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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Fetlife is a piece of shit that runs on Ruby on Rails and it crashes all the time. Also, it's recent changes and new picture policy didn't improve anything... not that there is any content of value there in the first place. It is the kink facebook, not a dating site with searchable membership or an open forum for discussion. It has closed forums, run by thread starters and requires joining a group to comment... and being in the clique or not posting contrary opinions to prevent your relies from getting deleted. Worst forum environment possible.

Next, CollarSpace & CollarChat look like shit. They are not "outwardly good looking websites". However, their content makes them the best BDSM oriented sites on the net, even if they run on outdated PDG software and have antique java buttons and nav.

And yes, "what you wrote will fall upon deaf ears" because of the situation with the owner of this website and it's lack of income because it is free. One owner, one volunteer last I looked and it wasn't being attended daily. I don't know the newest volunteer staff, so I have no idea what their maintenance schedule is nowadays.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Fetlife is a piece of shit that runs on Ruby on Rails and it crashes all the time. Also, it's recent changes and new picture policy didn't improve anything... not that there is any content of value there in the first place. It is the kink facebook, not a dating site with searchable membership or an open forum for discussion. It has closed forums, run by thread starters and requires joining a group to comment... and being in the clique or not posting contrary opinions to prevent your relies from getting deleted. Worst forum environment possible.

Next, CollarSpace & CollarChat look like shit. They are not "outwardly good looking websites". However, their content makes them the best BDSM oriented sites on the net, even if they run on outdated PDG software and have antique java buttons and nav.

And yes, "what you wrote will fall upon deaf ears" because of the situation with the owner of this website and it's lack of income because it is free. One owner, one volunteer last I looked and it wasn't being attended daily. I don't know the newest volunteer staff, so I have no idea what their maintenance schedule is nowadays.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Fetlife is a piece of shit that runs on Ruby on Rails and it crashes all the time. Also, it's recent changes and new picture policy didn't improve anything... not that there is any content of value there in the first place. It is the kink facebook, not a dating site with searchable membership or an open forum for discussion. It has closed forums, run by thread starters and requires joining a group to comment... and being in the clique or not posting contrary opinions to prevent your relies from getting deleted. Worst forum environment possible.

Next, CollarSpace & CollarChat look like shit. They are not "outwardly good looking websites". However, their content makes them the best BDSM oriented sites on the net, even if they run on outdated PDG software and have antique java buttons and nav.

And yes, "what you wrote will fall upon deaf ears" because of the situation with the owner of this website and it's lack of income because it is free. One owner, one volunteer last I looked and it wasn't being attended daily. I don't know the newest volunteer staff, so I have no idea what their maintenance schedule is nowadays.

Ya know, I used to be on one of the Fet groups that was called 'the feed is down, lounge and spa' (or something like that). It was a group to joke around on.

I have reason to believe it's not 'one' volunteer. I have said several times. I don't know who Mod25 is and I don't want to know. However, not every prior Mod around here has had the flexibility to attend the site during working hours. The ones who did have that flexibility did a pretty good job. The other side of this was one who lived off of the government till who was at least partially responsible for what there is now. Can you imagine what 'she who shall not be named' left in her wake?

What people don't seem to understand is that not everybody on a kink related site is looking to date. Even if I was single, I wouldn't be using this crud. I'd probably check out Nookie's new site.

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: servantdaniel

This website is actually the worse life style website on the internet.

Then why do you keep coming back with sockpuppet after sockpuppet after sockpuppet after...

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ORIGINAL: servantdaniel

This website is actually the worse (worst) life style website on the internet. It is outwardly a good looking website but in truth it is neglected for whatever (any number of) reasons. The Advertisers have deserted you because you are more often offline than online. You do not invest sufficient money in staff or website maintenance (for the record....we don't...we're accoutrement). What is the point then in maintaining the websites existence (well....I'm actually not all that sure!). I am one of many thousands who think like this and so am not alone. I suggest that you improve the websites availability by updating its programming and systems analysis. (Well....aren't you just the corporate all knowing thingie).

I realize that What I write will fall upon deaf ears but air my views nonetheless (can you uhhhm...re-write that...in like....some kind of reasonable grammar?). I am also sure that you come into the website and check things out from time to time. There are the usual bunch(es)of message board entusiasts (that was....like....flagrantly...not at all correct) that enjoy bullying and harassing others from the behind computer screens. Those that have their own clique of fellow members and resent any outsider expressing views they do not hold. Mr BAKU on fetlife (Who the FUCK is Mr BAKU!!!???) recently took measures to clense (Clense? Clenz? Klense? Do you even KNOW how to spell?????) his website of negative aspects (DA FUQUE does THAT mean????) and changed some policies. That website has never been down in its history unlike collarspace and its predecessor collarme. Bad business people should not be in business and incompetent owners should sell the website to a competent professional who can improve upon it and perhaps, make some money whilst keeping a loyal membership and clients. Stagnation and degeneration are not the answer so sell up and get out.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Fetlife is a piece of shit that runs on Ruby on Rails and it crashes all the time. Also, it's recent changes and new picture policy didn't improve anything... not that there is any content of value there in the first place. It is the kink facebook, not a dating site with searchable membership or an open forum for discussion. It has closed forums, run by thread starters and requires joining a group to comment... and being in the clique or not posting contrary opinions to prevent your relies from getting deleted. Worst forum environment possible.

Next, CollarSpace & CollarChat look like shit. They are not "outwardly good looking websites". However, their content makes them the best BDSM oriented sites on the net, even if they run on outdated PDG software and have antique java buttons and nav.

