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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 7:46:07 PM

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I can't be bothered wasting more time on your broken record bullshit. I don't have to respond/debate with you simply because you attempt to goad me into it. You're nothing more than a joke on these forums. We all use you to get our giggles because you're not worth anything more from us.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 7:52:17 PM

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I can't be bothered wasting more time on your broken record bullshit. I don't have to respond/debate with you simply because you attempt to goad me into it. You're nothing more than a joke on these forums. We all use you to get our giggles because you're not worth anything more from us.

This is about 100 times more interesting.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdmuVQAQSrY

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 7:58:32 PM

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I can't be bothered wasting more time on your broken record bullshit. I don't have to respond/debate with you simply because you attempt to goad me into it. You're nothing more than a joke on these forums. We all use you to get our giggles because you're not worth anything more from us.

I understand, you are finding it hard to justify hypocrisy as I keep destroying the excuses.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 8:00:18 PM

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OK, rm. With the current state of the site, send five emails to forum posters with hidden profiles that you haven''t exchanged emails with before. Show me how many of these emails go through.

Yep, I know, no one can initiate contact with you.

This is actually not correct.

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If you wine so much about unwanted emails you can either hide your profile or leave the site. Instead of fucking sitting here whinging about it again and again and expecting everyone else to go by your rules.

That's the thing. I don't whine about it. I just delete the stuff I don't want as unread.

Like it or not, to interact with me, I do have my own rules. For as much as you bleat about how people have rights to discuss BDSM on a BDSM site, any individual gets to have their own standards. It takes me less that two seconds to check the little 'incoming email' box and then hit 'deleted unread'. Except for the silly stuff when a sender can't do better than "hi" it takes me less time than anything send in a mail that I receive.

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We all get emails from people who we don't want. Does that make me entitled to start complaining about fat women emailing me or would that be considered trolling and just not acceptable to complain about it?

OK. I'm up for it.
Tell me exactly how many days, weeks, months it takes for a hundred women to email you. I'm up for it.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 8:23:41 PM

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This is actually not correct.

My bad

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That's the thing. I don't whine about it. I just delete the stuff I don't want as unread.

Yes, I notice that. I don't consider you as a complainer at all. But it's undeniable that there isn't a shortage of women who do around these forums. This certain part of discussion came up with the case with needles. It wasn't about you to begin with.

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Like it or not, to interact with me, I do have my own rules. For as much as you bleat about how people have rights to discuss BDSM on a BDSM site, any individual gets to have their own standards.

You are entitled to your own rules as much as the people who send you an email. The crux of the matter is judgment/prejudice. If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you don't hang on a BDSM site. If you don't want a person to approach you with a conversation about computers, I suggest you don't hang on a website about computers. Simple as that.

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OK. I'm up for it.
Tell me exactly how many days, weeks, months it takes for a hundred women to email you. I'm up for it.

Of course a woman gets a ton more emails than a male. It doesn't matter how many you get, it shouldn't be at a different standard if men get unwanted emails compared to a woman. We all do on any personals site. A fact of life. It's pathetic and useless to complain about it.

As I mentioned a while ago in this thread or another, if women in general didn't expect men to do the work in initiating contact, they would get far less unwanted emails as the people who send unwanted emails would be receiving emails from women who may fancy them. Therefore, it would make these men less inclined to send 10 emails to different women instead of one or a couple. As men are mostly expected to do most or all the work in initiating contact, it makes men less choosy in approaching someone.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 8:44:14 PM

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I'm not the one who is a compulsive hypocrite

yes you are

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 8:48:35 PM

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yes you are

I'm all ears

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 8:51:44 PM

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yes you are

I'm all ears

ahhh that explains a lot.
It seems nature has insulted you way more than I could.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 9:00:25 PM

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My bad

That's not actually your fault. I'm a little lost on it, myself.

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Yes, I notice that. I don't consider you as a complainer at all. But it's undeniable that there isn't a shortage of women who do around these forums. This certain part of discussion came up with the case with needles. It wasn't about you to begin with.

Nope. Won't do that, either.

If anybody was using CM as their primary method of finding partners, I'd be sketchy. I'm not saying it can't happen. It's just that it's not in the odds.

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You are entitled to your own rules as much as the people who send you an email. The crux of the matter is judgment/prejudice. If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you don't hang on a BDSM site. If you don't want a person

It's crap.

Over the years, I've received thousands of emails that werent BDSM first. People really don't have to lead with their kinks/fetishes/sexuality first.

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Of course a woman gets a ton more emails than a male. It doesn't matter how many you get, it shouldn't be at a different standard if men get unwanted emails compared to a woman. We all do on any personals site. A fact of life. It's pathetic and useless to complain about it.

No. We don't ALL do.

Whether you want to admit it or not, your experience is different.

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As I mentioned a while ago in this thread or another, if women in general didn't expect men to do the work in initiating contact, they would get far less unwanted emails as the people who send unwanted emails would be receiving emails from women who may fancy them. Therefore, it would make these men less inclined to send 10 emails to different women instead of one or a couple. As men are mostly expected to do most or all the work in initiating contact, it makes men less choosy in approaching someone.

Nah. They wouldn't. Due to the imbalance of sites like this, there would still be plenty of males who would contact everything with tits. I'm a good example of it.

Except for saying "get away from me" with three exclamation points, most people who don't know me shouldn't send me email. Happens, anyway. Between here and Fet, do you get at least a dozen emails a day? If you do, how many of them are good play partners?

