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LadyPact -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/27/2017 8:41:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen LP No one is asking women to care for every male's sexual want's on the planet. So let's get things clear, women complain about getting bombarded by unwanted emails, meanwhile many to most of these women who are complaining about this never make the approach. If women did generally approach and didn't hold back maybe there would be less men approaching women as more men would be satisfied with whoever approached them. It would make men less inclined to feel desperate and email a 100 women. So my point is that this stems from the lack of work and effort women put in to make things happen. I hate to be the person to tell you this: A whole crap ton of the unwanted emails are kink and/or sexually focused. This thing isn't about 'how do I acquiesce to men so they won't behave poorly'. It's not my JOB to see that a certain amount of males on the planet get approached, get their share of play, so they don't annoy the p^ss out of other people. I've told you on several other occasions. Nope. In the general sense, I don't work for this stuff. I do work on things like being a good top. Having the kind of skill set that makes people (both male and female) want to play with me. Most bottoms can do the same thing from the other side, if they bother trying.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/27/2017 8:59:25 PM)
LP, as I have said over and over again on here, the emails are kinky and sexually orientated because this is collarspace.com. Not a vanilla site. It's silly to expect men to not be focused and orientated on BDSM on a bloody BDSM website. In regards of behaving poorly, I have never seen it as deemed as "behaving poorly" when women approach men in a sexual fashion. It's usually seen as the man is lucky. As for working for stuff. The question still remains, why should men have to work for it but not women? As for doing the approaching. It's made out to be that the woman is the winning prize and the man has to win the said prize. That is placing one gender above the other. If men are expected to do work, so should women. That's equality. As I will say again, plenty of women only want equality when it suits them.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/27/2017 9:10:38 PM)
Expecting men to do the ground work in approaching/courting while you think as a woman it's not your job makes you nothing more than a self entitled privilege seeker.

Marini -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/27/2017 9:14:50 PM)
Great thread, I just read a profile from one of the "submissive males" on here claiming to be seeking a relationship. The profile was almost promising, until it said, his Dominant partner MUST give 4-5 spankings, whippings, etc. daily. I just had to chuckle at that point.

TheMistressLucy -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 1:32:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen LP, as I have said over and over again on here, the emails are kinky and sexually orientated because this is collarspace.com. Not a vanilla site. It's silly to expect men to not be focused and orientated on BDSM on a bloody BDSM website. In regards of behaving poorly, I have never seen it as deemed as "behaving poorly" when women approach men in a sexual fashion. It's usually seen as the man is lucky. As for working for stuff. The question still remains, why should men have to work for it but not women? As for doing the approaching. It's made out to be that the woman is the winning prize and the man has to win the said prize. That is placing one gender above the other. If men are expected to do work, so should women. That's equality. As I will say again, plenty of women only want equality when it suits them. So to sum up, you want there to be 1000 x more women into BDSM and casual sex, and you want them to approach males. I suppose you want them to be all 18 and hot as well. And you want dominant women to be less dominant, unless it's in ways you enjoy. All in the name of equality, or is it so you can get your kinky thrills on a plate? Would you mind if they wore male clothes and all had short haircuts? But if things were to be equal males would have to have periods and go through childbirth as well.

LadyPact -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 6:19:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Expecting men to do the ground work in approaching/courting while you think as a woman it's not your job makes you nothing more than a self entitled privilege seeker. Actually, it makes me one of those folks who isn't trying to shove poly down other people's throats. [:)] ETA - One of the core, basic reasons that the pro market exists in the first place is because people can't get their kink wants fulfilled. Can't get it via other means? Well, pay for it. Doesn't effect me in the least. Shouldn't effect you, either.

Greta75 -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 7:07:05 AM)
When I reach a certain age where it's hard to get volunteers anymore. I am so paying for a male pro dominant that's for sure! For his skill and expertise and also adhering to my limits, too many voluntary dominants always want to push limits, kinda thread the edges, which kinda doesn't help with building any kind of trust. And it's the mentality too. They don't feel they are breaking limits, but to me, I'm black and white. I like them to stick precisely to pre-agreements and not sneak in a little push here or there which seems to be grey areas, which will basically make me not respect them anymore. But they are probably used to women who do want to be pushed. When i watch sex and submission videos, I would love to pay one of those guys to play with me, because everything is executed so professionally and safely. And because they are practically professionals. They don't even try to push limits, they adhere to the parameters.

Marini -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 11:09:40 AM)
I am not sure if we need More professional Dominants on here. But, I have always thought many of the "do me" submissive, need to pay someone to fullfill their fantasies. Many would actually have more "luck" if they worked harder on seeking Tops/and or vanilla women willing to explore their fetishes and fantasies.

WhoreMods -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 11:38:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marini I am not sure if we need More professional Dominants on here. But, I have always thought many of the "do me" submissive, need to pay someone to fullfill their fantasies. Many would actually have more "luck" if they worked harder on seeking Tops/and or vanilla women willing to explore their fetishes and fantasies. One argument is that a man whose only interest in the other half of the human race is as a peg to hang his fetishes off is probably going to be better off paying somebody than trying to make a relationship work. Possibly a bit harsh, and certainly reductive, but I can still see why people who have to deal with do me subs all the time might think that.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 1:28:26 PM)
Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap.

tamaka -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 1:52:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. Your points are becoming increasingly pointless. I'd say.. quit while your ahead. Perhaps get some help resolving the two sides of you that seem to be in conflict with each other.

TheMistressLucy -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 1:59:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. If a woman has to go through childbirth so should men.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:02:50 PM)
Tamaka, the point is that you don't get to pick and choose when it comes to equality. If you are against the wage gap, you should also be against men having to pay while women don't. Women can't have their cake and eat it too.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:19:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. If a woman has to go through childbirth so should men. Women get the choice to opt out of parenthood, men don't. It's another female privilege that women don't want to give up. Yet men are expected to give up all of theirs.

WickedsDesire -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:20:35 PM)
We can hammer this out right now on the Skype or me with a large stick Intrigue me liar pants on fire

TheMistressLucy -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:21:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. If you just paid a pro domme you would save all the time you spend on here whining, you could be doing some overtime to pay for it.

WickedsDesire -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:22:04 PM)
You too I alway wondered

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:23:09 PM)
Wicked, you're the average male. That isn't good enough for the women on collarspace. Even an SSBBW who is unemployed and living with her parents would get more luck than the average guy on here.

Lucylastic -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:23:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen quote: ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. If a woman has to go through childbirth so should men. Women get the choice to opt out of parenthood, men don't. It's another female privilege that women don't want to give up. Yet men are expected to give up all of theirs. Paying for your "issue" is not parenthood.

respectmen -> RE: I think there should be MORE pro dommes (5/28/2017 2:25:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheMistressLucy quote: ORIGINAL: respectmen Just a real quicky. So a man has to pay pay pay simply because he has sexual desires. Sure, if women are finding it hard to get something out of men, they should cough up money to get it too. Oh wait, that sounds ridiculous, but not when you use men as the target. The fact of the matter is, if women don't have to pay, neither should men. If a woman disagrees with this, she should shut up about wage gap. If you just paid a pro domme you would save all the time you spend on here whining, you could be doing some overtime to pay for it. Yet you aren't whining? Your hypocrisy is making me laugh. Why is it that today's women are shameless hypocrites? They think they get to complain all they want while telling men they aren't allowed to do the same. Gotta larf

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