bounty44
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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul quote:
ORIGINAL: bounty44 im not trying to "convince" you of anything. im simply sharing information germane to the topic. But this topic has been brought up in the past, and each time your responses indicated that you do agree with this line of thought. So yes, germane to the topic, but an attempt to support your viewpoint as well, isn't it? quote:
I can say this however, people of all ages are not immune to risks inherent in ANY intimate relationship. I would argue that a 13 year old would be significantly more susceptible to any inherent risks in a relationship with a person in their 40s, than say, two people in their 40s. In fact, I would argue that such a relationship would actually have significantly more inherent risks than the latter. quote:
and sorry--I don't see one "town hall" article in what ive posted. and even if they were, so what? My bad. I am used to that being your standard posting source. But no matter. I would have the same to say regardless of the source. It's the content I addressed. whether it supports my particularly viewpoint or not is still immaterial. im not trying to convince you of anything. as far as townhall---its my favorite for libertarian/conservative news and commentary, but no, not really, I post from dozens of different sources. I don't disagree that a relationship between a 13yr old and a 40 yr would have more risks than one between two 40 yr olds. the point being, that since risk is involved everywhere, it cannot be used on its own as the bottom line for making distinctions between X is okay and Y is not. note the commentary from other posters here who either did what we are talking about, or who wanted to and would have had the opportunity presented itself. if you want to address that point, as well as the content of what I previously posted, and actually support what you have to say, you'll have to do a couple of things. one is, successfully argue how a teen-ager is not a free autonomous agent when it comes to sexuality. that includes relationships with their peers. why is it okay for two 16yr olds to have sex, but not a 21 and a 16yr old? all the arguments about power and potential conflicts of interest when it comes to teachers/students are meaningful, but again, they exist everywhere. the other is, show the results of studies, not personal inferences/judgments you make, that unequivocally show that and how teen-agers are irreparably harmed by romantic relationships with their teachers/coaches. and those results will have to differ significantly from the harm that occurs from any relationship going bad. lastly, I think you'd have to address/account for any number of those types of relationships that turn into everlasting ones--often at great social cost to the actors.
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