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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 5:43:23 PM   
longwayhome


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome

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Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


Some Dommes are shit, some subs are shit, some lawyers are shit, some nurses are shit, some men are shit, women are shit............

Some people who use kink websites are shit.

Some aren't.

Who knew?


So you just said that all women are shit.



In the name of sweet Jesus, you know that is not what I said. It was a list. The word "some" was implied.

And even if it wasn't, the sense of the post was clear - that is that you can complain about any group of people but clearly there is good and bad in any group so having a moan about one group and placing characteristics on them is mistaken.

Your misplaced pedantry is extremely tiring.

You know my position on discriminating against groups of people, simply because you can identify them as such. Indeed you have taken me to task for being naive in the past when you have singled out an individual group (e.g. the entire worldwide population of millions of Muslims) for the kind of generalisations the OP is making here.

I would hardly be likely to be picking out women in this way, especially when my very next post was arguing against the generalisation that it was "unnatural for a women to be dominant over a man".

You know these things and yet you enjoy trying to prove me wrong on supposed linguistic slip?

Good call.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 5:47:45 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome

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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: longwayhome

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ORIGINAL: johnsk

Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


Some Dommes are shit, some subs are shit, some lawyers are shit, some nurses are shit, some men are shit, women are shit............

Some people who use kink websites are shit.

Some aren't.

Who knew?


So you just said that all women are shit.



In the name of sweet Jesus, you know that is not what I said. It was a list. The word "some" was implied.

And even if it wasn't, the sense of the post was clear - that is that you can complain about any group of people but clearly there is good and bad in any group so having a moan about one group and placing characteristics on them is mistaken.

Your misplaced pedantry is extremely tiring.

You know my position on discriminating against groups of people, simply because you can identify them as such. Indeed you have taken me to task for being naive in the past when you have singled out an individual group (e.g. the entire worldwide population of millions of Muslims) for the kind of generalisations the OP is making here.

I would hardly be likely to be picking out women in this way, especially when my very next post was arguing against the generalisation that it was "unnatural for a women to be dominant over a man".

You know these things and yet you enjoy trying to prove me wrong on supposed linguistic slip?

Good call.


No, i wasn't trying to prove you wrong. I just pointed out to you what you said.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 5:59:13 PM   
MsLadySue


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Good heavens woman, perhaps you should step away from your computer until you learn reading comprehension and can write something that actually makes sense.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 6:13:44 PM   
LisaSadistic


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And another one who doesn't understand why his "Mistress I want 2 serv U Mistress" messages aren't working.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 6:28:37 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Good heavens woman, perhaps you should step away from your computer until you learn reading comprehension and can write something that actually makes sense.


What part was unclear?

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:05:21 PM   
MsLadySue


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Your elevator got stuck on the first floor, didn't it?

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:12:34 PM   
DesFIP


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I didn't realize there were anyone who hasn't already put her on hide. I just don't have any time for bigots, even people who are bigoted against themselves.

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Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:13:55 PM   
tamaka


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Your elevator got stuck on the first floor, didn't it?


Oh boy... you're one of those. No wonder why you look so miserable.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:15:03 PM   
tamaka


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I didn't realize there were anyone who hasn't already put her on hide. I just don't have any time for bigots, even people who are bigoted against themselves.


Go do your laundry... god knows you can't handle much else.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:20:31 PM   
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Your lack of comprehension and penchant for assumption are equally bad. I have a sub of 5-1/2 years that makes me very happy along with many pleasurable hobbies. What makes you so miserable?

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:22:05 PM   
tamaka


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Your lack of comprehension and penchant for assumption are equally bad. I have a sub of 5-1/2 years that makes me very happy along with many pleasurable hobbies. What makes you so miserable?


Lately... cable news.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:22:41 PM   
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Says the sp who makes generalized statements and mocks everyone who disagrees with their mistaken perception of how life works.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:34:17 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Says the sp who makes generalized statements and mocks everyone who disagrees with their mistaken perception of how life works.


My perception is not mistaken. I can perceive the same thing in many, many different ways. I choose the ones i decide to operate under for my own reasons... as i'm sure, you do also

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:42:57 PM   
ThundersCry2U


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Kinda calling the kettle black ain`t ya....

I`ve never seen a post of your`s that you have ever posted, that was not only a few...sentences.

