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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 12:13:59 AM   
TheMistressLucy


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Hello :) Before you start reading my profile please note that I will not talk to you about your fetishes and fantasies, surprisingly for some, serving me is actually about ME.


What a self centred, self important, little chauvinist brat.

What's the point of a male serving you if there is nothing in it for him? Jesus fucking christ you're a narcissistic cunt.


Well imbecile, why would I talk about fetishes and fantasies that do not interest me?

What interests me is selfless (as possible) service. There are rare males who are into that, and some do serve me. I even point out how rare it is on my profile. The rest can find someone else to "serve".

If a male dom wrote the same on his profile no one would have an issue with it CUNT!


Ok, so suppose for a moment -- Mistress/Servant dynamic aside -- that one party has hard limit of water-sports, or that they won't be a toilet-slave for their own specific reasons (clearly, not for everyone and it's a pretty common hard limit). Based on the conversation thus far, I'm inferring that because serving you is "all about ME", you wouldn't care about that and your response might be to say, "It's not about you, it's about ME, so you must engage in the act you find so repugnant because of that."

No specific name-calling here, but would that be an accurate statement?


I have zero interest in making anyone do anything they don't want to do. I want willing servants, I have had 2 female subs as well, so so much for being accused of being a chauvinist bigot by the resident neanderthal.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 12:36:56 AM   
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Ok, so suppose for a moment -- Mistress/Servant dynamic aside -- that one party has hard limit of water-sports, or that they won't be a toilet-slave for their own specific reasons (clearly, not for everyone and it's a pretty common hard limit). Based on the conversation thus far, I'm inferring that because serving you is "all about ME", you wouldn't care about that and your response might be to say, "It's not about you, it's about ME, so you must engage in the act you find so repugnant because of that."

No specific name-calling here, but would that be an accurate statement?


Of course not, if the interests do not align then they would never approach me in the first place.



That wasn't explicitly clear from your profile, but thanks for qualifying that. I'll reserve any observations.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 12:41:59 AM   
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That wasn't explicitly clear from your profile, but thanks for qualifying that. I'll reserve any observations.





It would be strange to read a profile and approach someone if you didn't like what they said on their profile, wouldn't it?

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 8:08:29 AM   
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Still, (and to show you I'm a good sport) I think this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drcTRzO2wMk would happen frequently. Enjoy this thing. It's been around for years.

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I've made an edited version and trimmed a minute off, as male subs don't have a very long attention span, but they really do need to watch it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=us1iUidePg4

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 8:35:15 AM   
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Still, (and to show you I'm a good sport) I think this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drcTRzO2wMk would happen frequently. Enjoy this thing. It's been around for years.

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I've made an edited version and trimmed a minute off, as male subs don't have a very long attention span, but they really do need to watch it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=us1iUidePg4


See how there is no one here to attack Lucy on having a condescending attitude and low opinion against a demographic of men. Yet when men appear this way towards female subs or dommes in this forum, they get attacked from every direction.

How's your female privilege going, Lucy?


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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 8:50:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: respectmen


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ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy


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Still, (and to show you I'm a good sport) I think this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drcTRzO2wMk would happen frequently. Enjoy this thing. It's been around for years.

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I've made an edited version and trimmed a minute off, as male subs don't have a very long attention span, but they really do need to watch it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=us1iUidePg4


See how there is no one here to attack Lucy on having a condescending attitude and low opinion against a demographic of men. Yet when men appear this way towards female subs or dommes in this forum, they get attacked from every direction.

How's your female privilege going, Lucy?




It's not an attitude, it's a fact. How would you know what submissive males are like, have you talked to 10,000? Are you a sub male?

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:01:18 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Just saying, women get more leeway than men to criticse the opposite gender. If you were a male dom acting the same towards female subs, you would be getting abused and ridiculed by tons of people in here.

That's exactly what you only deserve from men, abuse and ridicule. You're an self important narrcissist that offers nothing but expects everything in return. It's fucking laughable.


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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:16:04 AM   
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Just saying, women get more leeway than men to criticse the opposite gender. If you were a male dom acting the same towards female subs, you would be getting abused and ridiculed by tons of people in here.

