LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: Greta75 As in, you feel she may not break the news in a sensitive way? Such revelations, there is no sensitive way to break it. When my friend, who is a male friend, first he went to threaten my xhusband to end it with the other woman or he'll tell me about it. After he told me about it, being as gentle as possible, I still flip out at him, accusing him of trying to break my marriage up and making this shit up. And this was a friend of 8 years who cared for me. Who-ever breaks the news, will have to just prepare to temporarily be like seen as the "bad guy". Until the person cools down, as this is gonna be something very hurting no matter what. I don't think it's about sensitivity in the matter. It's about the motivations. There are two (general) motivations that I could see this being reasonable: * There's been a crime committed. Sexual assault, stalking, harassment, threats of blackmail, etc. On parallel as the same kind of criminal activity that the marital status of the person referenced in the OP wouldn't matter. If it's a situation where the OP could walk into a police station and file a report for something other than stuff like adultery, consensual kink, sodomy, or other laws that are outdated, I could go with that. * The OP knows for a FACT that the wife's sexual health is at risk because an STI issue comes into play. Example would be that she knows that she has an STI, knows that she and the person referenced have engaged in high-risk, unprotected sex, and it's realistic to tell the wife to go get a panel done. Other than that, probably not so much.
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