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NoirMetal -> Inverse attraction. (3/20/2017 10:29:40 AM)
The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger.

Leonidas104 -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/20/2017 12:13:47 PM)
I take it youve never heard of a standard distribution, a.k.a a "bell curve". Yessir, the more extreme the thing you like is, the less likely you will be to find someone who likes it too. Math sucks sometimes.

NoirMetal -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/20/2017 12:15:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leonidas104 I take it youve never heard of a standard distribution, a.k.a a "bell curve". Yessir, the more extreme the thing you like is, the less likely you will be to find someone who likes it too. Math sucks sometimes. I'm quite aware of the curve, no doubt. But sometimes a clever algorithm can tweak it a bit.

KnightofMists -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 5:49:45 AM)
Doesn't matter. What matters is having an effective approach to find that unique person or persons in the masses.

BitaTruble -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 6:46:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger. You'll have to think outside the limits box. Linear isn't working so go Venn then expand your universe as you engulf hers. It's a process. I did not get into this thinking I would be threading objects into my skin with needles and now I adore it. Stuff with a dude is not at all the same as stuff with ones Master even when it's the same sorta stuff.

NoirMetal -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 6:50:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger. You'll have to think outside the limits box. Linear isn't working so go Venn then expand your universe as you engulf hers. It's a process. I did not get into this thinking I would be threading objects into my skin with needles and now I adore it. Stuff with a dude is not at all the same as stuff with ones Master even when it's the same sorta stuff. Oh,I know. At the same time,someone that hard limits is not going to date you to work on it. I guess curious works better.

Greta75 -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 6:59:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger. Not really true. I am in a place where I am too extreme for vanilla and too vanilla for BDSM folks. So it's like a spot where it's difficult to find prospects too who suits me. But I guess anybody into any specific kink will have difficulty finding matches, as compared to people who are sexually flexible.

BitaTruble -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 7:51:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger. You'll have to think outside the limits box. Linear isn't working so go Venn then expand your universe as you engulf hers. It's a process. I did not get into this thinking I would be threading objects into my skin with needles and now I adore it. Stuff with a dude is not at all the same as stuff with ones Master even when it's the same sorta stuff. Oh,I know. At the same time,someone that hard limits is not going to date you to work on it. I guess curious works better. So if I hard limit death can I just yell "RED" and Grim Reaper will bounce? You can't hard limit death and everything else seems trivial in comparison. That's a hint, a pearl and a course of action if you want to pick it up.

NoirMetal -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 8:04:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal The more extreme your fetishes from the mainstream,the farther away the prospects seem to be. Bugger. You'll have to think outside the limits box. Linear isn't working so go Venn then expand your universe as you engulf hers. It's a process. I did not get into this thinking I would be threading objects into my skin with needles and now I adore it. Stuff with a dude is not at all the same as stuff with ones Master even when it's the same sorta stuff. Oh,I know. At the same time,someone that hard limits is not going to date you to work on it. I guess curious works better. So if I hard limit death can I just yell "RED" and Grim Reaper will bounce? You can't hard limit death and everything else seems trivial in comparison. That's a hint, a pearl and a course of action if you want to pick it up. I'm not into anything extreme enough to kill anyone. Not a heavy sadist or a breath player. Humiliation is about the worst.

BitaTruble -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 8:18:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal I'm not into anything extreme enough to kill anyone. Not a heavy sadist or a breath player. Humiliation is about the worst. Oh, that doesn't sound so bad. I would try being more Zen with the Venn and maybe more of an enigma.

NoirMetal -> RE: Inverse attraction. (3/21/2017 8:21:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: NoirMetal I'm not into anything extreme enough to kill anyone. Not a heavy sadist or a breath player. Humiliation is about the worst. Oh, that doesn't sound so bad. I would try being more Zen with the Venn and maybe more of an enigma. I think it a bit unfair to be coy and then spring something like that on them. I'd rather have a mutual attraction, or a flight response, to tell the truth. I'd not be so blatant otherwise-I am honest. A lot of what I do relates to keeping a woman in bondage for extended periods of time, I get off on physical and mental control.

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