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Dommes - 3/8/2017 10:27:30 AM   
johnsk


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Status: offline 		Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!
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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:14:02 AM   
stef


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Status: offline 		There, there... Here, take the box.



Feel better now?

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:21:51 AM   
tamaka


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quote:

ORIGINAL: johnsk

Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:26:55 AM   
GoddessMarie01


Posts: 1
Joined: 3/8/2017
Status: offline 		What do you expect? 💁💁💁 Especially from Findoms like me but at least im not that bad or so id say

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:37:31 AM   
MsLadySue


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quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?

< Message edited by MsLadySue -- 3/8/2017 11:38:33 AM >

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:49:53 AM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?

Don't mind tasocka, they're just sad since the Canadian house of lesbians was shut down by management.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:52:24 AM   
Lucylastic


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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 11:54:53 AM   
Lucylastic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?

Don't mind tasocka, they're just sad since the Canadian house of lesbians was shut down by management.


Not Arpigs style, too dumb too.
Arpig could hold several convos at once
this one is incapable of one.
IMNSHO of course

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 12:28:11 PM   
tamaka


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

quote:

It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.


Excuse me? What a crock of crap. Where did you come up with that gem of 'wisdom'?


Just look at your face in your profile as an example. You look like an angry bitch. And i don't say that to be mean. I am just pointing out what's obvious.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 2:05:01 PM   
longwayhome


Posts: 1035
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quote:

ORIGINAL: johnsk

Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


Some Dommes are shit, some subs are shit, some lawyers are shit, some nurses are shit, some men are shit, women are shit............

Some people who use kink websites are shit.

Some aren't.

Who knew?

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 2:10:46 PM   
longwayhome


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: johnsk

Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man. So of course 'dommes' are just bitchy women who want to take advantage of someone more fucked up than themselves.



Um... no.

Some people are more dominant than others, sometimes it is a general thing, sometimes it is context or setting specific.

Being dominant or submissive can be helpful or unhelpful and people can make choices about their work lives, day to day relationships, romantic lives and play.

Seems a bit limiting to say that a woman being dominant over man is unnatural.

Live and let live.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 2:11:24 PM   
masmiss


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From: New Jersey
Status: offline 		OMG!! Someone has exposed the truth about dominant women!! Whatever shall we do???

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 3:05:41 PM   
MsLadySue


Posts: 2254
Joined: 12/18/2004
Status: offline 		So, because I'm not smiling in my profile picture, I look like an angry Babe In Total Control Honey? Shouldn't judge a book by its cover because your assumption couldn't be further from the truth.
What does that have to do with your comment about it being unnatural for women to be dominant?

< Message edited by MsLadySue -- 3/8/2017 3:22:18 PM >

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 3:11:49 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

Sorry to say, but so many submissives here are full of self-entitlement, kink-centricity, and self-absorption . They must believe they are interesting men and can treat others like fetish delivery systems and wank fodder suppliers with impunity,

Even those who just want their kinks fulfilled, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these submissives/bottoms must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent submissives out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!

There. I fixed it for you.

Here's my opinion. We're definitely looking at a 'common denominator' situation. (As in, the common denominator in all of your interactions is you.) Even though I was pretty much aware of what I would find, I checked out your forum posts. At least two thirds of them were you trying to get Dominant women to talk to you about this kink or that kink. Another were a number of posts complaining that Dominant women won't interact with you. The rest were topics opening with some version of 'I was interacting with a Domme online... blah, blah, blah'.

This makes you come across as boring hook-up/cyber guy, which no woman on the site has trouble finding. Even as somebody who does play casually, I can assure you that I've got no interest in boring hook-up/cyber guys because they have little depth or dimension. They are just varied versions of one trick ponies and/or HNGs. The people who do want that kind of thing can find it all over the internet and will generally engage with someone who makes one boring guy better than the other.

It might be worth considering that, if you are not getting the results that you want, change your approach.



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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 3:47:05 PM   
MsLadySue


Posts: 2254
Joined: 12/18/2004
Status: offline 		Sorry to say, but so many so-called submissives are whiny, do-me, fulfill my fetish needs, HNGs who think they’re special little snowflakes, and it’s all about their penis getting hard and used. Or they think service means oral sex for the Domme whenever she wants it.

When they find out we demand to be treated as a woman first and not a fetish delivery service, it bursts their fantasy bubble. Then we’re the big, bad Dommes.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 3:52:17 PM   
tamaka


Posts: 5079
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quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome

quote:

ORIGINAL: johnsk

Sorry to say, but so many dommes here are condescending, narcissistic, and ego maniacs. They must believe they are world's sexiest women and can treat others like s*** with impunity,
Even fin dommes, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.

The people who hook up long term with these dommes must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.

Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent dommes out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!


Some Dommes are shit, some subs are shit, some lawyers are shit, some nurses are shit, some men are shit, women are shit............

Some people who use kink websites are shit.

Some aren't.

Who knew?


So you just said that all women are shit.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 3:54:29 PM   
tamaka


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

So, because I'm not smiling in my profile picture, I look like an angry Babe In Total Control Honey? Shouldn't judge a book by its cover because your assumption couldn't be further from the truth.
What does that have to do with your comment about it being unnatural for women to be dominant?


It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man in an intimate relationship.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 4:12:33 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		ROFLMFAO You're entitled to your opinion, but I know many who are married where the female is the dominant and they are very happy.

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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 4:14:02 PM   
OsideGirl


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From: United States
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

So, because I'm not smiling in my profile picture, I look like an angry Babe In Total Control Honey? Shouldn't judge a book by its cover because your assumption couldn't be further from the truth.
What does that have to do with your comment about it being unnatural for women to be dominant?


It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man in an intimate relationship.



You're an abuse victim who uses BDSM as a crutch rather than dealing with your issues....and then top it off by parroting the opinions of your abuser.



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RE: Dommes - 3/8/2017 4:36:03 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

So, because I'm not smiling in my profile picture, I look like an angry Babe In Total Control Honey? Shouldn't judge a book by its cover because your assumption couldn't be further from the truth.
What does that have to do with your comment about it being unnatural for women to be dominant?


It is unnatural for a woman to be dominant over a man in an intimate relationship.



You're an abuse victim who uses BDSM as a crutch rather than dealing with your issues....and then top it off by parroting the opinions of your abuser.





No. Sure i was in an abusive situation once but i got out of it. I am not a victim. My feeling about men and women relationships have always been very traditional. No one 'imposed' that on me. I find submisive men to be disgusting. That is my view, always has been.

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