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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal
This guy reminds me of rapists in court who claim,"The woman was asking for it by being there" as a defense.

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ORIGINAL: heavyblinker

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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal
This guy reminds me of rapists in court who claim,"The woman was asking for it by being there" as a defense.

I think he would probably just start talking about all the men who were raped by women, but nobody cares. That would be what he considers a defense.

There really isn't a point to anything he says... it's just a lot of whining about how men are oppressed, and the whining is the point. The only solution he ever proposes is that women should do whatever he/men want them to do. Dommes should be willing to be fetish delivery systems simply because the subs in question should get what they want. Why? Because the dommes are women and the subs are men.

I'm almost 80% certain that his mother spoiled him endlessly and his father was distant or something, so he was always chasing his father's approval and trying desperately to understand how to be a man while his mother catered to his every whim and he shit on her for it. Now he expects every woman to be like his mom, and when they aren't like that he gets outraged.

I'm obviously just guessing here, but nobody turns out like this without some serious family dysfunction present.

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

It's you who is making no sense when you bloody expect people not to approach you with a conversation about BDSM on fucking BDSM website!

Jesus some people are thick. If you are on a website about cars, what do you think people will be wanting to talk about? Fucking cars!

If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you hang in a non BDSM site. See how easy it is to solve your little problem that you crack a hissy fit over?

Its so incredibly stupid to expect someone to not approach you with a conversation about BDSM on a BDSM website.

No, I don't mean wanna fuck or be my mistress...I have gone over that.

You really fucking need to stop being so predijuce and phobic against male sexuality. If it frightens you so much, turn lesbian for fucks sake.

It's your fear that is the problem, not men being different to women. Men deal with their sexuality different to women, men proirtise their sexual desires different compared to women.

It's you that hasn't got an understanding about human interaction if you can't fucking understand that men aren't women.

Stop expecting men to act and be like women. Then we would all get along a lot better.

Christ

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

It's you who is making no sense when you bloody expect people not to approach you with a conversation about BDSM on fucking BDSM website!

Jesus some people are thick. If you are on a website about cars, what do you think people will be wanting to talk about? Fucking cars!

If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you hang in a non BDSM site. See how easy it is to solve your little problem that you crack a hissy fit over?

Its so incredibly stupid to expect someone to not approach you with a conversation about BDSM on a BDSM website.

No, I don't mean wanna fuck or be my mistress...I have gone over that.

You really fucking need to stop being so predijuce and phobic against male sexuality. If it frightens you so much, turn lesbian for fucks sake.

It's your fear that is the problem, not men being different to women. Men deal with their sexuality different to women, men proirtise their sexual desires different compared to women.

It's you that hasn't got an understanding about human interaction if you can't fucking understand that men aren't women.

Stop expecting men to act and be like women. Then we would all get along a lot better.

Christ

Oh will you shut the hell up. You simply point blank refuse to see the point being made because then you'd have to admit that actually you're being a dick about all this.

You are refusing to see out point on purpose because it simply does not fit your agenda. You refuse to see that I CONSTANTLY compare men and women together, whereas YOU DON'T. You totally refuse to see that sexuality has nothing at all to do with this, and it's about basic MANNERS.

On a god damn car site I still expect people to talk to me with MANNERS. Yes this is a BDSM site, but I'M a switch, I want a switch if I'm going to be looking. For fuck sake, I've been through this how many damn times now? NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO GIVE ME A WISH LIST IN HIS FIRST MAIL! I don't care what sort of site I'm on. I DIDN'T ASK HIM TO GET IN TOUCH WITH ME! I have no fear of men, I don't hate men, I'm just sick of men that think a women being on a kink/BDSM site means that I'm a free hole to fuck, and that if I say no that means they can just throw out a bitch fit of verbal abuse, just like you do, ya big baby!

Grow the hell up you silly little man and learn to adult. You poor mum must be so ashamed of you that you really can't see how this works.

Here's the really hypocritical thing you've written; if you get that men and women are different, then ALL men should, because here's the kicker, we are in general, that's why our profiles are set up as they are, so news flash, STOP EXPECTING WOMEN TO THINK LIKE A MAN HOLDING HIS COCK!

We don't. Get it in to YOUR THICK HEAD that we owe non of you fuck all, just as men owe non of us anything either. Stop whinging like a little bitch, grow up! You're so boring all the damn time!