And yes, "what you wrote will fall upon deaf ears" because of the situation with the owner of this website and it's lack of income because it is free. One owner, one volunteer last I looked and it wasn't being attended daily. I don't know the newest volunteer staff, so I have no idea what their maintenance schedule is nowadays.

Ya know, I used to be on one of the Fet groups that was called 'the feed is down, lounge and spa' (or something like that). It was a group to joke around on.

I have reason to believe it's not 'one' volunteer. I have said several times. I don't know who Mod25 is and I don't want to know. However, not every prior Mod around here has had the flexibility to attend the site during working hours. The ones who did have that flexibility did a pretty good job. The other side of this was one who lived off of the government till who was at least partially responsible for what there is now. Can you imagine what 'she who shall not be named' left in her wake?

What people don't seem to understand is that not everybody on a kink related site is looking to date. Even if I was single, I wouldn't be using this crud. I'd probably check out Nookie's new site.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Fetlife is a piece of shit that runs on Ruby on Rails and it crashes all the time. Also, it's recent changes and new picture policy didn't improve anything... not that there is any content of value there in the first place. It is the kink facebook, not a dating site with searchable membership or an open forum for discussion. It has closed forums, run by thread starters and requires joining a group to comment... and being in the clique or not posting contrary opinions to prevent your relies from getting deleted. Worst forum environment possible.

Next, CollarSpace & CollarChat look like shit. They are not "outwardly good looking websites". However, their content makes them the best BDSM oriented sites on the net, even if they run on outdated PDG software and have antique java buttons and nav.

And yes, "what you wrote will fall upon deaf ears" because of the situation with the owner of this website and it's lack of income because it is free. One owner, one volunteer last I looked and it wasn't being attended daily. I don't know the newest volunteer staff, so I have no idea what their maintenance schedule is nowadays.

Ya know, I used to be on one of the Fet groups that was called 'the feed is down, lounge and spa' (or something like that). It was a group to joke around on.

I have reason to believe it's not 'one' volunteer. I have said several times. I don't know who Mod25 is and I don't want to know. However, not every prior Mod around here has had the flexibility to attend the site during working hours. The ones who did have that flexibility did a pretty good job. The other side of this was one who lived off of the government till who was at least partially responsible for what there is now. Can you imagine what 'she who shall not be named' left in her wake?

What people don't seem to understand is that not everybody on a kink related site is looking to date. Even if I was single, I wouldn't be using this crud. I'd probably check out Nookie's new site.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ah, someone who insults like they have the mentality of a twelve year old. How prestigious.

Go back to day care or be like the other mentally challenged people who threaten to sue the site.

Seriously? You don't have the balls to be a real man and have to hide behind sock puppets?


Coward.

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I have indeed kept that in mind but that is no excuse for running a bad website.

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

ORIGINAL: servantdaniel
Mr BAKU on fetlife recently took measures to cleanse his website of negative aspects and changed some policies[/color]

He and his poorly chosen team did no such thing at all, all they did was create/enable detritus, or a curious concentrate errant and bad stereotypical in nature, in the main. I would have chosen the opposite direction. Persona non grata aside (me on there) you will find that site is being deserted...Again prophesized by me to the point of I long gave up.

I have never crossed paths with this site owner and that is a great shame. ..and he has never once inputted or asked what all users/genuine users wish/ to like…nor indeed the “collective”

I come here because of free speech and thought. I am not instructed what to say and by whom often by liars, enablers, cheats and fakes, lunatics on fetlife enabling their pown propaganda or shortcomings or outré lies - not them all obviously)…seems fair that me…and hell whom amongst us doesn’t like being tarred and feathered on the forums

Collarspace is the last of the first ones to remain free. But I know, as I will not speak for others, that the profile side and variables needs much improvement and nothing has been done in the last 10 years

fetish sites are limited by all means support here..and also try nookies place which is this https://www.datingkinky.com/ and if fet is so wonderful why are you not on that

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ORIGINAL: servantdaniel

This website is actually the worse (worst) life style website on the internet. It is outwardly a good looking website but in truth it is (has been) neglected for whatever reasons. The Advertisers have deserted you ("it"....a website is not a person) because you (see previous...."it"[/b]) are more often offline than online. You do not invest sufficient money in staff or website maintenance. What is the point then in maintaining the websites existence. I am one of many thousands who think like this and so am not alone. I suggest that you improve the websites availability by updating its programming and systems analysis. (You should open your checkbook.."it" is waiting for you to do so).

I realize that (was that a complete/finished sentence structure? You "realize"?) What I write will fall upon deaf ears but ("I will") air my views nonetheless. I am also sure that you ("they"....or "it"...either would be correct..."you" however....is not) come into the website and check things out from time to time. There are the usual bunch of message board entusiasts ('th"....th....th) that enjoy bullying and harassing others from the behind computer screens. Those that have their own clique of fellow members and resent any outsider expressing views they do not hold. Mr BAKU on fetlife recently took measures to clense (Spelling >>> is <<<< ...fundamental) his website of negative aspects and changed some policies. That website has never been down in its history unlike collarspace and its predecessor collarme. Bad business people should not be in business (offering YOU free access) and incompetent owners should sell the website to a competent professional (I presume you'll shortly be offering a cash deal?) who can improve upon it and perhaps, make some money whilst keeping a loyal membership and clients. Stagnation and degeneration are not the answer so sell up and get out.