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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:00:12 PM   
NoirMetal


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Respectful men like a lady to show both interest and reality before initiating contact. And that they don't see him as just a fetish delivery system for fantasies. But will care and share the rest of his life as well.

So do your part,sitting passively only gets wankers to your door.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:05:20 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsamwife
I have just joined so advice not critisisim is more helpful

Well, I'm not Lucy Van Pelt sitting at the stand offering help for five cents but I'll give it a go.

CS is not AA. That means the newcomer isn't the most important person in the room.

Right now, you are experiencing new member syndrome. That means every dude who thinks he can hit that hole is going to try. You'll experience a lot of this.

As a straight chick, I couldn't care less about your lingerie. Points for it being cute, but what it's covering isn't my gig.

So far, there's nothing for me to respect.



That will be five cents, please.





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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:10:18 PM   
longwayhome


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How quickly things turn to shit!

You were being given perfectly good input from some of the more thoughtful posters here and you managed to start an unnecessary fight with them.

Either you need to draw breath and start again, or if you are indeed just a trolling sock, you can concentrate on trying to annoy everyone.

You must have worked out that you will come across good and bad here. You either filter it out, get really pissy or whiney, or burn your own boat by trolling.

You'll get plenty of attention - it just depends what type of attention you want.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:10:33 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsamwife

Who asked you to


You did, actually...

I refer you kindly to your opening post...

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:16:59 PM   
Lucylastic


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Respect is earned.
Courtesy is not.
You have shown neither.
Oh and you dont speak for anyone but yourself, not as a woman, or as a submissive.




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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:21:38 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

That will be five cents, please.


You cheapskate LP!
Gotta be worth five bucks at least. lol.

OP's first reply to vincent shows the mentality.
I'm not even sure it's new member syndrome either.
We've had many come on here and show a little more respect for existing members.
OP hasn't and has been quite caustic to several people on this thread.

Personally, I don't give a flying fuck; but OP needs to be a little more considerate and measured with her replies.
Wading in to a new site's forums all gung-ho and belligerent isn't the best way to make friends or earn respect.
OP is too thin-skinned and needs to learn how to conduct herself better.
For a 50yo woman who professes to be intelligent and a professional (at what, one wonders), you'd think she would know better.


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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:27:15 PM   
WickedsDesire


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and wanders off

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:38:34 PM   
subsamwife


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Status: offline 		Ah I see newbies should not have a opinion or voice now I get it

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:40:23 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsamwife

now I get it


I highly doubt that that's been true in the vast majority of cases you have claimed this in your life thus far.

It certainly isn't now.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 12:48:58 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Nothing wrong with a newbie having an opinion but when she gets snarky and bitches at those who try to advise, as you asked, then your opinions from that point forward fall on deaf ears.

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I love it when someone insults me. That means I don't have to be nice anymore.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 1:07:58 PM   
subsamwife


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Status: offline 		I was told i was like a child and stop whining
Hardly advice or constuctive is it

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 1:09:22 PM   
MsLadySue


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In order for you to insult me, I would first have to value your opinion.
I love it when someone insults me. That means I don't have to be nice anymore.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 1:11:53 PM   
subsamwife


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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 2:11:00 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsamwife

Ah I see newbies should not have a opinion or voice now I get it

An opinion on what? Most of the time newbies do need to sit the fuck down, shut the fuck up and only speak to ask questions..on this side.

After they ask then they need to sit the fuck down, shut the fuck up, listen and only speak to ask for clarification. Once everything is clear then they can sit the fuck down, prop their feet on the furniture and drop peanut shells on the floor.

That's pretty much how it is here most of the time. I'm not excusing it, just explaining it.

That's just newbies though and being a newbie isn't an excuse either.

Trolls, minions, socks..they couldn't sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up because their "life" literally depends on them not doing so. The way of it here is to bring out pitchforks, flame throwers and even dirty bombs. Again, I am not excusing it..just explaining it.

War is hell. I am not always entertained by what I see but I am often educated..just as good if not better.









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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 2:17:07 PM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		Wow OP, way to make a cracking first impression of a spoiled brat.

So I'm 45, a full 5 years your junior, so you can cut the oldies crap with me from the get go, and I'm going to back all the others that tell you to pull up your big girl panties, and suck it up buttercup.

On the other side you'll find that a lot of the men are thinking only with their dicks. You're there in panties and sussies, so what the hell do you expect them to do? You claim to be 50, try acting like it. Do what the rest of us do; ignore the idiots, block them, answer those that appeal with caution, and if they don't work out block them too. It's really that simple.

As for demanding respect, yeah, we'd all love to be approached with respect, but you know what, we don't all come bitching and moaning about it in the forums. We adult about it. What you'll notice is that we regulars don't put up with this nonsense, which is usually from whinging men, from anyone, so you're not being singled out.

However, you have stropped just like a couple of our other UK socks.

Needles

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 3:08:57 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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Has anybody else noticed how frequently it happens that a 'mature' 45+ something woman comes on here and start acting like a spoiled 19 year old millennial?

Makes me wonder if it's women's way of going through their midlife crisis...

Feigned immaturity to recapture lost youth or something like that...

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I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
And your whore
But let me tell you something baby
You love me for everything you hate me for

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 3:22:32 PM   
subsamwife


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Status: offline 		Nothing but but a sad troll

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 4:59:35 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		But 20 year olds act that way also. 30's and 40's and 60's. So probably no relation to menopause.

More likely she was hot in high school and has ever since imagined that her vagina is made of precious gems.

I find this kind of attitude correlates most to having been pretty as a girl. And believing she's owed stuff, not required to earn anything.

You would think they would learn in the following decades that it isn't true. For some reason they never do. They just get bitchy when they aren't treated as a princess.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 5:26:28 PM   
kiwisub22


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Status: offline 		And as for being treated as a princess - princesses tend to put panties on when bending over. OP, your profile pic is the equivalent of a cockshot - and you wonder why you are getting "do-me" messages.

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RE: Respect - 4/11/2017 5:28:18 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsamwife

Nothing but but a sad troll

Gnothi Seauton.

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