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Questions on the daddy/dau. Relationship and little play - 3/7/2017 11:46:08 AM

shadowedheathen

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Long time submissive here. I'm curious about things I've never tried. I've recently become interested in 'little' play and daddy /daughter. I asked a daddy for his view on what daddy /daughter play was and he told me it was the same as D/s. Is that all it is? If so, why another terminology for it? Any tips for finding a good daddy? And best ways to go about this new venue for me?

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RE: Questions on the daddy/dau. Relationship and little... - 3/7/2017 3:21:45 PM

ReMakeYou

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In theory, DD/LG is a D/s relationship with a strong focus on ageplay. You'd find a dom who's into ageplay pretty much the same way you'd find a dom who's into anything else.

In practice, especially "daddy dom" had turned into a term that means different things depending on who's saying it, and what they want to convey at the time. Essentially meaningless, aside from saying that either they want some unspecified and personal definitions met that "normal doms" don't (on the sub side), or that they have some unspecified and personally defined traits that they like to think most other doms don't have (on the dom side).

If you're specifically into ageplay, say that much. Otherwise, think about what you do want, and try to find clearer and more specific ways to articulate as much. Then go out and realize that finding a dom is like every other dating related human experience ever; you're going to have to get out there, get a sense for what other people are like, and still kiss a lot of frogs before coming across the right one.

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RE: Questions on the daddy/dau. Relationship and little... - 4/9/2017 9:34:16 PM

brattykajira

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Master has told me that there are differnt dynamics to a Daddy/daughter or "little"relationship, as opposed to a Dom/sub relationship. i have been "accused" of being in a D/d relationship by misinformed people because of the age differnce between Master and me. In simplest terms, a daughter or little is treated as a child by a Dom/Domme (regardless of the age), and a sub is trained to grow beyond their actual age and serve. Obviously there is more involved, but thats how it was explained to me.

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RE: Questions on the daddy/dau. Relationship and little... - 4/10/2017 8:47:20 AM

DesFIP

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Except not.
Not all d types are interested in service. Not all s types are interested in being served.
Some people are into service, others into obedience, others into emotional transparency.

Dominants are people who have the right to make decisions in agreed upon areas of your life. Can just be play, can mean everything except your kitchen, for those of us who need our pantries in the order we find best.

D/lg usually has a more nurturing feel to it, father knows best, sort of thing. Where the lg gets indulged and catered to toome degree. It's more an emotional nuance to the relationship than anything specific.

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