As for a whoppppping 5 1/2 year relationship? That ain`t much to brag about for a woman your age..

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 7:50:16 PM   
MsLadySue


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If you don't like what I have to say, then don't read my comments. You don't impress me either, but I know you don't give a damn. My 5-1/2 years beats your nothing.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 8:27:08 PM   
respectmen


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

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It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?


Just look at your face in your profile as an example. You look like an angry bitch. And i don't say that to be mean. I am just pointing out what's obvious.



I got the same impression when I saw her pic. She's a monster!

Many of the dommes here are narcissistic chauvinistic cuntbags that have serious self entitlement issues. They are fun to troll at times though. Especially the feminists.

It's best to pick up bitches from the vanilla world who like a bit of kink and not all the other crap that comes with dommes. There are plenty of women on vanilla sites who like to tie up guys.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 8:36:27 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?


Just look at your face in your profile as an example. You look like an angry bitch. And i don't say that to be mean. I am just pointing out what's obvious.



I got the same impression when I saw her pic. She's a monster!

Many of the dommes here are narcissistic chauvinistic cuntbags that have serious self entitlement issues. They are fun to troll at times though. Especially the feminists.

It's best to pick up bitches from the vanilla world who like a bit of kink and not all the other crap that comes with dommes. There are plenty of women on vanilla sites who like to tie up guys.


Lol... yes... you could always buy them a leather skirt for their birthday if that really turns you on. ;)

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:23:07 PM   
longwayhome


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?


Just look at your face in your profile as an example. You look like an angry bitch. And i don't say that to be mean. I am just pointing out what's obvious.



I got the same impression when I saw her pic. She's a monster!

Many of the dommes here are narcissistic chauvinistic cuntbags that have serious self entitlement issues. They are fun to troll at times though. Especially the feminists.

It's best to pick up bitches from the vanilla world who like a bit of kink and not all the other crap that comes with dommes. There are plenty of women on vanilla sites who like to tie up guys.


So much hate rm.

Why so personal? Why so unpleasant?

Are you surprised that you attract negative comments when you make such unwarranted personal attacks?

If this is how you feel about Dommes, why are you spending time on a kink site?

Good luck with "picking up" women when you have this kind of attitude towards them.

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RE: Dommes - 3/9/2017 12:45:26 AM   
LisaSadistic


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The fact that I'm getting random messages from guys who just want to get tied up by "bitches" is the reason I'm soon leaving this site. But I'll continue going to events in my local community. I'll admit I've never had a Ds relationship, but I would like to develop one with a compatible person. Yes I am a feminist but I also have respect for Ds and nothing but respect for Dom/mes and subs of ALL genders who understand what Ds is about.

I'm tired of getting bombarded with messages from guys just looking for easy, kinky sex from women they don't respect, because they think kinky=slut or something like that, and they get mad when they find out we are humans and not live action porno. If you can find vanilla "bitches" to tie you up then why don't you just go do that instead of trolling dominant women who seek a genuine Ds relationship.

I think most of us who are not after your money are genuine, good hearted people who want to love and take care of a sub, and we do not deserve to be treated this way by any you. It is an absolute shame of an outrage the way that men who call themselves submissive are treating dominant women. Ridiculous. No, we are not bitches just because we won't tie you up and ride your boner while there is not a submissive bone anywhere in your body.

We are dominants. We like submissives. You are not submissive. You are not even decently respectful by normal standards, much less submissive. Would you just walk up to a random woman and say "Hey wanna fuck?" No, normally you would not. So why send me messages wanting to "serve" me? How about talk to me like a normal person and get to know me? Right now you are a complete stranger, which means you will enjoying neither my pussy nor my cock. That doesn't make me bitch. That makes me a person who is seeking a genuine relationship. I thought this was a "dating" site after all.

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RE: Dommes - 3/11/2017 12:59:06 PM   
respectmen


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Lisa

Men have a right to only seek what they want too.

A quote from you in another thread

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So basically, you're mad because you don't look like him.


I can flip this around and say " so you're mad because they don't want a relationship with you? They don't want what you want?

What makes many women think that it's okay to be mad at men for wanting something that's not on the same page as them but it's not okay for men to get mad at women for wanting something that's not on the same page to their liking?

If men complain about women not only wanting sex = bad

If women complain about men not only wanting a relationship = good

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