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Disappearing profiles - 5/18/2017 3:53:17 PM

Lukassss

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I talked for more then two weeks with one woman and now her profile has suddenly disappeared. It's not hidden, but it says it doesn't exist anymore. We had good communication and she just vanished. Some might say she got bored by this site and just deleted the profile, but that looks very unusual. In our discussions she never seemed bored, nor did she mention such idea, so I think her profile was just deleted. Does anyone know what to do in such situation? Can I contact site administrators and ask for the reason she was deleted? Or complain in some way? Any help is appreciated.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/18/2017 8:19:41 PM

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The lady in question most certainly deleted her profile because she wanted it deleted. The administration does not delete profiles on a whim. It could be that the lady is married and her husband found out she was chatting with guys. She could really be a he pretending to be a woman. It could be that the lady just chats with people to mess with their minds. Certainly none of that deserves a complaint to the administration. It's really rather common on the internet. It was only 2 weeks. Not long in the scheme of things.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/18/2017 11:17:39 PM

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Seeing as how you're located in Croatia, chances are she decided you're a waste of her time because you'd only be available for online. Likely she's blocked you.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/19/2017 6:16:14 PM

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I clearly told at the beginning her profile doesn't exist anymore. That means it was deleted. I'm not blocked. I could still see her profile, if that was the case.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/20/2017 10:39:14 AM

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Then she must have found you so thoroughly unimpressive that she deleted her account to lose you.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/21/2017 11:02:08 AM

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It sucks when it happens, Lukasss, but unfortunately that is life on the interwebs. It happens a lot on CS. Any of the reasons listed above could be true. Try not to take it personally, tho it's hard.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/23/2017 3:58:25 PM

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The only thing here that is thoroughly unimpressive is you and your answers. I asked for help and if you can't offer anything that makes some sense, please don't bother answering. I couldn't care less for your provocations.

If she didn't want to speak with me she could just ignore me or simply block me. No need to delete profile and lose access to all other people on this site. Thoroughly unimpressive or impressive, whatever you prefer.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/23/2017 4:04:49 PM

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Thank you on advice. I still don't understand how could she just disappear. I saw some other members complaining on their profiles that site deleted them and they had to recreate the profiles again, so I thought that something similar happened to her. She just seemed so real and honest and she was definitely not like some fake findommes here, so I doubt she would just disappear like that. That's why I would like to contact someone on the site and ask what exactly happened. We didn't exchange our personal contacts, so I can't reach her in any way now.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/26/2017 10:14:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lukassss
Does anyone know what to do in such situation? Can I contact site administrators and ask for the reason she was deleted? Or complain in some way? Any help is appreciated.

Per the site's privacy policy, the Admin here are not supposed to be telling you anything about a third party's profile. Doesn't matter if the other party deleted the profile, the site deleted the profile, or just about anything else. The only exception to this would be anything legal where the Admins are working with law enforcement or there is some type of civil suit going on. For all the site knows, you could be a danger to this third party, so they aren't going to tell you anything.

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If she didn't want to speak with me she could just ignore me or simply block me. No need to delete profile and lose access to all other people on this site.

This isn't entirely correct. If the person deleted the profile, they don't lose all access to everyone else. All it takes for people to keep their contacts is to download their mail history to the email address they signed up with. For all you know, the person already has multiple profiles that were set up in the event they ever had to delete any given one of them for any particular reason. Blocking a person is only effective *if* the person who has been blocked accepts that they have been blocked and moves on. It's worthless if you are dealing with the type of person that will just create additional screen names to re-establish contact. The latter happens more often than you might think.

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She just seemed so real and honest and she was definitely not like some fake findommes here, so I doubt she would just disappear like that.

Look up a term called 'catfishing'. The people who do that all seem real and honest, too.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/30/2017 8:15:22 AM

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Does anyone remember the profile sluttywifeforsale or sluttywifeagain.? She was in Texas.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/30/2017 8:30:32 AM

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Seems like a catfish or scammer to me too.

That aside if they delete their profiles I am certain a search will return shag all. Married catfish do that all the time too on all sites.

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RE: Disappearing profiles - 5/30/2017 9:57:51 AM

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Wickedsdesire are you saying that to me?

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