Master made a strange request of me two weeks ago and I'm confused about it, he's asked me to stay silent until he contacts me...
This has caused me a lot of distress and I'm unsure what is going on

By 'silent', did he mean no communication with anyone or perhaps is it okay to meet a handsome Dom for lunch and discuss the issue in the privacy of a quiet little corner booth?

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RE: Masters Request - 3/8/2017 8:52:10 PM

duchkey

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Something like that chick sitting at the guy's desk for days in Secretary.

he's on vacation with his wife and kids

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RE: Masters Request - 3/8/2017 8:54:05 PM

duchkey

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I pick the last one

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RE: Masters Request - 3/12/2017 7:42:35 AM

AdamSilentMentor

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I am sorry to bring news as bad as the others had, but your Master might have some other plans with someone else and he just wants to make sure you are silently waiting for his return. If this is the case, I hope you already knew about him being married or involved with someone else - if he told you are the only one, he might have been lying to you and you should be more careful in the future.

But if he is just punishing you or testing your devotion, then stay strong.

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