That's exactly what you only deserve from men, abuse and ridicule. You're an self important narrcissist that offers nothing but expects everything in return. It's fucking laughable.




I don't abuse, degrade or humiliate my subs. I set them tasks like making Lego landmarks or baking cakes for me :)

Let's get back to basics, the sub serves the dominant, that is what SOME males are in it for. It's not a roleplaying game, it's what they truly love. Do you want to deny them of their lifestyle because you don't like it? They are doing exactly what they want and getting exactly what they want.


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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:21:52 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		You are the one that's whinging about others not being the way you want. In this case, male subs not being the way you want. Because heavens above, how dare they have sexual desires! They aren't entitled to god damn it! They are supposed to forget about all of that and just be mindless robots for dominant women with no personality of their own.

So do you expect them to deny their lifestyle because you don't like it? Can you see your uber hypocrisy?


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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:26:52 AM   
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You are the one that's whinging about others not being the way you want. In this case, male subs not being the way you want. Because heavens above, how dare they have sexual desires! They aren't entitled to god damn it! They are supposed to forget about all of that and just be mindless robots for dominant women with no personality of their own.

So do you expect them to deny their lifestyle because you don't like it? Can you see your uber hypocrisy?




No, I suggested the male subs should get what they want, I want them to be happy. The fact is their chances of finding a woman to fulfil their fantasies and fetishes on demand are very slim indeed. If they were to visit a pro domme they would get exactly what they want immediately instead of wasting years looking for it.

Chances are they will do that in the end anyway.

What are you suggesting, that I should do what I don't want to do to please some unknown subs?

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:37:34 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Men's chances are slim because men are less likely to feel self entitled for a life time relationship with someone simply because that person wants sexual fun. Men are also more open minded, more adventurous, less shallow and peevish, more accepting, than women on a general basis.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:47:36 AM   
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Men's chances are slim because men are less likely to feel self entitled for a life time relationship with someone simply because that person wants sexual fun.

Um, this problem is created by men. Because if a woman doesn't get a life time relationship with the man she has sex with, men call her a slut for having sexual fun.

Are you seriously complaining about a problem caused by men?

The day men stop slut shaming women for enjoying sex, will be the day women stop expecting life time relationships in return for sex.

Tell your men to support a campaign that slogan should said, "Sex should be for pleasure, not for the sake of relationships!"

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 9:56:44 AM   
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Men's chances are slim because men are less likely to feel self entitled for a life time relationship with someone simply because that person wants sexual fun. Men are also more open minded, more adventurous, less shallow and peevish, more accepting, than women on a general basis.


So what happened to you to make you narrow minded, boring, shallow, and made you hate others?

The majority of the males who message me are very self entitled, they ignore my profile and when I tell them I am not interested they thrust their fantasies and penis photos on me, and tell me they will wank over my photos anyway. This is so called submissive males using a woman selfishly.

This is not my opinion, it's a fact.

This is why I decided to state at the top that I wont talk about their fetishes, it's meant to save us both time.

I never message anyone, I have made a profile and if males like what I am into they can message me, and in theory if they don't like it they look elsewhere, but they still contact me and beg me to change to suit them.

They will never change me or the others they try to change, so just bite the bullet and visit a pro domme. Get the job done and everyone's happy!

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 10:03:45 AM   
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Men's chances are slim because men are less likely to feel self entitled for a life time relationship with someone simply because that person wants sexual fun. Men are also more open minded, more adventurous, less shallow and peevish, more accepting, than women on a general basis.


So what happened to you to make you narrow minded, boring, shallow, and made you hate others?

The majority of the males who message me are very self entitled, they ignore my profile and when I tell them I am not interested they thrust their fantasies and penis photos on me, and tell me they will wank over my photos anyway. This is so called submissive males using a woman selfishly.

This is not my opinion, it's a fact.

This is why I decided to state at the top that I wont talk about their fetishes, it's meant to save us both time.

