longwayhome
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ORIGINAL: longwayhome I'm going to have to try not to respond to these sort of posts when you make them Greta, because it just starts to look as if I am picking on you, when in fact I just disagree with you. Let's just say that there are a number of factual inaccuracies in what you have just said, such as the etymology of the word curry and Filipino cuisine. Please just use Google if you doubt what I say. I have just done the same to check that the information is there. "Wikipedia" and "curry" are the only two words you need as search terms. Needless to say my knowledge of Filipino and Singaporean cuisine doesn't come from Google. You might have guessed that from my post. I'm very glad for you that you had Filipino servants and that you liked the obedient ones - well the ones that don't complain about the smell of curry anyway. Dude, I was brought up by Filipinos and if you have been to Singapore lately, every restaurant and retail shops you walk into, are ALL Filipinos working in it today. So I think my knowledge is simply from growing up with Filipino people and them telling me what their culture is, and working with them as colleagues, sometimes you see more Filipinos than Singaporeans in an office these days, whereas I think you actually google. My maids were not obedient as they were replacement mothers. You know what does that mean? They are allowed to scream at me, yell at me and beat me up, slap me, cane me, if they wanted to and full powers to discipline me as they like. All approved by my mom. So they got alot of power over me. My mom will praise them if they beat me. But they simply chose not to use violence to discipline me. As they are better than my mother. And they don't believe in such methods in their own culture to raise children. Point is, EVERY Filipino I know over here, hates spicy food. So I doubt "curry" is what they eat regularly in Philippines because they seriously do not like Indian curries or Chinese Curries or anything spicy at all. They do love their chicken gravy, that I know. And because of the proximity of Philippines to Singapore, majority of the Filipinos here, work here but raise families in Philippines. So they are very authentic Filipinos who are just born and raised in Philippines and planning to retire in Philippines. Most maids that worked in Singapore for a few years go back to buy a few houses, and be an entrepreneur back there, opening their own business over there, with the money they earn here. Most of them as I said, are not country bumpkins but educated and have a plan. Working in Singapore is just to make a quick buck to fund their business ambitions. quote:
You make many points about people abiding by Singapore's culture but you like to pick and choose which cultures you like, and are very vocal about the ones you don't. Because in singapore, we DO pick and choose what culture is permitted and what is not permitted. It is all government controlled. So whatever culture exists are permitted cultures. Unlike in the west, you guys think multi-culturism means everything goes, and everything goes wild! Like allowing sharia courts without government interference. That's soooo ridiculous! Your government failed to protect Muslim women from the evil religion that forces them to cover up and allows them to be beaten up and bruises never to be seen. You know, many non-muslim women were saved because they didn't have to wear cover up. And outsiders can see her bruises and offer her help. But all Muslim women can be black and blue inside, and we'll never know to help them. Even their faces can be bruised and they just gotta wear the veil. No Greta I didn't have to Google to find out about curry or Filipinos. Curry is an Anglicised version of a more generic Tamil word which means sauce. It was the Raj that took the word curry around the world. The Indians referred to their food by the names of the individual dishes but the British adopted the word curry to mean any spicy Indian food and that stuck. I have to say, I thought that was common knowledge. I have not always lived in the UK so do not need to Google to know the ethnic make up of Malaysia, Singapore or the Philippines. You are of course right that most Filipino cuisine is not spicy but some of it is and there are dishes referred to as curries, especially in regional cuisine. You will be pleased to know that Filipinos were employed by Singaporeans in restaurants, hotels and as family servants over 30 years ago. I have also seen at first hand the treatment handed out by some ya-yas to the children in their charge so I understand that too. Some Filipinos had good employers, others didn't and some even returned home from Singapore having been raped by their employers, because some Singaporeans thought that all Filipinos were prostitutes and deserved it. I have also seen Filipinos being treated as second class citizens by Chinese people in the Philippines, let alone in a foreign country. However many Filipinos worked hard in Singapore and Hong Kong, earning good money to send home or buy a better education and regarded their experience as positive. Unlike you I don't judge everyone by the bad behaviour of the few. Racial prejudice is far from being just a western phenomenon. Always useful to be aware when an immigration official looks pissed off with you and refers to you as gweilo to his colleague. Like all words its not always offensive but when officials abruptly stop speaking in English to each other and start using words like that it's good to be on your guard. So Dudess, I don't have to read to know anything about your country and the region you live in. I don't inhabit your skin so I cannot know what you know but I am far from ignorant. Just a point about the UK. You said the following "Unlike in the west, you guys think multi-culturism means everything goes, and everything goes wild! Like allowing sharia courts without government interference." But in another thread, where you were trying to demonstrate just how bad things are, quoted an article from the Independent explaining how discriminatory practices in sharia mediation processes were being investigated and dealt with in the UK. Sharia style mediation is not a legal process. They are referred to popularly as "courts" but that is a misnomer. They have no legal standing and any "decision" can be overturned by the real courts. And by your own quoted evidence, the UK government is exactly making sure that "everything does not go", whilst allowing people to consult their own religious leaders as they see fit. So what you said is just plain wrong. The UK is not perfect but you are basically just attacking me for not hating Muslims like you do. It's true I don't hate Muslims like you, but the "facts" you are using are very far from accurate.
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