Turn Lesbian, how old are you? yeah, because suddenly I can just swap my SEXUALITY. My god, you say the most stupid things imaginable. I'm not attracted to women at all. I like men that are real men, have manners, and actually treat me like a person first, not a hole to fuck that satisfies only THEIR needs. It's a two way thing, and as I don't charge for services, or pay for them, then yes, I do expect this to be a TWO WAY STREET, so yes, I do expect a men to approach me in a certain fashion, NSA, or not. If a man doesn't want to use that approach that's his issue, not mine.

If YOU don't like that I'm not going to put up with poor manners, THAT'S YOUR ISSUE, AND A POOR REFLECTION OF YOUR PERSONALITY, NOT MINE!

Needles

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

It's you who is making no sense when you bloody expect people not to approach you with a conversation about BDSM on fucking BDSM website!

Jesus some people are thick. If you are on a website about cars, what do you think people will be wanting to talk about? Fucking cars!

If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you hang in a non BDSM site. See how easy it is to solve your little problem that you crack a hissy fit over?

Its so incredibly stupid to expect someone to not approach you with a conversation about BDSM on a BDSM website.

No, I don't mean wanna fuck or be my mistress...I have gone over that.

You really fucking need to stop being so predijuce and phobic against male sexuality. If it frightens you so much, turn lesbian for fucks sake.

It's your fear that is the problem, not men being different to women. Men deal with their sexuality different to women, men proirtise their sexual desires different compared to women.

It's you that hasn't got an understanding about human interaction if you can't fucking understand that men aren't women.

Stop expecting men to act and be like women. Then we would all get along a lot better.

Christ

Oh will you shut the hell up. You simply point blank refuse to see the point being made because then you'd have to admit that actually you're being a dick about all this.

You are refusing to see out point on purpose because it simply does not fit your agenda. You refuse to see that I CONSTANTLY compare men and women together, whereas YOU DON'T. You totally refuse to see that sexuality has nothing at all to do with this, and it's about basic MANNERS.

On a god damn car site I still expect people to talk to me with MANNERS. Yes this is a BDSM site, but I'M a switch, I want a switch if I'm going to be looking. For fuck sake, I've been through this how many damn times now? NO MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO GIVE ME A WISH LIST IN HIS FIRST MAIL! I don't care what sort of site I'm on. I DIDN'T ASK HIM TO GET IN TOUCH WITH ME! I have no fear of men, I don't hate men, I'm just sick of men that think a women being on a kink/BDSM site means that I'm a free hole to fuck, and that if I say no that means they can just throw out a bitch fit of verbal abuse, just like you do, ya big baby!

Grow the hell up you silly little man and learn to adult. You poor mum must be so ashamed of you that you really can't see how this works.

Here's the really hypocritical thing you've written; if you get that men and women are different, then ALL men should, because here's the kicker, we are in general, that's why our profiles are set up as they are, so news flash, STOP EXPECTING WOMEN TO THINK LIKE A MAN HOLDING HIS COCK!

We don't. Get it in to YOUR THICK HEAD that we owe non of you fuck all, just as men owe non of us anything either. Stop whinging like a little bitch, grow up! You're so boring all the damn time!

Turn Lesbian, how old are you? yeah, because suddenly I can just swap my SEXUALITY. My god, you say the most stupid things imaginable. I'm not attracted to women at all. I like men that are real men, have manners, and actually treat me like a person first, not a hole to fuck that satisfies only THEIR needs. It's a two way thing, and as I don't charge for services, or pay for them, then yes, I do expect this to be a TWO WAY STREET, so yes, I do expect a men to approach me in a certain fashion, NSA, or not. If a man doesn't want to use that approach that's his issue, not mine.

If YOU don't like that I'm not going to put up with poor manners, THAT'S YOUR ISSUE, AND A POOR REFLECTION OF YOUR PERSONALITY, NOT MINE!

Needles

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

tamaka, you do realize that I could walk down the street dressed like that if I liked, and no man has the right to say a single word to me other than hello. The way I dress gives no man the single fucking right to throw a wish list at me when I expressly say I'm not here for anything other than the forums. Also, if I happen to be looking for a guy and specifically say which type of man I'm looking for, then why do I have to pay any attention to all those that think they are so special when they ignore what I want, just because of what THEY WANT. I shouldn't have to join any particular type of site to attract any type of man, or use any particular photo to get men to think in a certain way. I should be able to do what the hell I want, and men should just have some damn manners that they should have been brought up with, because this is not interactive porn. Again, I am not the one in the wrong, your thinking is a poor reflection of what you are that you think like RM.