I never message anyone, I have made a profile and if males like what I am into they can message me, and in theory if they don't like it they look elsewhere, but they still contact me and beg me to change to suit them.

They will never change me or the others they try to change, so just bite the bullet and visit a pro domme. Get the job done and everyone's happy!


Oh let me guess, around 99 percent of men do this? Gotta larf

So you never make the effort to even approach, you expect men to do all the ground work and yet you blame men and not your self for your failings in finding what you want.

Jesus many women in here are bloody thick as bricks.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 10:12:51 AM   
TheMistressLucy


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


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ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Men's chances are slim because men are less likely to feel self entitled for a life time relationship with someone simply because that person wants sexual fun. Men are also more open minded, more adventurous, less shallow and peevish, more accepting, than women on a general basis.


So what happened to you to make you narrow minded, boring, shallow, and made you hate others?

The majority of the males who message me are very self entitled, they ignore my profile and when I tell them I am not interested they thrust their fantasies and penis photos on me, and tell me they will wank over my photos anyway. This is so called submissive males using a woman selfishly.

This is not my opinion, it's a fact.

This is why I decided to state at the top that I wont talk about their fetishes, it's meant to save us both time.

I never message anyone, I have made a profile and if males like what I am into they can message me, and in theory if they don't like it they look elsewhere, but they still contact me and beg me to change to suit them.

They will never change me or the others they try to change, so just bite the bullet and visit a pro domme. Get the job done and everyone's happy!


Oh let me guess, around 99 percent of men do this? Gotta larf

So you never make the effort to even approach, you expect men to do all the ground work and yet you blame men and not your self for your failings in finding what you want.

Jesus many women in here are bloody thick as bricks.



Yes, about 95% on this site. All most want is a quick wank. Nothing wrong with that but they won't be getting any help from me.

Yes I expect them to use their brains and read a profile and approach those who they have something in common with, a hard task I know.

I don't need to message anyone because I don't care if I have zero subs. I meet submissive males at work and doing every day things.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 11:02:35 AM   
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Oh let me guess, around 99 percent of men do this? Gotta larf

I consider myself to be rather reasonable about these things. I do the math.

Out of seven billion people on the planet, let's say half of them are male. If you're going to ask me if I caaarrreee about 3.5 billion people's sexual wants, I'm going to tell you "no". I don't care that random person X has desires that want to be fulfilled. A person who happens to join the same website? So what?

Go ahead. Tell me that you care about how sexually or kink fulfilled as the person sitting five houses down in your own neighborhood. I'll probably tell you that you are full of it.

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So you never make the effort to even approach, you expect men to do all the ground work and yet you blame men and not your self for your failings in finding what you want.

I don't approach. Personally, I find it better for other people to make their own decisions about the poly thing.

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Jesus many women in here are bloody thick as bricks.

Never said I was smart.


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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 12:32:53 PM   
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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 2:12:21 PM   
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No one is asking women to care for every male's sexual want's on the planet.

So let's get things clear, women complain about getting bombarded by unwanted emails, meanwhile many to most of these women who are complaining about this never make the approach. If women did generally approach and didn't hold back maybe there would be less men approaching women as more men would be satisfied with whoever approached them. It would make men less inclined to feel desperate and email a 100 women. So my point is that this stems from the lack of work and effort women put in to make things happen.

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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 3:43:37 PM   
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RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes - 5/27/2017 7:05:41 PM   
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Cough it up bitch. I charge 500 an hour.

The difference here is, there is nothing wrong with you wanting to charge $500 per hour. You should! But whether you can get customers, is another story. I know gigolos in my country gets paid 10,000 per hour just to drink with a woman. But they need to look like a Korean boy band member. It all depends on if you can demand that type of money. And the women paying for these guys aren't even old ladies but hot young women who makes decent money, who likes paying for a male, because they feel like they have power over him that way.

If the domme can get men to willingly pay them, who cares. And if you can get women to pay you. Why not? Good on you!

But if you can't get women to pay you. The problem is with you. Obviously there are men out there making a living with women paying them.

I know a few guys who paid for college in their younger years by charging for sex with women.



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