MissKatya
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Joined: 12/21/2007 From: NYC Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo Well its time to post a question; to see what others think. So here we go … I first met a woman in my area, about 12 years ago. We share a taste for fine dining, and she says she is a Domme. Most recently, last fall, we went out several times, and those dates averaged $300; without any happy endings. Our last interaction was December 23, 2016 (dang smart phones!) lol That said, I have always known she was a Pro Domme and attempting to incorporate some Fin Domme. But all we ever have done is go to great dinners and converse, with no sex or BDSM interaction. So Monday this past week I get an email from her. She wants me to take her to dinner, then submit to her as a sub for her sexual pleasure. I did not immediately agree; instead mentioning all of my reservations, concerns etc. She kept countering … finally reminding me that subs serve for the Dommes pleasure … so I agreed to do it. Of course, she expected me to pick her up at her home, and then take her to a great steakhouse that would cost me at least three hundred. The new twist to this date was she added desert. So I presumed she just needed someone familiar and comfortable; and agreed on the night before the date. This past Friday, two hours before I picked her up … she texted me that she expected me to bring an envelope with a card containing a wonderful surprise. Obviously, she meant cash. I exploded, feeling I was a victim of bait and switch. Immediately I sent a text cancelling everything. I knew I would not even interact with her at dinner because I felt totally deceived. Nonetheless, I knew she would send a fire storm response, so I just shut the phone off and tossed it in the bag with my laptop then went home. This morning, when I turned the phone on … 15 texts popped up… the last saying that “I think I am so good, that I don’t have to pay”. Huh? I didn’t initiate this contact, didn’t initiate conversation about sexual, nor say I would give her ANY MONEY! My response was instant. Delete her number and all the texts from my phone, then block her from all email contact … but what do you think? Was I obligated to take her out, have sex that evening, and give her money, too? And why would someone think I would give her money AFTER we made a date? Please share … I'm going to go with the rest of the gang here and say that her behavior is really classless and if I were you, I would have given her the old "go fuck yourself" and blocked her number. But I do have ask a question. You said that you knew this woman for 12 years. Did you ever have a business transaction with her in the past? A session or some sort of "pay for play" agreement? I only ask because it seems so out of the blue for someone to assume that a casual dinner is a session and then go bonkers on it. Or...she's just batshit crazy and you should run far, far away.
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