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RE: Dommes - 3/12/2017 8:22:02 PM

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Women are just lazy? Men put in all the effort? Not only am I continually working on self improvement in a general sense, but I'm also getting involved with my local community, going to classes, reading books, etc, to do everything I can to be a valuable partner and a valuable dominant.

What kind of effort is being made by those who sit behind a computer watching porn, jerking off with one hand and sending messages with the other, "Mistress I want to lick ur poosy, gimme poosy gimme poosy"? You call that effort? Hell, those types of wankers put in such little effort that I'm impressed when someone actually reads my profile, or writes something that's more than one sentence and isn't copy paste.

Bye Deva.

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RE: Dommes - 3/12/2017 8:31:14 PM

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Well now, that's not very nice now is it?

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RE: Dommes - 3/12/2017 8:46:00 PM

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Typical butt hurt male, he's proved wrong and resorts to fat shaming insults. Sounds like the pot calling the kettle black.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 12:16:17 AM

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Proved wrong? Laughs

The only one proven wrong at this point is Lisa. What makes it more funny is that I didn't prove her wrong, she proved her self wrong lol.

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I hardly ever send messages, but the few times that I have

^ That contradicts post 61. You have to be a moron to consider a person is putting in a reasonable amount of effort when they aren't even willing to make the fucking approach! Damn some people are dumb.

That said, any woman who claims that MOST men approach women with messages like what Lisa mentioned are lying through their teeth. There could be a number of reasons why women make this lie. One could be to make them look faultless to everyone else to why they aren't getting luck. It's an easy excuse for women to escape blame and make out its all men's fault.

I think that nearly every male knows that approaching women in that manner isn't going to do you any favours. Hell, I even knew this when I was around 10 years old or younger. I can remember when I was that young I was approaching women this way (knowing that it was wrong) just to be a prick.

Just a couple weeks ago I was joking around with my 12 year old nephew. The conversation come up about his luck with women. I made a joke to him telling him to just go up to them and ask for a blowie. He laughed and said that won't get you a woman.

I have never personally met any male who thought that approaching women like this would win them.

Sure, there are some dumb men out there that truly think that this will get them lucky. I'm not denying that they exist. What bothers me is that women keep exaggerating this. If a couple men do it to them they will say 200 men have done it to them.

I believe that most of the time when you happen to see men do this, they are really trolling. They most probably know that this isn't going to win them, but what the hell, lets amuse myself.

I used to have a fake female profile on here that I ran for years. It got deleted for some reason. Anyway, I used to log into this account once every couple of months or so just to see how its like to be a woman in places such as collarspace. Most men who emailed the profile were nothing like how Lisa claims men are. I did get some emails the way Lisa claims but it was a very small percentage...probably like 2 percent of all emails.

The bottom line is, stop fucking lying!

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 5:28:57 AM

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It's not just Lisa who gets bombarded with creepy emails all the time. Your female profile must have been pretty bad and/or you had no picture if you didn't get lots of trashy emails. She's dead on about the crap messages we get, 90% being sexual.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 6:25:07 AM

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Is it appropriate to discuss the sexualising of a 12 year old child in this forum? Is it appropriate to attempt to sexualise a 12 year old child?

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 6:27:05 AM

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Anything leaning towards paedophilia makes me very uncomfortable and concerned.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 6:57:44 AM

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It's NEVER okay to discuss what you're asking!

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 7:06:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

It's NEVER okay to discuss what you're asking!

Good Day MsLadySue. I asked because somebody mentioned it in one of the posts above and the idea of sexualising a 12 year child makes me very uncomfortable.I don't feel it is appropriate or sanctioned in this environment or in the community and I am wondering why someone considers it appropriate to encourage or groom a 12 year old child in to sexual activity.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 8:10:14 AM

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I've read this thread and don't recalling seeing that. Not saying it isn't here, just didn't see it.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 8:54:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: respectmen
If a male isn't above average here, hardly any woman will want to talk to him. Uber privileged women on the other hand, you can be super fat unemployed and all and still have a string of people wanting you.

I don't get why it bothers you that some people like people of various shapes and sizes. It seems to be a hang up that you have. You're dating multiple people, so obviously, this thing you've got about how women on the site won't date anybody average doesn't really hold.