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/25/2017 9:48:16 PM

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If anybody was using CM as their primary method of finding partners, I'd be sketchy. I'm not saying it can't happen. It's just that it's not in the odds.

I agree with you there. That's pretty much why I only use this site for the forums these days. Back when I was heaps young I put myself out there on this site. I actually played with a few I interacted with from here years and years ago. These days I can see it's not worth putting up with all the crap to find luck on here. Too much work and time wasting.

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Over the years, I've received thousands of emails that werent BDSM first. People really don't have to lead with their kinks/fetishes/sexuality first.

Well I guess that contradicts the views of many women here where they claim most men or in some cases 99 percent of men are evil using bastards that only want a fetish delivery system.

Besides Tamaka in regards of what emails you receive, thanks for being honest.

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Whether you want to admit it or not, your experience is different.

I'm in no denial at all. I know on average, women generally get more attention from the opposite gender than men. Not just here, in any personals site and in any social gathering where people are trying to chat up another.

In any site the average male hardly gets approached. In my personal experience, when I do, it's usually from someone who most other men don't want. Someone fat/ugly, or someone who is super clingy and needy for a relationship. There is a difference between wanting a relationship than there is to feel like you need one. Plenty of women out there think of things like just because my friends have a boyfriend, that must mean I should too.

As much as there are men out there that appear too needy for sex, there are plenty of women out there that appear too needy for a relationship.

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Nah. They wouldn't. Due to the imbalance of sites like this, there would still be plenty of males who would contact everything with tits. I'm a good example of it.

Which contradicts one of your previous quotes in this post I'm making. 1000s of men don't email with BDSM first but plenty will contact anyone because they have titts. This also supports my argument earlier about prejudice against male sexuality. So now it's not only the first email that would make them guilty of being an evil horrible person, it's also emails after.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 12:04:26 AM

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Well I guess that contradicts the views of many women here where they claim most men or in some cases 99 percent of men are evil using bastards that only want a fetish delivery system.

I don't think I'm a fair case study.

I'm on staff at the local club. Fair to midland presenter.

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Besides Tamaka in regards of what emails you receive, thanks for being honest.

If you think tamaka is honest, I can't help you.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 6:52:09 AM

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RM, I have not been constantly complaining about the mail in my pm box. I have used myself as an example against your constant whinge fests against women, and why we should act a certain way towards men. Again you always come here bleating on, and then when everyone shoots you down you can't stand it. It hasn't just been me, and in fact I've said that exact same as LP has.

I'm also stating the same as LP as to why I shouldn't have to take down my profile. Who are you to dictate to anyone what they should do to avoid crappy behaviour from others? Again, you always totally avoid the fact that shitty men should be the ones that change their approach to US. Just as if it is women doing it to men, they should change their behaviour towards men, not the men altering their profiles to stop the women contacting them.

But no, because that doesn't suit YOUR agenda.

As for all your bull shit in your other post to me, I can't even be bothered to read it. I'm not trawling all your posts to pic out proof for your benefit when you never accept anything, even when it is shoved in front of you, when you refuse to do the same when asked, and when I have done it you lie and back track.

Grow up whinging baby.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 6:54:25 AM

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cues 8 hours of "mosquito in your ear" to sub for rm-it's less annoying.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 7:12:20 AM

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He now claims to think I'm a 'tranny', In either case, I'm guessing I'm still getting far more attention than he is, which is what's picking his onions so much

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 7:14:11 AM

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He now claims to think I'm a 'tranny', In either case, I'm guessing I'm still getting far more attention than he is, which is what's picking his onions so much

Needles

Lets see,cute girl-fingernails on a black board-that's supposed to be a choice?

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 9:02:14 AM

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One of (not the only) reasons that I never went the pro domme route was because I didn't want situations like this one, right here.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 10:39:11 AM

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Well I guess that contradicts the views of many women here where they claim most men or in some cases 99 percent of men are evil using bastards that only want a fetish delivery system.

I don't think I'm a fair case study.

I'm on staff at the local club. Fair to midland presenter.

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Besides Tamaka in regards of what emails you receive, thanks for being honest.

If you think tamaka is honest, I can't help you.

I am honest. That's what you folks don't like about me.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 11:03:42 AM

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Well I guess that contradicts the views of many women here where they claim most men or in some cases 99 percent of men are evil using bastards that only want a fetish delivery system.

I don't think I'm a fair case study.

I'm on staff at the local club. Fair to midland presenter.

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Besides Tamaka in regards of what emails you receive, thanks for being honest.

If you think tamaka is honest, I can't help you.

I am honest. That's what you folks don't like about me.

no tamaka. there is nothing wrong with honesty. however, you confuse being honest with being judgmental and acting holier than thou, making personal attacks, and flat out attacking other posters without any provocation whatsoever. You are a bully.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 11:09:16 AM

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For some people honesty is just an excuse to insult somebody else with impunity.

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RE: Don't They Enjoy It? - 3/26/2017 11:11:30 AM

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Well I guess that contradicts the views of many women here where they claim most men or in some cases 99 percent of men are evil using bastards that only want a fetish delivery system.

I don't think I'm a fair case study.

I'm on staff at the local club. Fair to midland presenter.

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Besides Tamaka in regards of what emails you receive, thanks for being honest.

If you think tamaka is honest, I can't help you.

I am honest. That's what you folks don't like about me.

no tamaka. there is nothing wrong with honesty. however, you confuse being honest with being judgmental and acting holier than thou, making personal attacks, and flat out attacking other posters without any provocation whatsoever. You are a bully.

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