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I need some help please on two topics... - 3/22/2017 10:48:49 AM   
Worth6


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First, where does one go on this site to converse with and perhaps meet people? All I seem to find are new local members, not all local members.

Second, I am a well trained and obedient submissive with years in the scene. I have had many relationships with women but NONE with men and it's time for me to be open to this experience. Without offering myself publicly at the local leather bar, how do I meet dominant men who are experienced and will treat me harshly, but fairly? Craigslist and Backpage seem to be full of imposters who don't know what they're doing.

Thanks!
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RE: I need some help please on two topics... - 3/22/2017 10:57:57 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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Use the search feature. It's not hard to use.

If you find someone, send them a polite message.

To meet people, go to your local munch - that is by far the best way.
Failing that, if you strike up a conversation, offer to meet them.

One major drawback you have is that you are A) not young; B) male; C) just one of thousands out there.
You need to show that you are a cut above the rest of the crowd to have any chance of success.


Edit: your name says "worth6" but your profile shows you are not worth any more than thousands out there.
You might think you are worth 6, but I can assure you, you have no more merit than all the others out there who are a dime a dozen.
Try showing what you bring to the table - not your wish list.

< Message edited by freedomdwarf1 -- 3/22/2017 11:01:27 AM >


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RE: I need some help please on two topics... - 3/22/2017 11:06:11 AM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Worth6

First, where does one go on this site to converse with and perhaps meet people? All I seem to find are new local members, not all local members.

If you want to meet local people, you would be better served by joining Fetlife and spending time in the groups that cater to your geographical area. Find out where the local events are being held, then step away fro the computer and go meet some people in the flesh.

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Second, I am a well trained and obedient submissive with years in the scene. I have had many relationships with women but NONE with men and it's time for me to be open to this experience. Without offering myself publicly at the local leather bar, how do I meet dominant men who are experienced and will treat me harshly, but fairly?

If what I suggested the above doesn't work, I suppose you could always join the Marines.

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RE: I need some help please on two topics... - 3/22/2017 11:24:43 AM   
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There is a chatroom on the other side, but in my forays, it was unpleasant...You might enjoy it.
But yeah I would try munches and or fetlife, or datingkinky
https://www.datingkinky.com/spread-the-word
Beware of imposters where ever you are.

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RE: I need some help please on two topics... - 3/22/2017 7:36:27 PM   
NoirMetal


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Look up leather pride in your area.

They have already done the work you seem not to be able to.

I figured this out in two minutes.

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RE: I need some help please on two topics... - 4/4/2017 7:53:26 AM   
Bhruic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Worth6

have had many relationships with women but NONE with men and it's time for me to be open to this experience. Without offering myself publicly at the local leather bar, how do I meet dominant men who are experienced and will treat me harshly, but fairly?

Thanks!


If you are serious, what is your problem with the local leather bar? If you have one, it would seem to be your primary resource.

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