needlesandpins -> RE: Prejudice in the lifestyle. (5/2/2017 3:54:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins LP, I agree that there are always going to be variables. However, that is not a transgender dominant issue, it's across the board, but it's where Greta gets it so very wrong. She gets on her high horse about her POV, and that this is the way it is. The best thing about this particular issue is that she's speaking for ALL lesbians as a damn straight woman, and one that doesn't even have a decent grasp of what it means to be transgender either. As a general rule I try to give Greta a lot of movement in her writing and ideas, but on this subject she's just way off base. We've all got our preferences, regardless of our gender, or our sexuality, but she doesn't seem to be grasping this. Needles Ever have one of those days that you feel that you just aren't doing a great job at conveying your meaning? For me, that happens to be today. [8D] I have no idea where Greta pulled that 99% thing out of nowhere. I'm at a loss. I know that, as a posed question, if I said anything other than some, it would have been intellectually dishonest. I've known people who will date transgender people and those who are adamantly opposed idea for their personal relationships. Being on the opposite end of the Kinsey scale myself, I can kind of get why some of those sixes say they are not interested in sexual relationships with someone that they can't see as the gender they are sexually attracted to. Particularly if we're talking about pre-op individuals. This is kind of tough for me to try to exchange ideas with people from other countries with because I don't feel I have a good grasp on how the climate might be different in your country than mine. We still kind of suck at it. We're still passing laws like where people are allowed to go to the bathroom in some states. (If a person ever wants to feel less optimistic if issues that trans* people face, spend a few hours reading what kinky people think about North Carolina's HB2 and they aren't all het people.) I do get what you're saying. It wasn't that I couldn't see the point kind of being made by Greta, it was the huge Duvet of a statement that she loves to throw over an already hot room [:)] I personally have mixed feelings about how I'd approach a relationship with a transgender person, and it is purely from a sex POV. I have seen photos, and for all I know may have met some FtM men that I have found very attractive. So as males I see no issue with them ... well actually now I think of it, two things ... one being height, because I have a thing about tall men, so if he's tall, all groovy, but then after that it really does depend on how the transitioning works. I admit my ignorance here, and it's not for the lack of trying to research the subject. You see I can not stand toys when it comes to sex. It's boring. I'm sorry to be so crude, but I want to be fucked by a hard cock. That's what does it for me, and no amount of telling me that there are other ways to orgasm ... I mean for crying out loud, I can do that myself ... but what is the point of having a man if I can't have him as I want him? Now, if a transgender man is capable of giving me that, we're set to go. Needles
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