I actually consider myself one of the last people that anybody who doesn't know me should send email. I'm married, have a sub, and am very clear about not being interested in wasting my time with online crap. My profile location is set to middle of nowhere Alaska. I have it in my profile that I don't interact with people from the personals side of the site. Every post I write has a sig line on it that says I delete emails from people I don't know unread. How much more clear can I possibly be?

If I was seeking? I wouldn't do it here. I'd be at the local kink club. It's where I do a percentage of my play, anyway.

Way to go though, teaching your nephew to sexually harass little girls. You must be a great role model.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 10:14:57 AM

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It's great when men accuse women of lying when we talk about our real life experiences. It's absolutely true that about 99 percent of messages I get are something along the lines of "Hello Mistress want to serve you", or something else completely inappropriate for a complete stranger, and if I dare to respond to something like that, giving benefit of the doubt, they're talking about sex within two or three more messages, sometimes saying really gross things.

The same is true for most women on these kink sites, whether Domme or sub. There's a thread about this on FetLife right now. Gee, there sure are a lot "liars".

https://fetlife.com/groups/5185/group_posts/10510166

I have every right to ignore such messages because I am not all you can eat buffet and I don't appreciate being treated like trash. Yes, I'm very selective in who I respond to and who I message, as it should be. When I do message someone he can feel flattered by it because I'm not just spamming everybody, and I also wouldn't be presumptuous enough to just start calling himself "slave" when I don't even know him.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 12:04:41 PM

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Good Day again Ms LadySue. Below is what someone stated above.

"Just a couple weeks ago I was joking around with my 12 year old nephew. The conversation come up about his luck with women. I made a joke to him telling him to just go up to them and ask for a blowie. "

Kind regards.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 12:31:50 PM

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Alpha male my foot. I have and I'm still gonna make that Alpha get on his knees and EAT ME. LOL

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 12:49:33 PM

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I will send a proper reply when I get home tonight on my lappy.

Lisa, I saw the link and I noticed something about most who replied that had in common with you, they are bitter hags. Has anyone who is reading this thread had a look at Lisa's profile?

Anyway, the fact of the matter is that bitter people from any gender are likely to make exaggerated generalisations on the opposite sex. I admit that I may be guilty of that at times.

That said, I only briefly skimmed through that link. Many of the reasons had nothing to do with what exactly you are saying. There are a variety of reasons from the nitpicky bunch.

Something that I will discuss further later tonight is the extreme prejudice society has against male sexuality or towards someone for having a penis.

Women have the slut shaming, men have far worse discrimination when it comes to their sexuality. Just mentioning what they want in a polite manner even comes with heavy prejudice from people. He's creepy, rapey, doesn't respect women, a potential user etc etc all because the poor bugger shows any interest of his sexual desires.

I would happily swap positions with women any day and have the slut shaming problem over the crap men deal with.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 12:58:10 PM

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Thanks. I didn't pay much attention to the post so it slipped my mind.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 1:17:17 PM

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I find submisive men to be disgusting. That is my view, always has been.

Oh dear. You and I really aren't going to be the best of friends, are we?

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 1:35:56 PM

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I used to have a fake female profile on here that I ran for years. It got deleted for some reason. Anyway, I used to log into this account once every couple of months or so just to see how its like to be a woman in places such as collarspace. Most men who emailed the profile were nothing like how Lisa claims men are. I did get some emails the way Lisa claims but it was a very small percentage...probably like 2 percent of all emails.

That doesn't mesh with my experience, though admittedly mine was only of a month or so. (I got fed up with it.) A femdom friend gave me full access to a profile that she didn't use any more. It was bloody awful: most of what she received was just nothing, really - no human connection whatsoever. Lots of blokes writing three-word messages like 'I fancy you!'. They were the website equivalent of men leaning out of their car windows and wolf-whistling at females as they drove by. Really, really tawdry. Actually: cold, mostly, is how it all felt to me. I didn't want to hold on to this femdom-friend's profile for more than that month. Too depressing.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 2:00:00 PM

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I find submisive men to be disgusting. That is my view, always has been.

Oh dear. You and I really aren't going to be the best of friends, are we?

I don't know. I really like you for some reason. But no... we couldn't be in any kind of sexual relationship.

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RE: Dommes - 3/13/2017 2:12:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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I find submisive men to be disgusting. That is my view, always has been.

Oh dear. You and I really aren't going to be the best of friends, are we?

I don't know. I really like you for some reason.

I suspect that you'll change your mind about that soonish, Tamaka. I have no interest whatsoever in your liking me. Just to be clear.

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