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You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batshit i... - 6/12/2017 10:21:11 PM   
littleboyfluff


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Probably applies to about 95% of the self proclaimed dominant female profiles around here, lost in a narcistic me centered princess/queen/goddess complex, that others should be slaves, serve, and spoil them.. as if they were Cleopatra... and the world revolves around them. Well, one immature two year old role player can spot another... last I checked, if you don't have any magical godly powers, you're not a goddess... but just a vain mortal. Also, last I checked, slavery was illegal in most of the world...

So my question is... do you really think men share your fantasy, that they should be your slaves? Because it has about as much appeal to us, as you roleplaying our mommy has to you.

And there we come to an impasse...

Just calling it like I see it. You'll never find what you want here. Because even if someone did want to become that for you, your vanity and impatience is so great, you'd quickly get sick, tired, and disgusted of them and their doormat lack of self esteem.

The best you can hope for is someone roleplay it with you for fun and fantasy, but you do realize, this is roleplay, don't you?
You have to input something into the relationship to get something out, it's a two way street...
Nobody wants a relationship where they get nothing back out of it, except to serve you which is a big fat zero....

So, does it ever ocure to any of you, that maybe you're not a goddess, you're just wallowing in a 2 year old spoilt princess brat complex with anger management issues?
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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 12:23:44 AM   
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Sounds to me like somebody is having trouble finding a submissive to cater to his fantasies
quote:

do you really think men share your fantasy, that they should be your slaves?

I don't know, but a fuck of a lot of guys say they do, and I have no reason to think they are lying.


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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 1:04:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

Sounds to me like somebody is having trouble finding a submissive to cater to his fantasies
quote:

do you really think men share your fantasy, that they should be your slaves?

I don't know, but a fuck of a lot of guys say they do, and I have no reason to think they are lying.


Yeah, judging by the number of guys on this site that approach me wanting to be my slave, there are a hell of a lot more of them than there are dominants here.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 5:07:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick
Sounds to me like somebody is having trouble finding a submissive to cater to his fantasies
quote:

do you really think men share your fantasy, that they should be your slaves?

I don't know, but a fuck of a lot of guys say they do, and I have no reason to think they are lying.


Maybe not lying, but probably unbeknownst to themselves not as dedicated to the reality as the fantasy.
There tend to be as many dommes complaining about a lack of quality male subs as there are male subs complaining about dommes, so that probably means something.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 12:15:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleboyfluff

So, does it ever ocure to any of you, that maybe you're not a goddess, you're just wallowing in a 2 year old spoilt princess brat complex with anger management issues?

So, you can't find anyone to cater to the DO ME fantasy that is your profile so it's somehow their fault?

Four of of your five remaining posts in the forum have been whining about other people. Do you really think that's helping your search?

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 12:45:23 PM   
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None of you are
And yet all above me declare the higher moral ground


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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 1:07:40 PM   
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quote:

You have to input something into the relationship to get something out, it's a two way street...
Nobody wants a relationship where they get nothing back out of it, except to serve you which is a big fat zero....


An RM sock . . . my guess . . .

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 1:15:59 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

None of you are
And yet all above me declare the higher moral ground


Navel lint can declare the higher moral ground over you. Please go see a mental health professional.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/13/2017 4:31:11 PM   
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There are a couple of problems here that make for frustrating attempts on both sides.

Number one, are the scammers who are here under false pretenses simply to steal money from the gullible.

Second, is that many males list themselves as submissive, when in fact they are fetishist. There isn't anything wrong with being a fetishist, and this sight doesn't allow for individuals to pick that option.

The second issue leads into the third, where female dominant are actually searching for submissives keep running across fetishists who need their fetish met, whereas the female dominant needs a submissive to have her needs met as a dominant individual. Which in turn leads to women complaining about men wanting a fetish delivery system and men complaining about there being nothing but fakes.

Truthfully, many fetishist are not submissives, they don't have a desire to submit.
Those female dominants may not be fetishists, so they have no desire to serve a particular fetishists needs.

Compatibility is the issue and false labeling.

Finally, yes. There are the Goddesses and the princesses. I've known one woman who called herself Goddess who lived up to title. She is an amazing woman. Mostly, I find the "titles" to be silly but at least you have an idea of who and what you will be dealing with.

Sorry you are having a tough time meeting someone who is compatible with your fetish. Hang in there, and maybe try not to paint all female dominants with the same brush.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/17/2017 5:54:26 AM   
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quote:

Maybe not lying, but probably unbeknownst to themselves not as dedicated to the reality as the fantasy.

Please note: The OP asked about sharing the fantasy, not living the reality.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/20/2017 11:49:42 AM   
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I do applaud the op for recognizing that he is just another two year old role player. Recognizing your immaturity is the first step. Fixing it, alas, is a lot longer and harder process.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/21/2017 7:42:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: littleboyfluff

So, does it ever ocure to any of you, that maybe you're not a goddess, you're just wallowing in a 2 year old spoilt princess brat complex with anger management issues?

So, you can't find anyone to cater to the DO ME fantasy that is your profile so it's somehow their fault?

Four of of your five remaining posts in the forum have been whining about other people. Do you really think that's helping your search?



yeh so take stefs advice and delete everything from your profile its not necessary, the batshit crazy have no interest in what you are into, it doesnt matter anyway.

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 6/21/2017 7:47:48 AM   
Real0ne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

There are a couple of problems here that make for frustrating attempts on both sides.

Number one, are the scammers who are here under false pretenses simply to steal money from the gullible.

Second, is that many males list themselves as submissive, when in fact they are fetishist. There isn't anything wrong with being a fetishist, and this sight doesn't allow for individuals to pick that option.

The second issue leads into the third, where female dominant are actually searching for submissives keep running across fetishists who need their fetish met, whereas the female dominant needs a submissive to have her needs met as a dominant individual. Which in turn leads to women complaining about men wanting a fetish delivery system and men complaining about there being nothing but fakes.

Truthfully, many fetishist are not submissives, they don't have a desire to submit.
Those female dominants may not be fetishists, so they have no desire to serve a particular fetishists needs.

Compatibility is the issue and false labeling.

Finally, yes. There are the Goddesses and the princesses. I've known one woman who called herself Goddess who lived up to title. She is an amazing woman. Mostly, I find the "titles" to be silly but at least you have an idea of who and what you will be dealing with.

Sorry you are having a tough time meeting someone who is compatible with your fetish. Hang in there, and maybe try not to paint all female dominants with the same brush.



Do I hear sounds of 'reason'?

Yep same here 2 actually.


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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 7/2/2017 1:14:55 PM   
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I think both sides are correct....Though starting of with a hello lets chat like two humans and go from there does not seem to be working either

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RE: You're not dominant, you're just narcissistic batsh... - 7/23/2017 3:31:49 AM   
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awww you poor little thing, can't you find any women to play with? That's ok, I am sure after this little rant they will be flocking to your profile. Of course most will laugh and move on, but at least they looked, right?

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