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UllrsIshtar -> RE: How to truly dominate a loved one. Tips welcome. (4/19/2017 10:09:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: fantasynightmare
he likes to be humiliated, has a thing for dressing up in woman clothes and shoes not to be a woman but for the humiliation side of it.
I don't often criticize other people's kinks, but I have to say that I really don't understand why any woman would enjoy 'humiliating' a man trough feminization.
If feminine clothing, footwear, mannerisms, grooming rituals, and overall appearance is 'humiliating', then doesn't that imply that they are somehow inferior* to their male counterparts?
And if they're so inferior that it's debasing for a man to be associated with them, then isn't the woman who is 'humiliating' the man by enforcing them on her also indirectly debasing herself by putting forth the notion that she herself of a lessor gender than the man she's 'humiliating'?
I mean, I get why going out in public in drag could be humiliating to a man, considering that most of them can't pull off drag stylishly, and look downright awful and silly in it. But that's a matter of it being humiliating that they're wearing silly, outlandish clothing which makes them stand out.
Putting them in a ridiculous clown suit would achieve the same effect. (Or at least it ought to).
But this feminization humiliation fetish goes much further than that, it encompasses things like a man wearing drag in the privacy of their own home, or wearing female undergarments in public while nobody can see or is aware.
How exactly is 'being a woman' or 'acting or dressing as a woman' humiliating, unless one accepts that being a woman is somehow a degrading, debasing thing to be?
I find it insulting that my gender is considered to be something which could be debasing. Especially when it's said to be so by man, who in the same breath claims he 'worships' women for their superiority.
* Considering the recent discussion on this subject, here I clearly mean 'of lesser value', as is denoted by the preposition 'to'.
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