Also, as to the way I dress, it's not bondage gear you silly bint, I'm a goth. What I'm wearing was bought because I'm a Goth, and has been worn as such. with a skirt, or jeans. The photos are there for MY benefit. I wear what I do for MY benefit. It's not an invitation. You know, the way that what you wear isn't an invitation for men to rape you.

You don't speak as a woman, you talk like a man validating rape culture. Fuck right off with that bullshit.

Needles

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

tamaka, you do realize that I could walk down the street dressed like that if I liked, and no man has the right to say a single word to me other than hello. The way I dress gives no man the single fucking right to throw a wish list at me when I expressly say I'm not here for anything other than the forums. Also, if I happen to be looking for a guy and specifically say which type of man I'm looking for, then why do I have to pay any attention to all those that think they are so special when they ignore what I want, just because of what THEY WANT. I shouldn't have to join any particular type of site to attract any type of man, or use any particular photo to get men to think in a certain way. I should be able to do what the hell I want, and men should just have some damn manners that they should have been brought up with, because this is not interactive porn. Again, I am not the one in the wrong, your thinking is a poor reflection of what you are that you think like RM.

Also, as to the way I dress, it's not bondage gear you silly bint, I'm a goth. What I'm wearing was bought because I'm a Goth, and has been worn as such. with a skirt, or jeans. The photos are there for MY benefit. I wear what I do for MY benefit. It's not an invitation. You know, the way that what you wear isn't an invitation for men to rape you.

You don't speak as a woman, you talk like a man validating rape culture. Fuck right off with that bullshit.

Needles

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ORIGINAL: tamaka
If you want to attract quality men who don't look at you as just a hole to fuck, try match.com or some other site. RM is telling you that men that are here want to take care of their cock primarily. They want to make sure that you can do that for them the way they need you to. They aren't going to waste alot of time trying to woo you on a site like this. You bitching and complaining about it is no different then RM bitching and complaining about women.

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ORIGINAL: tamaka
If you are putting yourself out there as a sex object. dressed like you are in your profile, expect to be treated as one. Men are highly visual creatures and they react to what they see.

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ORIGINAL: NoirMetal

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

tamaka, you do realize that I could walk down the street dressed like that if I liked, and no man has the right to say a single word to me other than hello. The way I dress gives no man the single fucking right to throw a wish list at me when I expressly say I'm not here for anything other than the forums. Also, if I happen to be looking for a guy and specifically say which type of man I'm looking for, then why do I have to pay any attention to all those that think they are so special when they ignore what I want, just because of what THEY WANT. I shouldn't have to join any particular type of site to attract any type of man, or use any particular photo to get men to think in a certain way. I should be able to do what the hell I want, and men should just have some damn manners that they should have been brought up with, because this is not interactive porn. Again, I am not the one in the wrong, your thinking is a poor reflection of what you are that you think like RM.

Also, as to the way I dress, it's not bondage gear you silly bint, I'm a goth. What I'm wearing was bought because I'm a Goth, and has been worn as such. with a skirt, or jeans. The photos are there for MY benefit. I wear what I do for MY benefit. It's not an invitation. You know, the way that what you wear isn't an invitation for men to rape you.

You don't speak as a woman, you talk like a man validating rape culture. Fuck right off with that bullshit.

Needles

Now put it in a gay context. One of these trolls is approached by a gay man with hiv,who wants a no strings blow job, or his dick up their ass. They should just do it. If they refuse,they must be a homophobe.

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

tamaka, you do realize that I could walk down the street dressed like that if I liked, and no man has the right to say a single word to me other than hello. The way I dress gives no man the single fucking right to throw a wish list at me when I expressly say I'm not here for anything other than the forums. Also, if I happen to be looking for a guy and specifically say which type of man I'm looking for, then why do I have to pay any attention to all those that think they are so special when they ignore what I want, just because of what THEY WANT. I shouldn't have to join any particular type of site to attract any type of man, or use any particular photo to get men to think in a certain way. I should be able to do what the hell I want, and men should just have some damn manners that they should have been brought up with, because this is not interactive porn. Again, I am not the one in the wrong, your thinking is a poor reflection of what you are that you think like RM.

Also, as to the way I dress, it's not bondage gear you silly bint, I'm a goth. What I'm wearing was bought because I'm a Goth, and has been worn as such. with a skirt, or jeans. The photos are there for MY benefit. I wear what I do for MY benefit. It's not an invitation. You know, the way that what you wear isn't an invitation for men to rape you.

