heavyblinker
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ORIGINAL: respectmen Just because a sub male expresses his BDSM desires on a BDSM website, this doesn't make him self entitled, self serving, or disrespectful. He has a right to have standards too, he has a right to seek certain niches too. He has a right to have desires too. You lot seem to think submissive men should just be mindless robots that have no desires of their own and no personality of their own. They are just there for your purpose to be whoever you want them to be. Male subs aren't allowed to think for themselves apparently. I think what the dommes here object to isn't that the sub has desires, but that his desires are all that he thinks about. That and the fact that he automatically expects that a domme would want to fulfill them simply because he thinks that is what dommes do. It's not that subs shouldn't have desires, it's that there needs to be a give and take... and there are also going to be things that one person might not want to do.
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