You don't speak as a woman, you talk like a man validating rape culture. Fuck right off with that bullshit.

Needles

I'm not a man, i'm a female slave, and i know how men like to take care of their cocks, because i am used for that purpose, along with other things.

I didn't know goths walked around in sexy bikini underwear. Instead of getting all offended, take it as a compliment that they find you sexy. In 20 or so years when we're old, there will be plenty of time for manners.

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

tamaka, you do realize that I could walk down the street dressed like that if I liked, and no man has the right to say a single word to me other than hello. The way I dress gives no man the single fucking right to throw a wish list at me when I expressly say I'm not here for anything other than the forums. Also, if I happen to be looking for a guy and specifically say which type of man I'm looking for, then why do I have to pay any attention to all those that think they are so special when they ignore what I want, just because of what THEY WANT. I shouldn't have to join any particular type of site to attract any type of man, or use any particular photo to get men to think in a certain way. I should be able to do what the hell I want, and men should just have some damn manners that they should have been brought up with, because this is not interactive porn. Again, I am not the one in the wrong, your thinking is a poor reflection of what you are that you think like RM.

Also, as to the way I dress, it's not bondage gear you silly bint, I'm a goth. What I'm wearing was bought because I'm a Goth, and has been worn as such. with a skirt, or jeans. The photos are there for MY benefit. I wear what I do for MY benefit. It's not an invitation. You know, the way that what you wear isn't an invitation for men to rape you.

You don't speak as a woman, you talk like a man validating rape culture. Fuck right off with that bullshit.

Needles

I'm not a man, i'm a female slave, and i know how men like to take care of their cocks, because i am used for that purpose, along with other things.

I didn't know goths walked around in sexy bikini underwear. Instead of getting all offended, take it as a compliment that they find you sexy. In 20 or so years when we're old, there will be plenty of time for manners.

You claim to be a woman, but you certainly don't write like one, and even if you were, you're claim of being a slave is a choice sweetheart. You're not a slave in any real sense of the word. You're as much a free person as I am. However, even if you were a female slave, you don't write like one of those either. You write like a man with a fantasy of what it's like to get his cock taken care of. The fact that you claim YOU are USED for the purpose of taking care of a guys cock by someone that is crap at dealing with a woman's wants too, doesn't mean you know jack shit about how real men handle themselves. Rather, just because you're a man that hasn't got the foggiest about how to deal with a woman's wants, and all you think about is how to get your own fantasy dealt with doesn't mean you know jack shit about how real men are.

You like telling other people what they should do, and how they should act, but you certainly don't apply it to your own behaviour, which has been pretty appalling in these forums towards others.

Bikini wear? what Bikini wear? I'm wearing my panties in this photo, which was taken for my ex playmate, just before I slipped on a pair of jeans, and in my profile photo, again taken for the playmate, that outfit was worn with a skirt that has a corsetted back in it that I wore to meet him in London. I actually worn the whole lot on the train from Yorkshire to London. Strangely, with both outfits I've never had some random douche bag walk up to me in real life and say any of the crap that men on here think they can say.

That's the whole point. Being on here does NOT mean I'm just here to be fucked, and even if I were, it does not mean that I don't deserve to be treated exactly the same as someone would in real life. If they don't want to do that, well tough luck, because I'm going to respond to the crap exactly the way I would in real life, with the exact same contempt and disgust.

You can't see that I'm right in that, again, it speaks volumes about your lack of values, integrity, and standards, not mine.

If you really want people to believe you're a female slave, and not a male troll, you ought to start behaving like one, and may be apply some that advice to yourself that you've been hurling out unsolicited to everyone else.

Needles

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just bitch about how everyone else is wrong.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

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just bitch about how everyone else is wrong.

bit of advice for ya to take tammy

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

You may enjoy being used as a sex object, that's your prerogative but the majority of us want to be treated simply as human beings until we know if we're compatible with the other person. Simple, basic, easy to understand logic, for the majority of us. We're not interested in the BDSM aspect until we know the other person is a good fit with us, that we want to engage in BDSM with that person. If I don't like a person why would I care about his BDSM preferences?

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ORIGINAL: tamaka



My master knows how to take care of my sexual needs better than i ever knew how. That's one of the perks of being a slave that not too many people talk about. But whatever... what you're doing is not working for you but instead of trying to change it, just bitch about how everyone else is wrong.